F the Fairy Tale
Rewrite the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story
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- $16.99
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- $16.99
Publisher Description
From a popular dating coach and podcast host, a guide to dismantling the myths that get in the way of finding love
Does dating feel like you’re chasing a “happily ever after” that always seems out of reach? You’re not alone: many modern daters are stuck following old rules, hung up on ideas like instant chemistry and “the One.” In F the Fairy Tale, love expert Damona Hoffman helps readers break free of those dating myths—and write their own love stories. Drawing on nearly twenty years of experience as a dating coach, Hoffman reveals the four pillars of strong relationships: goals, values, communication, and trust. And she doesn’t just tell readers what to do or not to do—she explains why, exploring the psychological and societal factors behind our behavior to help us break free of old habits for good. F the Fairy Tale gives you the tools to create the happy ending to your love story that’s just right for you.
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According to this canny debut guide, today's singles are hampered by beliefs that have become outdated in a technological age marked by increased choice, an expanded dating pool, and impersonal, round-the-clock communication. Among other myths, dating coach Hoffman debunks the idea that one must rely on an elusive "spark" for connection (readers should instead work on improving communication on- and offline), the tendency to seek a laundry list of ideal qualities in a potential match (it's smarter to prioritize three must-haves and one dealbreaker), and the hope for one true soulmate, which "prevents us from moving into a fulfilling, committed relationship." Offering plenty of useful nuts-and-bolts advice (including 10 "texting commandments" and tips for virtual dates), Hoffman strikes a tone that's sympathetic but not patronizing. She reassures readers that "even if it feels like you'll never meet your person, statistically speaking you probably will," though it might "take a little longer than it took your parents or grandparents and your partnership may look different than theirs." Those who've grown sick of aimlessly swiping will find hope.
