He Said / sHe Said and They Said
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HSSS is not your Grandma's Hoda & Kathie Lee. It's a series of online talk shows that are a little crass and a lot of sass. HSSS's interactive social stream is a no-holds-barred he said, she said (and they said) perspective on life - in real time. Recorded live, on location & in studio, every week, these sometimes-raucous tete-a-tetes through the news and events happening now offers candid, and often comedic, views from several very animated personalities. One's a daddy. One's a drag. One's sharp. One's smart. One's high-maintenance. One's high...on life. The others are straight, gay, trans and just plain crazy. You get the idea. Join Aaron "AHizz" Heier and Ophelia Later as they romp through San Diego (and all over) to imbibe and entertain at different spots with different guests each episode. Then, watch Courtney Ray, Ian Johnson, Kelly Dorsey, Jerimiah Mertz & Alejandra Sandoval give their perspectives on what's hot & happening, locally & globally. No topic is off limits and the only rule is: drinks are included. Join the conversation or show up and be a part of the action.
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| 1 | VideoLIVE with DJ Shane Stiel 2/22/12 | Eardrums & eyeballs rejoice as Aaron & Ophelia welcomed hottie bear DJ Shane Stiel to the Brass Rail studio for a chat about his life, career and passion behind the turntables. DJ Shane Stiel along with his Haus of Stiel entourage has been working the club circuit for more than 15 years, playing gigs in major cities across the U.S. and collaborating with many well known producers and musicians. As the new resident DJ for Rich's monthly L.L. Bear event, Shane's really amassing quite a strong fan base through his nightclub sets & online podcasts. Get to know the man behind the "haus" that's bringing a new style and sound to San Diego's dance scene, only on HSSS.tv | 2/22/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 2 | VideoThey Said 2/21/12 | With moderator Courtney Ray on vacay in the Big Apple, Executive Producer Ophelia joined Ian, Alejandra & Amber this week at the Brass Rail studio to add a little sass to the panel. Topics at this week's roundtable discussion included paying high school students for good attendance, Fat Tuesday, Lent, Mardi Gras, local craft beer breweries, AFCSL softball, SDAFFL flag football, Dining Out For Life benefiting the Centers HIV/AIDS prevention programs & services + more. They Said will be going on a hiatus for the month of March to some fine tuning & panelist casting. Check back for the next new & improved They Said - the unique talk show where opinions matter and sexual orientation doesn't - the first week of April, 2012. | 2/21/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 3 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Hillcrest Pride Flag Committee | Aaron and Ophelia welcomed the fabulous Eddie Reynoso and Stefan Chicote (of the Urban Mo's/Baja Betty's/Gossip Grill fam) to our Brass Rail studio to talk about a topic hot in local media circles: erecting a 65 ft. rainbow flag at Normal & University in Hillcrest. Eddie and Stefan are part of the the Hillcrest Pride Flag committee hoping the flag will become a reality. With drinks in hand, the two shared the overall concept, its location, process, purpose and fielded some pointed questions posed by both Aaron & Ophelia who aren't entirely on board with project. Eddie & Stefan did a great job giving their opinions on why they feel the flag is needed monument to celebrate the residents & culture that have made Hillcrest what it is today. What do you think? Does Hillcrest need the 'Pride Flag?' Leave your comments below. | 2/16/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 4 | VideoThey Said 2/15/12 | Back at Hillcrest's oldest gay bar, the Brass Rail, Executive Producer Ophelia joined They Said's Courtney, Ian & Alejandra for this week's roundtable of topics, washed down with a little vino courtesy of our lesbian oenophile, Amber. Whitney Houston's tragic passing was hot on the list, along with Grammys wrap-up and some chatter on Adele, Chris Brown & Jennifer Hudson. The crew also talked about safety concerns with internet hook-ups, the ongoing debate over Hillcrest's pending Pride Flag, Valentine's Day, Imperial Court de San Diego's 40th Coronation, entertainment at this year's Absolut Mardi Gras and, of course, Dining Out For Life. Sign up to be an ambassador or get your favorite restaurant to participate. | 2/15/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 5 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 2/11/12 | After last week's Smashburger soiree, Aaron & Ophelia returned to the Copa Bar studio at Urban Mo's for a gabfest of EPIC proportions. Ophelia has spent the week with a hospitalized friend while Aaron hit Ramona to volunteer with rescued animals at Mostly Monkeys then Fiesta Cantina for the Madonna Bowl with her SD gay'tourage. We covered some hot topics including the INS detention & possible deportation of reigning Imperial Court de San Diego Emperor Allan Spyere, ICSD's 40th Coronation event, San Diego Pride's "Community Advisory Council," San Diego American Flag Football clinics & parties, recently closed and newly opened Hillcrest businesses, the 9th circuit's Prop 8 ruling, local artist & friend Rafael Acosta's memorial, quitting smoking & drinking, Absolut Hillcrest Mardi Gras + so much more. It's HSSS.tv after all. | 2/11/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 6 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Grace Towers 2/8/12 | Aaron & Ophelia welcomed San Diego’s beyond fierce andro-drag diva, Grace Towers, to the Brass Rail studio. A relative newcomer to San Diego’s drag circuit, Grace bound onto the scene with her impeccably flawless impersonation of Lady Gaga and, much like Mama Monster herself, has evolved into a unique, non-conforming drag performer whose appearance and style has morphed more than most Queens who’ve been in the business for decades. Grace talked about her passion for theater and dance, her over the top productions, charity involvement and what goes into becoming a truly authentic drag personality. Get to know Grace, up-close & personal, in her first in-depth interview, only on HSSS.tv. | 2/9/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 7 | VideoHSSS Gets Smashed with Smashburger Hillcrest | HSSS.tv's Aaron "AHizz" went behind the scene's with Smashburger owner Tom Ryan at the VIP pre-opening shindig of Smashburger's new Hillcrest location. Apron - check. Meat - check. Spatula - check. Smasher - check. Aaron got his smash on, working the grill like a pro...giving their lead cooks a run for their money. Stop by Smashburger in Hillcrest for one of the best hamburgers you'll ever stuff down your cakehole. Oh, and don't forget the milk shakes, they're nomnom! | 2/8/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 8 | VideoThey Said 2/7/12 | They Said’s post-Super Bowl chat fest featured a new face on panel, the fabulous