Mermaid: A Memoir of Resilience
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4.3 • 13 Ratings
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- $11.99
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- $11.99
Publisher Description
"Extraordinarily courageous; [Cronin] chronicles her journey to fit in and thrive with bravery and wit." —O, The Oprah Magazine
At the age of three, Eileen Cronin first realized that only she did not have legs. Her boisterous Catholic family accepted her situation as “God’s will,” treating her no differently than her ten siblings, as she “squiddled” through their 1960s Cincinnati home. But starting school, even wearing prosthetics, Cronin had to brave bullying and embarrassing questions. Thanks to her older brother’s coaching, she handled a classmate’s playground taunts with a smack from her lunchbox. As a teen, thrilled when boys asked her out, she was confused about what sexuality meant for her. She felt most comfortable and happiest relaxing and skinny dipping with her girlfriends, imagining herself “an elusive mermaid.” The cause of her disability remained taboo, however, even as she looked toward the future and the possibility of her own family.
In later years, as her mother battled mental illness and denied having taken the drug thalidomide—known to cause birth defects—Cronin felt apart from her family. After the death of a close brother, she turned to alcohol. Eventually, however, she found the strength to set out on her own, volunteering at hospitals and earning a PhD in clinical psychology.
Reflecting with humor and grace on her youth, search for love, and quest for answers, Cronin spins a shimmering story of self-discovery and transformation.
PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
This rather circuitous memoir by Cronin, now a clinical psychologist in L.A., tells of growing up with a congenital disability that left her without legs from the knee down. The product of a large, deeply Catholic Cincinnati family, Cronin "squiddled" along the floor with ample self-sufficiency as a child until she began to recognize how she was different from other people, especially the members of her own athletic, sometimes cruel, family. Fitted with artificial limbs to attend kindergarten, Cronin mostly succeeded in being accepted as a "normal" kid, except for the gracelessness of others, such as her fifth-grade religion instructor, Sister Luke, who announced to the class that the reason for Cronin's disability was that her mother had taken "a pill" during pregnancy, though Cronin was never able to determine if thalidomide was involved. Her mother, teetering into mental illness after her 11th child, always insisted that Cronin did not have legs "because baby Jesus chose to carry the cross." Cronin describes the tortures of dating and young adulthood, but evades the big questions regarding her upbringing.
Customer Reviews
Mermaid: a memoir of resilience
Very easy and interesting book. I grew up with the author so I was intrigued to read the book. I enjoyed reading Eileen's perception of growing up years and have empathy for how difficult it could have been growing up as a disabled child in the sixties