Freedom Of Fetish
By Raven Lightholme
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Podcast Description
Welcome to Freedom of Fetish, a sex, relationship, and fetish advice podcast and column hosted by Raven Lightholme. Raven's advice stems from her unique background--a law degree, a bachelor of arts in psychology, and her experience as a lifestyle fetishist. Ask her anything; nothing is too taboo. BDSM, relationships, orgasms, kinks and fetishes, techniques, ways to spice things up, fantasies, experimenting with toys, and taking your sex life outside the bedroom to parties and communities is just the beginning.
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 36: Mia Martina is back to talk about A Year of Sex & your naughty questions | Episode 36.0: In which Raven speaks with podcaster and smut writer Mia Martina about her new book, A Year of Sex, and answers your open relationship and sex party questions. Check out Mia at AYearOfSex.com, or find her podcast, I Want Your Sex, | 1/9/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 35: Answering your questions with comedian Ted Steier | Episode 35: In which Raven and her guest, standup comedian Ted Steier, discuss (and make fun of) a whole slew of kinky questions, including breaking the fart barrier, feeder/gainer fetish, and more. Here's to taking things a little less seriously. | 12/23/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 34: Princess Kali of Kink Academy, Humiliation, Complimenting a Woman, Labels, & More | Episode 34.0: In which Raven and her guest, Princess Kali of KinkAcademy.com and PassionateU.com, talk about humiliation, aluminum toys, how to compliment a woman, crossdressing, BDSM labels, and Kink Academy. - To leave a voicemail for the podcast, | 9/25/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 33: Queen/Knight D/s, Tips for Newbie Dommes, Potential Asexuality, & Mental Abuse Kink | Episode 33: In which Raven talks lady/knight D/s, resources for newbie dominatrixes, potential asexuality, & mental abuse kink. - Want to win a 1-year subscription to KinkAcademy.com? In 100 words or less, | 9/1/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 32: Crossdresser Camming, Combating Condom Droop, Kinky Scenes in Mainstream Movies, and More | Episode 32.0: In which Raven tells you how to pick out the real kinksters from the posers, talks to a crossdresser about his camming and sexuality issues, examines "condom droop," advises a domme on how to get her wimpy boyfriend to man the f**k up, | 7/23/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 31: Ageplay & ABDL with Mako & Spacey | Episode 31: In which Raven asks Mako and Spacey of The Big Little Podcast all your ABDL (adult baby, diaper lover) and ageplay questions. Part 2/2. You can find part 1 over on The Big Little Podcast, Episode 15, or just click here: http://www. | 6/3/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 30: Pegging, Kink Discrimination, Drag Queens, First FetLife Messages, & Crazy Bloodplay | Episode 30.0: In which Raven answers whether pegging makes you gay (hint: no), finding unique porn, attractions to drag queens, discrimination based on kink, psychotic bloodplay, & first FetLife messages. - | 5/26/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 29: Kink Shame & Divisive Issues in the Kink Community | Episode 29.0: In which Raven discusses being ashamed of your kinks, preserving your privacy in the scene, divisive issues in the fetish community, and post-sex guilt. - The outtro music for this episode is Rihanna featuring Britney Spears - S&M (Remix). | 5/7/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 28: Privacy Protection for Pervs | Episode 28.0: In which Raven gives her presentation on privacy protection for pervs, discussing how to protect your identity and control your information online. Next episode we're back to dirty sex; I promise. - To leave a voicemail for the podcast, | 4/13/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 27.0: The Definition of “Kinky” & Pro Domme Savannah Sly | Episode 27.0: In which Raven tries to define what the hell it means to be kinky and interviews professional dominatrix Savannah Sly. - To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voi... | 3/31/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 26.0: Brother Sister Incest, Fetish Club Fashion, & Male Bicuriosity | Episode 26.0: In which Raven answers your questions about brother/sister incest, how a bicurious guy can get some action, coming off as more dominant without being a dick, addressing age play, and dressing for fetish events. - | 3/1/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 24.0: Talking poly, religious hangups, BDSM titles, and marriage with Kaminaru | Episode 24.0: In which Raven and her polyamorous guest, Kaminaru, discuss getting a reluctant partner to top, quick and sexy restraint ideas, religious hangups, BDSM titles and honorifics, dynamics of kink/vanilla relationships, and sex in marriage. - | 1/16/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 23.0: Violet Wands, Email Breakups, TNGs, Kink Clues, and Sneezing Fetish | Episode 23.0: In which Raven gets her own embarrassing question answered by Dan Savage and covers violet wands as sterilization devices, email breakups, problems of the young and kinky, kink giveaways in a vanilla world, and sneezing fetish. - | 12/27/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 22.0: Talking FetLife with John Baku | Episode 22.0: In which Raven talks FetLife with its creator, John Baku, covering everything from FetLife etiquette to privacy features...and even some horse cock. - To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a messag... | 12/14/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 20: Myths, Truths, and a Live Demo of Erotic Hypnosis | Episode 21.0: In which Raven sits down with Buddy and Sibyl, hypnotist and hypnotized, to answer your questions about erotic hypnosis and give a play-by-play as Sibyl gets hypnotized live on the show. - To leave a voicemail for the podcast, | 11/24/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 20: Rope and Non-Rope Questions with Graydancer | Episode 20: In which Raven sits down with Graydancer of the Ropecast and several bottles of wine to discuss the big deal about rope, p***s size preferences, activism and sex education, safe self-bondage, metallic rope, rope hygiene, and much more. - | 10/27/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 19: Conn GRUE, Gushing Bloodplay, & Female Anal Orgasms | Episode 19.0: In which Raven records live at the Connecticut GRUE and talks celebrity stalking, kinky starter kits, gushing