wine gal Amber Regan, who spoke lesbianese for this week’s roundtable of news & hot topics. Courtney, Ian, Jerimiah & Alejandra help Amber get settled in, before diving in to Super Bowl / Madonna / commercials madness, which included some feisty words for CNN’s Roland Martin and his ‘off color’ comments about guys liking David Beckham’s H&M underwear ad. The crew also touched on Prop 8, Planned Parenthood, Susan G. Komen For The Cure and gave their take on boycotts and businesses refusing service to patrons. Ian finished off with several upcoming events including the San Diego Flag Football clinics, Laugh Out Proud comedy night at Martinis Above Fourth and the monstrously yummy Dining Out For Life. | 2/8/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 9 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said "Laugh Out Proud" with Sean Wherley & Sarah Burford 2/1/11 | This week, Aaron & Ophelia hosted two funny f*cks at our Brass Rail studio, local comedians Sarah Burford and Sean Wherley, co-producers & hosts of Laugh Out Proud. Laugh Out Proud is San Diego's only gay-produced comedy show featuring the region's best 'out' and allied comedians, held the 2nd Thursday of every month at Martinis Above Fourth. Sean and Sarah shared with us why they started Laugh Out Proud and how it helps showcase local gay talent that are often overlooked on the mainstream comedy circuit. They're a fun, sarcastic and funny as hell team who you can see do their thing live on February 9th at MA4 starting at 8p. Cover is free…but please, people, don't forget to tip the talent! | 2/1/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 10 | VideoThey Said 1/31/12 | With Jerimiah galavanting around the U.S. and a miscommunication with our first guest lesbian forcing the panel to be short two co-hosts, the remaining They Said crew had plenty to talk about, and rightfully so, as both Ian and Courtney sat in awe over Alejandra's voluptuous-ity! After getting all the niceties out of the way, they dove headfirst into a full list of topics that included POTUS' SOTU, Cynthia Nixon's "choice" of bisexuality, RuPaul's Drag Race (#TeamChad), the Super Bowl, Madonna, the Muppets retort to Fox News, prenuptial agreements and calls to 911. Then, Courtney put San Diego media on 'alert' regarding the mudslinging over San Diego's mayoral race. Finally, Ian finished off with some upcoming events. Don't forget to head out and support San Diego American Flag Football this season and Dining Out For Life this April. | 2/1/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 11 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 1/28/12 | Still basking in the glow of our fabulous interview with drag superstar Chad Michael, Ophelia & Aaron went completely off-the-cuff for this week's "LIVE From" at our amazing Copa Bar studio at Urban Mo's in Hillcrest. We talked everything from animals and drinking games, to Cynthia Nixon, Super Bowl, local sports like Flag Football and Softball and a little wrap-up on the SD Pride community advisory committee hullabaloo. Some great friends Jay T. & Jeff P. stopped by to heckle us but we managed to get through our chat unscathed. Do you have a topic you'd like us to discuss on HSSS.tv? Shoot Aaron and email and we'll be sure to give you a shout out! | 1/28/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 12 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Chad Michaels 1/25/12 | Leading up to the January 30th season 4 premiere of "Rupaul's Drag Race," one of our favorite local drag personalities, the incomparable Chad Michaels, stopped by our Brass Rail studio to chat about all things drag, Ru, Cher and lip-syncing for your life. This is the second time Chad has visited HSSS.tv, but sadly our first interview was lost in the depths of cyber space. This time, we were double prepared - record button pressed - and Chad wasted no time getting down to business. Candid, hilarious and full of energy, he shared some insider deets about being on Drag Race, how he got started in drag, the wildly popular Dreamgirls Revue & becoming known as the most prolific Cher impersonator in the business and what he thinks it takes to be America's Next Drag Superstar! Get the lowdown from the man who puts the Oh My Cher in drag, and then some. And, don't forget to set your DVRs for season 4 of "RuPaul's Drag Race," every Monday night on LOGO or head over to Urban Mo's and watch it with the rest of the city who'll be rooting for Chad to take the title. | 1/25/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 13 | VideoThey Said 1/24/12 | Ian, Courtney & Jerimiah welcomed Executive Producer Aaron to the They Said panel at our Brass Rail studio as the resident 'transian' (trans + lesbian) to dish this week's list of news & topics. Hot on the list, of course, was Courtney's favorite sport, football, and the upcoming Super Bowl. Of course, Aaron & Ian were more excited about Madonna's half-time performance & the commercials, which now have a bracket of their own for all your Super Bowl party fun. From NFL to college, the crew discussed the rather awkwardly-announced passing of former Penn State head coach Joe Paterno. Then, they talked Oscars, Starbucks offering beer & wine, same-sex marriage in Washington state, Cynthia Nixon's "choice to be bisexual" and our ongoing search for They Said's resident lesbian. If you think you've got what it takes, email Aaron or Courtney and we'll have you on as a guest host to test your skills. | 1/25/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 14 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 1/21/12 | This week's HSSS.tv LIVE from Urban Mo's in San Diego's gayborhood got down & dirty, after 5 o'clock shots were served. Aaron & Ophelia recapped their weekends of cocktails, trips to Lakeside and volunteering before diving waist deep into the rippled waters that are San Diego Pride. It's no secret Ophelia has been one of the most outspoken critics of Pride's seemingly endless c*********k of tweaks, turns, modifications & justifications and she wasted no time giving her 10 cents on recent news surrounding yet more changes to this year's Pride festival that will monetarily impact several community organizations. Aaron also questioned Pride's commitment and reciprocity to other organizations that have directly served them in past years. After letting that Pride dust settle, we moved on to L.A.'s pending law making condoms mandatory in porn movies shot within the county, and the great Girl Scout Cookie controversy, which Aaron detailed in his first blog for GuySpy.com. Don't forget to watch season 4 of RuPaul's Drag Race on LOGO to root for our own favorite diva, Chad Michaels who will be a guest on next week's show! | 1/22/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 15 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with the Imperial Court de San Diego 1/18/11 | With Coronation XL right around the corner, Aaron & Ophelia had the pleasure of chatting with the current reigning monarchs of the Imperial Court de San Diego, Emperor Allan Spyere