Handbook for an Unpredictable Life

I enjoyed most of the book. Rosie, I have an understanding of what you endured because I and some of my siblings were there, though many years before you. My younger brother had it worse than me. The male counselors did terrible things to the younger boys. I didn't find out until many years later and it pained me to realize how hurt he was, and the anger he held inside. From this experience, we couldn't feel any trust in life and with other people. I have to admit I was looking for love in all the wrong places (people). Thankfully I married a smart businessman who provided me and our six children a wonderful life, so far. We raised our children in Scarsdale community. They have learned piano and violin lesson, supported the school with the cheerleading squad. We did belong to a golf club for many years during which they took up tennis, golf and lifeguard responsibilities. During and after reading your book, I couldn't help but continuously cry. I cry for our life there but also for my brother, Manny Aran, who was killed in the Bronx coming out of a store with other people. A drive-by shooting at the time. A year before he died he had told me what he and other boys had been subjected to. I was surprised to say the least. Thank you for acknowledging to others what life was in the home. Funny how most people can't believe how it was detrimental to us in many ways . Yes, we were fed, clothed with the minimum, and educated but no caring of us as young children in their care. It"s as if we were to blame for being put there. Funny it has been a while since I read your book but I tell some of the girls I keep in touch with to get your book. I think of your stories and realized, you too had a chance to succeed and made good use of it. I wish you and so many others the very best. Tears in my eyes I say good-bye.

What a amazing story. Kept captivated in your world. Rosie Perez you are indeed a angel walking among us here on earth. What a inspiration for those with hardships with no choice but, to walk straight ahead. I was a fan in the past of your talent and now a bigger fan of your perseverance as a woman. Good luck with your future projects, I will be watching. I would definitely recommend this book to all. So we all can learn to love unconditionally and be thankful for whatever hand life deals us.

Denise Kneller (Laurel, MD)

I like it and made me so sad that, people, always said nothing bad happend in the good times over the 50,60 and etc, because nothing was public, everything was on closed door. The 90 and 2000 are not the only ones with out feelings.