bloodplay, staying serious in roleplay, maintaining masturbatory focus, and achieving female anal orgasms. - | 10/20/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 18.0: Vanilla Fetish Clothes, 19 Year-Old Virgins, Micropenises, & More | Episode 18.0: In which Raven talks vanilla-ish fetish clothes, warming up a partner to both foot fetishism and sexual restraint, getting a geeky 19 year-old laid, and what constitutes a micropenis. - To leave a voicemail for the podcast, | 10/4/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 17.0: Professional Submissive Elle & How Not To Be Creepy | Episode 17.0: In which Raven interviews Elle, a professional submissive and lifestyle switch, about the myths verus realities of her job, and the two explain how not to be the creepy guy at fetish parties. - Oh, | 10/3/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitFreedom of Fetish Episode 16.0: Long Distance & 16 Year-Old Woes | Episode 16.0: In which Raven gives some announcements, talks full enclosure fetish with Felix Latexx, advises a 16 year-old listener over Skype regarding his long distance and virginity vow woes, and answers a kinky female’s question about her lack of . | 9/9/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 15.0 | Episode 15.0: In which Raven offers a primer for vanillas at fetish parties, discusses CFNM, fixes the awkwardness of webcamming, opines on why a girlfriend may be running to the bathroom after sex, talks about strip club sex, | 8/23/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 14.0 | Episode 14: In which Raven and her guest, Mia Martina of the podcast “I Want Your Sex,” tackle all your sex party-related questions, discussing tips for the newbies, a Brooklyn girl’s desire to throw her own sex party, | 8/5/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 13.0 | Episode 13: In which Raven interviews special guest Ms. NaughtyEm and the two discuss sexual stamina, whether having multiple partners is wrong, whether someone can talk too much about sex, a listener’s issue with the smell of sex, | 7/23/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 12.0 | Episode 12.0: In which Raven helps a listener get his girlfriend in the mood, talks about the odd dynamic of a submissive trying to pick up a dominant, addresses a male listener’s female stalker, and gets down and dirty with catfighting and catsuits. - | 6/30/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 11.0 | Episode 11.0: In which Raven provides a term for women who are attracted to crossdressing men, advises a boyfriend whose girlfriend does not want oral sex, addresses the illegality and implications of consensual incest, and discusses the power of taboo. | 6/11/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 10.0 | Episode 10.0: In which Raven interviews latex expert and fetishist 3XL about the appeal of latex, the difference between latex and rubber, what makes "good" latex, bigger people wearing latex, the expense of latex clothing, and custom work. | 6/2/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 9.0 | Episode 9.0: In which Raven tackles bad breath, discusses how to handle a jealous boyfriend at events, points out several sources of hands-on instruction for rope bondage, and gets psychological with a smattering of related fetishes: humiliation, | 5/19/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 8.0 | Episode 8.0: In which Raven speaks frankly about p***s size, advises the brother of the groom on how to attain a crazy bachelor party in New England, talks about erotic photography, and looks into body swap fetish. | 5/5/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 7.0 | Episode 7.0: In which Raven and her guest, a soon-to-be clinical psychologist, discuss alternative sexuality and psychological health when answering the age-old question: does an interest in BDSM require a history of trauma or abuse? In short, no. | 4/25/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 5.0 | Episode 5.0: In which Raven deals with grammar fetish etiquette, analyzes the ins and outs of threesomes, gives some pointers on how to take the "premature" out of "premature ejaculation," and talks to a bisexual teenager who likes to wear panties ever... | 4/14/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 4.0 | Episode 4.0: In which Raven addresses a girl who is wholly disinterested in sex with her boyfriend, explores potential reasons why a guy would demand to wear a blindfold during foreplay, and advises a rubberist who is seeking a professional Mistress's.. | 4/6/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 3.0 | Episode 3.0: In which Raven interviews former professional dominatrix Mistress Katia, and both Raven and Katia suggest variations of roleplay, explain how to prepare your body for anal sex, and advise a young man who is unsure of his dominant or submis... | 3/27/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 2.0 | Episode 2.0: In which Raven extolls the virtues of roleplay, demystifies the fetish scene for those scared to enter, and explains how to increase the likelihood of multiple female orgasms. | 3/18/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEpisode 1.0 | Episode 1.0: In which Raven gives a brief introduction to herself, talks to a woman who’s having a hard time with the “monogamous” label, and gives some tips to budding dominatrices who don’t have that natural killer instinct. | 3/16/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
| Total: 34 Episodes |
Customer Reviews
Confronting the taboo with honesty
Informative Q&A regarding sexual topics typically seen as taboo. The host answers questions frankly and honestly. You will learn about aspects of sexuality you've always wondered about and aspects you never knew existed. The host is new to the fetish scene and very openminded.
A Celebration of What Makes Us All Different
This is a podcast where those who feel they sexually have no home can feel at home. Raven, the host, is a smart, open-minded, fun person and her personality shines in each episode. You need never feel ashamed or alienated when you ask questions. She is genuine and accepting of everyone(unless you use a run-on sentence). Unlike most fetish-oriented podcasts, she doesn't devote most of her podcast to only the most popular kinks. Every twist gets their turn and is treated with as much respect as the "mainstream" ones. In short, subscribe, listen, learn, but most of all--HAVE FUN!
F*ing Awesome
I love this girl!! Honest and straight-forward! And she doesn't have that annoying, "I'm a sexy playboy bunny" voice. Just awesome!
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