and Empress Erika Odessa, at our Brass Rail studio. After Allan & Erika filled us in on the who, what, when, where & why of the ICSD and their 40 years of good deeds in the community, we got to chat with the candidates running for Emperor & Empress XL, the handsome Tom Dickerson and the fabulous Lady Ajax. Both shared their goals and ambitions for their reigns in the 40th year of the Imperial Court de San Diego. It'll be a weekend full of events, pomp & circumstance, culminating in the crowning of the 40th monarchs at a gala reception taking place at the San Diego Marriott Mission Valley. Watch the entire HSSS.tv webisode for info on where to buy your tickets to any of the weekend's events. | 1/18/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 16 | VideoThey Said 1/17/12 | They're baaaaaaack! They Said hit the Brass Rail studio square table for their first chat session of 2012. Noticeably absent was our lesbian voice, Kelly, who during hiatus made the difficult decision to leave the show permanently to focus her efforts on caring for her family. The entire HSSS team will miss her but know she'll be back to fill in when she can. Courtney got Ian, Jerimiah & Alejandra talking about their time off, including family functions, new jobs, new loves & new year's resolutions. Of course, it wouldn't be They Said without a little Charger chat, Gaga gab or differences of opinions on everything marriage to manscaping. This week, we welcomed new Producer Louis who's taking over for Producer Kurt on They Said, so he can dedicate 100% to wrangling Aaron & Ophelia. And, we're on a quest to find our new lesbian co-host. If you think you've got what it takes to be a part of the panel, email Aaron (aaron@hsss.tv) on "why you want to participate." Starting February 6, potential co-hosts will test their cajones LIVE during the webcast. After we've had each interested lesbian on-air, we'll let you, our viewers, choose the one you'd most like to see join the cast! So, remember to watch HSSS.tv and vote! | 1/17/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 17 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 1/13/12 | Back at our Copa Bar studio inside Urban Mo's Bar & Grill in the heart of San Diego's gayborhood, Ophelia & Aaron recapped their holiday hiatus with tales of motorcycle mishaps, Palm Springs travels, New Year's Eve kisses & new loves. Aaron introduced his new BF, Curtis, to the HSSS family and Ophelia regaled the live audience with stories of couch surfing, Charger the parakeet and lusting after cigar daddies at the Tool Shed in Palm Springs. The topic turned to one of our favorites of 2011, the religulous Christwire.org, whose legions of faithful followers have dubbed HSSS.tv part of their "Axis of Evil." Trying to convert our fabulous viewers, Christ himself sent us some swag to give away, an autographed copy of his new Christwire Handbook (the 10th commenter below wins the prize.) Finally, we had a couple of birthdays to celebrate: Ken's cute little nephew celebrating 6 years on earth & the incomparably intoxicated Producer Kurt, who's obviously turning 49! Sit back, turn up the volume & get caught up on all the HSSS shenanigans. | 1/17/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 18 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Chris Tina Bruce 1/11/12 | We're baaaaack! Our first webcast of 2012 at the fabulous Brass Rail studio and we were pleased to welcome the amazing Chris Tina Bruce to the HSSS hot seat. Sans Ophelia's signature intro, Aaron tried (and failed) to welcome all you viewers and audience members before diving in to questions with Chris Tina. In just a short 10 months, Chris has made quite a splash not only in the local LGBT community, but around the globe, with her personal journey from married straight man working in the corporate building industry to LGBT rights advocate, public speaker and becoming the first MTF transgender body builder. Inspiring, intelligent, friendly and super fun, Chris talked about everything from football, boobies and other body parts to health, fitness and living her truth, out & proud, in sunny San Diego. Get to know Chris and how her company, Hillcrest Fitness, can help you keep that New Year "intention" to stay fit and healthy all year long! | 1/11/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 19 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said 2011 Year In Review | Another year of He Said / sHe Said has flown by and both Aaron & Ophelia wanted to mark the end of 2011 with a special show highlighting our favorite HSSS & They Said moments of the past 12 months. LIVE from our fabulous Copa Bar studio at Urban Mo's, we recapped 2011 with categories including "Hottest Male & Female Guests," "Most Awkward Interview," "Favorite On-Location Spot," "Most Memorable Show Topics" and more. With more than 200 HSSS & They Said shows under our belt, this Little Web Site That Could has grown and evolved, from 30 views per episode to tens of thousand of views & downloads per month from viewers and fans in over 150 countries (huge shout-outs to Dubai, Korea, Australia & Brazil.) We're so thankful for all of you who tune in each week to check out our brand of news & views with a little booze. We'll continue to keep you informed & entertained in the year ahead. We've got some big plans in the new year & hope you'll stay tuned to find out what's happening as we continue to grow in big ways. Happy New Year from all of us at HSSS.tv - we truly appreciate you! | 12/27/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 20 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said Holiday Ho-Ho-Homocast 12/20/11 | Aaron was back at the Brass Rail studio with the Omazing Ophelia, sporting her fab new shirt courtesy of WearThatShirt.com, to chat about all things Holiday. We recapped our holiday party shenanigans all around the city, from house parties to bar events to friendly gift exchanges, that somehow ended with the acquisition of a Parakeet. Yes, this holiday season has been craycray, and it's just started. We shared memories of holidays past, favorite gifts and parties with the best food. Many bars around town are open on Christmas Day, from Urban Mo's to Eden to the Hole for Beer Bust, everyone has a place to get their jolly on. You can also pay it forward by donating some time or money to Hope For The Holidays, a group that will be spending time delivery food & essentials to the homeless on Christmas. Merry Christmas & Chag Chanukah Sameach to all our Jewish friends and family. Mazel! | 12/21/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 21 | VideoHe Said sHe Said 12/15/2011 - Lorena Gonzalez | This week the O-mazing Ophelia was on her own as Aaron was slaving away at the LGBT center. Lorena Gonzalez, Secretary/Treasurer at San Diego Imperial Counties Labor Council Afl-Cio (http://www.unionyes.org/) joined Ophelia for some "girl talk" not so surprisingly the topic kept coming back to men, including Doug Kolk, Bill Clinton, Carl DeMaio, and Grover Cleveland. Lorena also gave us information on the history of unions, the strong relationship unions have with the LGBT community, and the future plans of the San Diego Labor Council. Behind the scenes Ophelia made Lorena's advisors squirm a few times with her questions, and we think that makes for a great interview. | 12/16/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 22 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 12/9/11 | Our Copa Bar studio at Urban Mo's got professional (sorta) for this week's HSSS, with the fabulous George Cox stopping by with his fancy camera, monitor and lighting direction to help Producer Kurt behind the scenes. Aaron & Ophelia did a free-flowing gab fest on loads of topics, like the Chargers recent win after a losing streak, exclusive vs non-exclusive dating, Ophelia's Mexican Marriage Contracts, Showtime's Gigolos and Dave's Old Porn, sickness during the holidays, the "Prop 8 overturned" internet fail that got everyone in a tizzy and the upcoming wreath auction at Martini's Above Fourth. See if you can notice what else is different about the show while you watch it…and post your comments below. | 12/10/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 23 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Amy Gonyeau of Alpha Project 12/7/11 | Just in time for Christhanukwanzastice, Aaron & Ophelia sat down with two peeps at our Brass Rail studio who are both doing wonderful things in the community this holiday season: Amy Gonyeau, COO of the Alpha Project, and They Said's very own Ian Johnson, who's coordinating the 8th Annual MA4 Wreath Auction to benefit the Queen Eddie Conlon Youth Fund. First, Amy detailed all the wonderful projects & resources the Alpha Project runs not just now, but year-round, including San Diego's winter shelter and homeless blanket drive, a program near and dear to our hearts. Alpha Project offers an array of support services, from SD all the way up to Oakland, to those that are mentally ill, disabled, low/no income, homeless and seniors. Then, Ian joined us on set to talk about the upcoming wreath auction, now in its 8th year, that features beautifully designed holiday wreaths from local businesses, individuals & organizations that benefits the Queen Eddie Conlon Youth Fund, which helps LGBTQ youth with housing assistance, school supplies, clothes, food & other necessities. Ian also gave us a sneak peak of the 'He Said / sHe Said & They Said' wreath that features some mighty big balls…and lots of special, secret prizes. Wanna know what they are? You'll have to bid on it to find out. | 12/8/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 24 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 12/2/11 | After fumbling through set-up & some microphone malfunctions, the crew got this week's LIVE From show at our Urban Mo's Copa Bar studio off and running, even though Miss Ophelia was feeling a tad under the weather. Aaron & Ophelia chatted about World AIDS Day and a recent CDC study on HIV infection rates, a Baptist church in Kentucky that banned interracial couples from membership, the settled lawsuit involving San Diego Pride and its former E.D., online bullying in our own community, hottie Christopher Meloni's (Oz, Law & Order: SVU) possible vampire role on "True Blood" and the Gawker vs MommyBlogger hullabaloo over a Manhunt billboard. We finished with a few holiday events including the Bear Night 4th Anniversary party with special guest Mike Ruiz, the 8th annual MA4 Wreath Auction to benefit the Queen Eddie Youth Fund and the 3rd annual We Care holiday mixer to benefit Family Matters & the Memorial Prep Academy. | 12/5/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 25 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Wanda Walker 11/30/11 | As last week's show fell on Thanksgiving, this week Aaron & Ophelia recapped their holiday spent with family & friends, volunteering, drinking, Black Friday shopping…and pepper spray. Thankfully, neither were assaulted with a canister o' Capsaicin. But speaking of family, Aaron was delighted to get to meet the lovely Wanda Walker, Ophelia's infamous sister, in town all the way from Atlanta, who sat in the hot seat to talk about growing up with - and beating up - sweet, innocent little Ricky. Get the inside scoop on Ricky Walker and the birth of Ophelia Later direct from someone who knows how it all went down, and then some. Thanks for stopping by Wanda! Big shout out to all our friends & viewers in the ATL. | 11/30/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 26 | VideoThey Said 11/29/11 | Following the gluttony that was Thanksgiving, They Said regrouped at our Brass Rail studio to recap some familial holiday festivities and dish on the big news swirling 'round the inter webs. Producer Kurt joined the cast this week as Ian preps for some big upcoming events and Kelly takes an extended hiatus to care for her mom (sending prayers & good vibes your way, sweetie.) The crew hit the ground running, talking the Chargers on-field disappointments, Barney Frank's retirement, Herman Cain's growing sexual harassment claims, Miley Cyrus and the passing of our dear friend Sam Cuevas. Then, things got serious with a discussion about local group the Hillcrest Hot Messes, and an egregious Facebook attack directed at Kurt that brought up a thoughtful discussion about depression and compassion for those suffering with mental health issues. There were laughs, curse words, terse commentaries and even tears on this entertaining & enlightening They Said episode. So, we created a drinking game for this show: every time Courtney says "Lady Gaga" or "innocuous" take a shot! You'll be feeling good by the end, we guarantee. | 11/29/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 27 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with the SD Momfia 11/23/11 | Our Brass Rail studio has hosted lots of hotties, but few as hot as these blogging mamas, Theresa Hissong Seid, Beth Avant & Margo Porras from the San Diego MOMfia Inc (@MOMfiaInc on Twitter.) These three divas are truly arbiters in a giant network of influential moms on social media and the interwebs - known as mommy bloggers - who are more than just stay-at-home housewives. These women work hard and have amassed not only a loyal following of other parents, but a generation of internet news junkies who heed their advice on everything from breast feeding in public and toxic toys, to keeping the sexy-time "sexy" after the kids are asleep. Theresa, Beth and Margo dished with Aaron & Ophelia about a lot of things that affect all families, like bullying, tolerance, rules, unconditional love and accepting people for who they are - LGBTQIIA or otherwise. Oh, and also some tidbits about boobies, sippy cups & bitchy fans, too. You'll definitely enjoy this! | 11/23/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 28 | VideoThey Said 11/22/11 | It's Thanksgiving week & with several They Said-ers on holiday vacay, Courtney and Ian welcomed Executive Producer Aaron "AHizz" Heier and lesbian hottie Moe Girton of Gossip Grill to the Brass Rail studio, complete with new backdrop & lots to chat about. The panel tackled topics hot in the news including the Occupy Davis pepper spraying incident, the McDonald's egg supplier controversy, the "Power Bracelet" class action lawsuit, the investigation of a trans woman's tasering, Chaz Bono vs Stephen Beatty and some Real Housewives of Atlanta hullabaloo. In the spirit of the Housewives, Producers Joey & Kurt asked the crew do you have any unresolved conflicts with friends or family that you'd like to correct which garnered some very personal & thoughtful responses. The entire cast & crew of They Said would like to wish everyone a very Happy Thanksgiving - we are truly thankful for each and every one of you. | 11/22/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 29 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from The Great American Trailer Park Musical | This week, Aaron, Ophelia & crew took the show on the road to the Lyceum Theater on the set of San Diego REP’s production of “The Great American Trailer Park Musical” and as you’ll see from the background, we were right at home amongst the trailers, toilet planters & lawn chairs sipping on Bartles & Jaymes wine coolers. With Executive Producer MJ Topp in the audience, Ophelia tried to be on her best behavior, until the first F-Bomb was dropped, then all bets were off. ChristWire’s favorite Internet couple had quite a lively back ‘n forth about crashing the holy site, Doug Manchester, the Union-Tribune, Prop 8, bullying, suicides, the GOP Presidential clown car, words and their power (or lack thereof) and the funny as hell musical comedy about agoraphobia, adultery, vices & mac ‘n cheese set in a trailer park. Next week is Thanksgiving and we want to let all of you viewers, friends, family and fans know that we are truly thankful for you – it’s because of you that we continue to do what we do. | 11/18/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 30 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with ChristWire 11/15/11 | It's finally here, the epic interview we've been waiting months for. Earlier this year, Ophelia and Aaron chatted about a blog post titled "20 Ways To Tell If Your Teenage Daughter is a Lesbian" found on the holiest of sites on the net, ChristWire, and since, HSSS been a target of their "righteously" brutal anti-homo agenda. We've shared several of their blogs since, and they've fought back by exposing us as the gerbilling, homo-facist, man-dykes that we are. After months of back and forth, we nabbed the interview of the year - a sit down with ChristWire co-founder & regular contributor, Bryan Blake. Tattooed, toned & very easy on the eyes, Bryan shared with us how ChristWire started and what it has grown to become, a virtual magnifying glass for the often over the top idiocy that is the 'Religious Right.' ChristWire receives millions of hits a month, with contributors from across the globe and has spawned not only a book that debuts next month, but very soon, a play along the lines of the V****a Monologues. Get to know the man behind the Christ…wire. Oh, and speaking of vajayjay, here are 51 ChristWire-approved descriptors for the lady part that won't make you sound like a vulgar heathen! | 11/15/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 31 | VideoThey Said 11/15/11 | Hitting the square table at our Brass Rail studio, with a live audience that's growing every week, Alejandra, Courtney, Kelly & Ian were minus Jerimiah who had car troubles, but they squawked & talked their way through some serious and seriously funny news & hot topics of the week. Parenting was a hot button when Courtney brought up the Duggar's '20 Kids & Counting' as the panel debated how many kids are enough. Then, they honed in the Penn State sex abuse scandal and the mounting allegations against former defensive coach Jerry Sandusky. Other hot topics that stirred quite a few opinions included the Occupy movement, the NBA players contract breakdown, the suicide of 10-year-old Ashlynn Conner & San Diego's own Chad Michaels competing on the next season of LOGO TV's "Drag Race." Don't forget to attend the 2nd Annual Fuzzy Floozie Blanket Drive Kick-off event at Urban Mo's this Friday, hosted by our very own Ophelia & Aaron and the Transgender Day of Remembrance on Sunday, November 20 at the San Diego LGBT Community Center . | 11/15/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 32 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 11/11/11 | With the 'omazing' Ophelia off to work some weekend rodeo magic, the bodacious Miss Fifi, a fixture at Lips San Diego, joined Aaron at our Urban Mo's Copa Bar studio for our raucous weekly recap of news & views with a little booze. After getting to know all about Fifi, we dove in to some hot topics including the straight rugby player woke up out of a stroke as a gay hairdresser, the ongoing Penn State sex scandal and the Marines birthday and Veterans Day in San Diego, post-DADT Repeal, giving shout outs to our good friend Krisofer Allgary currently on deployment in Afghanistan. Then, we talked America's celebrity obsession, giving our views on Kim Kardashian's wedding, Lindsey Lohan's legal troubles, Justin Bieber's baby drama & more. We wrapped up with some big upcoming events including the 2nd Annual Fuzzy Floozie Blanket Drive Kick-off event at Mo's that Aaron & Ophelia will be hosting, and the annual Scot Carlson Community Thanksgiving Dinner on turkey day at the LGBT Community Center. Big thanks to Miss Fifi for filling in - you were fabulous. | 11/12/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 33 | VideoHSSS Double Dose: The New Martinis Above Fourth & Honoring LGBT Veterans | This week's "LIVE With" at our Brass Rail studio features a chat with two special guests in two segments. First, we sat down with Devon Neubauer, the new General Manager of Martinis Above Fourth. New owners Jim Simpson & Doru Tifui, along with Devon, have some great things in store fore the restaurant/lounge that will further enhance the Martinis experience. Devon gave us the skinny on all the upgrades, including the addition of a cabaret stage that will showcase live cabaret entertainment seven nights a week. Then, popular local activist, philanthropist and USMC veteran Bob Lehman came on to chat about several big events honoring our local LGBT veterans, including the dedication of the LGBT Veterans Wall of Honor at the San Diego LGBT Community Center and the LGBT military contingent marching in the annual Veterans Day Parade. Bob also talked about how you can get involved helping LGBT veterans through supporting organizations like Servicemembers United and Servicemembers Legal Defense Network. Thanks for your service, Bob, to our country and our community! Honor Every Veteran. | 11/10/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 34 | VideoThey Said 11/8/11 | After a Halloween hiatus of epic party proportions, They Said was back at the Brass Rail square table for another episode of views & 'tudes about everything happening in the headlines now. From the verdict in the Conrad Murray trial and the Texas Family Judge videotaped beating his disabled daughter to Justin Bieber-A-Baby-Daddy and Jerimiah's "two wives" Courtney, Ian, Jerimiah, Kelly & Alejandra chatted up quite a few hot topics and were quite opinionated. Producer Kurt asked "what do you think happens to you when you die" and the answers were as diverse as the hosts themselves. Ian finished up with some big upcoming events including the LGBT Veteran's Wall of Honor dedication, the Martinis Above Fourth Wreath Auction & the AIDS Walk San Diego Team/Volunteer Appreciation Cruise. | 11/8/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 35 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 11/4/11 | The HSSS crew took a mini vacay to enjoy a weekend full of Halloween festivities. Now, Aaron & Ophelia are back at the Copa Bar studio at fabulous Urban Mo's to dish & drink through the happenings and hot topics of the week. After recapping all of the costume & party shenanigans, we delved into news items including Kelly Osborne's twitter rant on 'chicks with dicks' which brought up the topic of stereotypes, labels and giving power to words. Then we moved on to a little Occupy update and followed that with the Kim Kardashian-Chris Humphries separation. Aaron shared his thoughts on the 'marketing' behind the wedding & Ophelia brought up some very interesting - and personal - food for thought on the situation. We finished up with big events including the Meatball Turkey Day Fundraiser, the Veterans Wall of Honor Dedication Ceremony, the ACLU Liberties Night membership event at Rich's & the annual holiday blanket drive kick-off event "Fuzzy Floozie" at Mo's that both A & O will emcee again this year. Thanks to all our fans & friends for continuing to tune in - you are the reason we continue to do what we do. So, pop in those earbuds & enjoy! | 11/6/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 36 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's: The ChristWire Chat | Mere days before Halloween, aka Gay Christmas, Aaron, Ophelia & crew hit the Copa Bar studio at Hillcrest hotspot Urban Mo's to gab about all the weekend's big events like Nightmare on Normal Street, multiple house parties, costume contests at all the bars and shout outs to the taxi companies who'll be busier than ever…because NONE of you should be drinking & driving. After recapping our weeks, we dove right in to dish about our fabulous feature on the holiest website on the net, ChristWire.org. Not only did they spell Aaron's name right, then wrong, then right again, they bagged on Miss Ophelia "Man Dyke" Later and her back alley bookstore, anal f*****g ways. The comments from readers were even better than piece itself. Composure regained, we talked about the big IGRA convention coming to San Diego in a couple of weeks & the crowning of new rodeo royalty. We wrapped up with a few personal recommendations for some not to miss TV shows this season. Happy Halloween, HSSSers! | 11/1/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 37 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with DJ Taj 10/26/11 | The hunkalicious fixture in the DJ booth at Urban Mo's, Taj Al-Taji aka DJ Taj, joined Aaron & Ophelia at the Brass Rail square table to chat about his life, career and new love. Taj has been working the DJ circuit in San Diego's nightclub scene for more than a decade, spinning everywhere from Numbers and the old Club Montage, to big gigs & special events at places like the Hard Rock Hotel and House of Blues. When he's not behind the mixing board, he moonlights as a sassy server slinging plates & smiles at Hillcrest hot spot, Mo's. Get to know this genuine, funny, talented gentleman whose "personality" is, as Ophelia says, "omazing." | 10/26/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 38 | VideoThey Said 10/25/11 | This week's They Said had quite a crowd at our Brass Rail studio, and with so much to talk about, it's good that the crew had some audience feedback and participation. Courtney, Ian, Kelly, Jerimiah & Alejandra had some big topics to dive into, including relationships, dating, sex while dating, the new Steve Jobs biography, Martha Stewart's daughter Alexis and her new book called "Whateverland" and what makes San Diego the luckiest city in America. Then, Producer Kurt posed a good question who do you go to for advice, that got some rather interesting responses from the panel. Finally, Ian wrapped up with some big upcoming events and holiday happenings post-Halloween happening all over the city. | 10/25/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 39 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 10/21/11 | Braving some mad crazy street construction, and hotties in hard hats, to hit the Copa Bar studio at Urban Mo's, Ophelia showed up with quite a bit to share about what's happening in her neighborhood. Aaron then turned the topic to m**********n causing clogged drains and the conversation immediately went a little NC-17 as we reminisced about visits to book stores and bathhouses in cities other than San Diego. Also, celebrating #SpiritDay by wearing purple, we discussed bullying in all forms and shared some personal stories about being bullied in school and how those experiences helped to strengthen our character and shape who we are today. Parents, take note, you are responsible for your children's behavior - both the bullies & the bullied. If your kid is a bully, teach them why it's wrong. If your child is being bullied, support them with every resource available and all the unconditional love you have in you because losing even one life to suicide due to bullying is one too many! | 10/23/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 40 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Nicole Murray-Ramirez 10/19/11 | Making his second appearance on HSSS, one of only two guests so far to do that, Nicole Murray Ramirez - known by many as Queen Mother Nicole the Great - graced our Brass Rail studio for some lively chat about LGBT history, politics, drag queens and Halloween. Never at a loss for words, Nicole gave us a bit of a gay history lesson, with much thanks to the native Americans who consider LGBTs "Two Spirited." After regaling us with stories of his travels around the country as the head of the International Imperial Court System, he dove right in to San Diego politics, the Mayor's race and what he thinks is ahead for LGBTs in both local and national politics. Winding it down, he shared some of his fun upcoming seasonal events, SCARY BINGO at Bourbon Street to benefit The Center & ANoteToMyKid.com and the hugely popular Nightmare on Normal Street Halloween party & costume contest. Do you have yours picked out yet? | 10/20/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 41 | VideoThey Said 10/18/11 | There was a "glaucoma" outbreak on the set of They Said and Jerimiah & Courtney had to take their "medicine." Once the after-effects took hold, the crew hit the square table for quite a lively chat about about all the news & hot topics fit to dish, including the Occupy San Diego movement, the Clinton Foundation concert featuring Lady Gaga, the Real Housewives of New Jersey debacle, Guiliana Rancic's breast cancer admission, the MLK Jr. sculpture dedication in Washington D.C. and, of course, the medical marijuana activist who threatened to jump off a bridge in San Diego…tying up traffic in Hillcrest for eight hours. Jerimiah & Courtney remained calm, cool, collected - and a little sleepy-eyed - while Ian talked all about the "new" Martinis Above Fourth, Alejandra dished all about the Catholic church and Kelly coveted her new iPhone 4S. Big upcoming events include MARYAH's Harvest Howl to benefit the Youth Housing Project, Nicole's scary Halloween-themed BINGO and, of course, Nightmare on Normal Street. | 10/18/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 42 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 10/14/11 | The crew braved our Copa Bar studio at Urban Mo's sans Producer Joey who's been busy with work to chat up this week's hot topics & s**t that makes us go "hmmmm!" After a quick interruption (and shot) with the fabulous Gouda, Aaron & Ophelia talked about big weekend highlights that included all the men & women in San Diego for the AFCSL Autumn Classic softball tournament…and the fun that ensued at the bars each night the players were in town. Then, discussing the new OWN show Oprah's Lifeclass, we talked about "ego" and how we think we've let our egos get the best of us. After putting our egos in check, we talked about the Occupy Wall Street and Occupy San Diego movements and the horrible mass murder in the Seal Beach hair salon, which certainly put Miss Ophelia on guard at her "day job" hoping none of her clients had angry exes. Big welcome to all the bears in town for BearQuake 2011 and the Mr. SoCal Cub & Bear contest at Rich's on Saturday, October 15. Hope to see everyone at the Hillcrest Hoedown on Sunday, October 16 where our own Ophelia will be serving up beer and boobs, er, booze in the liquor garden! | 10/15/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 43 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Patrick Wallace of ANoteToMyKid.com 10/12/11 | This week at our Brass Rail studio, Aaron and Ophelia were joined by Patrick Wallace, co-founder and Executive Director of ANoteToMyKid.com In just a few short months, Patrick has turned an idea into a movement - that idea being parents expressing unconditional love for their kids through letters. Inspired by the love and support of their parents, co-founders Patrick and Michael Volpatt created ANoteToMyKid.com to provide parents of LGBT and questioning youth, or any parent for that matter, with a platform for expressing this unconditional love. Since the site launched, they've received many notes from parents across the country, to their children of all ages - from infants still in the womb to grown sons and daughters living happy, full lives a distance away. Get to know Patrick and learn more about this site and how you can get involved in this movement of unconditional love. You a parent? Send in a note…and tell them you saw it on HSSS.tv. | 10/12/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 44 | VideoThey Said 10/11/11 | On National Coming Out Day and the anniversary eve of Matthew Shepard's death, They Said hit the Brass Rail studio square table, with Executive Producer Aaron filling in for Ian, to give their take on the week's big news & topics hot on the headlines. After a quick hat tip to Steve Jobs who passed away last week, the crew discussed the surge in Apple stock and the big iPhone announcement…even bigger was Kelly's move from droid (and Sprint) to the cult of Apple. Other hot topics included the apparent suicide at Occupy San Diego, the new Rosie O'Donnell show, Oprah's Lifeclass, the Netflix pseudo-appology, the Conrad Murray trial and Prince Harry's visit to San Diego! Don't forget, get your cowboy on this coming Sunday, October 16 at the Hillcrest Hoedown and start planning your Halloween costumes for the annual Nightmare on Normal Street party on Saturday, October 29. R.I.P. Matthew Shepard. We will never forget. | 10/11/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 45 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 10/7/11 | Ophelia looking as stunning as ever, braved her raging allergies just to spend time with Aaron at our Copa Bar studio at the fabulous Urban Mo's to give some lip service on the big news & hot topics of the week. After Ophelia regaled us with her Palm Springs rodeo & adult bookstore exploits, Aaron recapped his weekend spent with good friends at old haunts and a trip to the best farmers market in the city where the pumpkins were ginormous. Then, we dove in to the headlines, first giving an HSSS-style memoriam to Steve Jobs, then dishing the San Diego freeway shooter and road rage, oral sex and throat cancer, Occupy Wall Street and job automation, the 71 year-old granny busted for schtuping her boy-toy in the back seat of a car and the Texas girl with Down Syndrome voted homecoming queen. Don't forget San Diego Remembers Candlelight Vigil & Empowerment Ceremony on October 11 and get your manscaping on (or not) for the big BearQuake weekend starting October 13. Special shout out to ChristWire.org for thinking HSSS.tv rocks enough to receive their super limited edition handbook - it's EPIC! | 10/7/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 46 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Randy Bragdon & Jack D. Elliot 10/5/11 | This week, Aaron & Ophelia welcomed two besties, Randy Bragdon & Jack D. Elliot, who fused their love of music and horror films into one epic collaboration: producing killer dance remixes of popular horror flick scores, just in time for Halloween. Randy, who's well know in San Diego for real estate, comedy & laugh out loud Twitter snark, and Jack, who is a music wunderkind, having scored themes for many top TV shows & movies and written tracks for artists as part of Diane Warren's dream production team, formed DiscoPhantom and have remixed the hell out of popular horror film scores the likes of Saw, Halloween, The Exorcist, Scream, Nightmare on Elm Street and others. Samples are available on YouTube and complete tracks are available on iTunes. They have quite a story on how they met, how it all started and where their headed with their musical collab. Can someone say Grammys? | 10/5/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 47 | VideoThey Said 10/4/11 | It's the start of Breast Cancer Awareness and LGBT History Month and They Said kicked it off at the Brass Rail studio with a lively conversation about the big news and hot topics happening now. First, they dove into Barbara Walter's use of the "N" word on The View and their personal feelings on its use in conversation. Then, Ian gave us the insider deets on the recent sale of Martinis Above Fourth, what's in store for the restaurant and his fond memories of working there with Dale, Chaz, Johnny and the rest of the crew. Other big topics discussed included the random highway shootings in the San Diego that left one injured and traffic jammed for hours, Bevan Dufty's San Francisco mayoral campaign commercial, the bullying & suicide of Jamey Rodemeyer and this week's eagerly anticipated iPhone announcement. Ian finished off with some big events including the Harvest Howl, Nightmare on Normal Street, Mama's Kitchen's Pie in the Sky and the Center's upcoming Gala. | 10/4/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 48 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 9/30/11 | Officially a Hurricane now, Ophelia is sweeping through the Atlantic, barreling towards Bermuda, but not before enjoying a cocktail and chat with Aaron at Urban Mo's. We recapped our weeks filled with work, dinner parties, Charger games, AIDS Walk, "Sunday mass" at the Hole and more before moving on to local sports teams and the popularity of the gay bowling league. The current Michael Jackson trial prompted a conversation about how we would want to be remembered by friends and family when we pass and safe-guarding any 'private' possessions from certain people. The recent local lottery winner got us thinking about what we'd do with all that money, how we'd spend it and who we'd share it with. Congratulations to all the honorees on Saturday at the Freedom Awards Celebration taking place at The Center. | 9/30/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 49 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Iona Dubble-Wyde 9/28/11 | This week, Ophelia & Aaron chatted with one of the most recognized white faces in San Diego, Iona Dubble-Wyde, formerly of the San Diego Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. Having recently been excommunicated from the local order, Iona, whose drag persona has evolved into Ms Lona Excommunicado, talked about her years with the Sisters and passion for the organization's mission, what she feels happened, and how Iona (and Lona) are moving forward in a positive direction for the benefit of the community. Lona is one of the organizers involved in San Diego Remembers, a candlelight vigil and empowerment rally taking place on Tuesday, October 11, marking the anniversary of Matthew Shepard's death. The mission of San Diego Remembers is to raise awareness of hate crimes in the community & to remember those who are or were victims of acts of hate and/or violence because of their perceived sexual orientation or gender identity. | 9/28/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 50 | VideoThey Said 9/27/2011 | The Brass Rail studio was hopping this week, following the big AIDS Walk weekend. Jerimiah & Ian joined the crew back at the They Said roundtable to dive right in to the week's big news & hot topics. Ian led off with a walk day recap filled with some very poignant moments on stage and along the walk route. After Courtney put a call out for more bike racks in Balboa Park, they covered lots of ground, starting with all the changes happening with Facebook, Bristol Palin's WeHo cat fight caught on camera, Millionaire Matchmakers numerous flubs on "Watch What Happens Live," men with hair pieces, the grocery store self check-out controversy and President Obama's visit to San Diego. Producers Joey & Kurt asked the crew "if your life was a song, what song title would it be" and some of their answers were serious, while others were hysterical. | 9/28/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 51 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 9/23/11 | Ophelia channeled her namesake storm, whirling her way through the gayborhood all weekend, so she had a lot to recap with Aaron. After we got settled in to our studio set at Urban Mo's, where the only thing more fab than the drinks are the people who serve them, Ophelia shared her jam packed weekend of drunken debauchery before Aaron moved on to news & hot topics including the Facebook changes making everyone crazy, the prostitute busted for orally servicing an undercover deputy using a fake p***s, the BIG end of DADT and the Marine Recruiters taking advantage of a new marketing by recruiting at LGBT Community Centers. Of course, TV was a topic (everyone should watch Two Broke Girls) but this weeks big focus was "toxic friends" - the six types of toxic people to avoid…and speculating which type our friends think we are. AIDS Walk San Diego is finally here where all 20 Team He Said / sHe Said & They Said members will be sporting some pretty snazzy t-shirts, thanks to the Design Pup. Look for us & our big yellow shoe walking, caring & helping fight HIV/AIDS in San Diego. | 9/24/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 52 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Robin Roth 9/21/11 | If you've listened to rock 'n roll radio in San Diego in the last 10 years, then you know this woman merely by her sultry-rough voice: the leading lady of 91X, Robin Roth. Robin joined us at our Brass Rail studio to have a beer & a chat about both her club and radio DJ career, the local music & goth scene, social media and how she stalked…er, met...her husband. Robin's a genuine, classy lady with an edge who would, hands down, come out on top in a rock 'n roll trivia bar brawl. After the show, check out all Robin's musing on her blog! | 9/21/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 53 | VideoThey Said 9/20/11 | With Ian out working hard for AIDS Walk and Jerimiah sick at home on the sofa, Aaron sat in with Courtney, Kelly & Alejandra for this week's roundtable chat of news & hot topics. Big on the list was the end of the military's Don't Ask, Don't Tell policy (TODAY), which culminates in celebrations at the LGBT Center and several local bars around the gayborhood. After thanking our gay & lesbian military and veterans for their service, Courtney moved the dish fest onto other big headlines including the Danish sperm bank that discriminates against red heads, changes at Netflix, proposed changes for the U.S. Postal Service, whooping cough vaccination, all the iPhone rumors and, of course, this weekend's big event: AIDS Walk San Diego. Please help support HIV & AIDS services in San Diego by walking or donating to a team. Or, if you have some time, volunteer for the event…they could use some extra help. | 9/20/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 54 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Mama's Kitchen 9/16/11 | This week, Aaron, Ophelia & the HSSS crew took a break from our regular Urban Mo's studio location to visit the brand new home of Mama's Kitchen, one of San Diego's most beloved social service organizations that provides healthy, nutritious meals to those living with HIV, AIDS and cancer. Their lovely new 11,000 sq ft facility on Home Avenue will give them the ability to prepare, cook & bag food for not only current clients, but many more in need. We got a behind-the-scenes tour of their new digs, including Mama's Pantry, and Alberto's extra-large office, and discussed their upcoming event, Mama's Pie in the Sky - the annual pie sale starting on October 3. Then, we buckled down to share our Blackout 2011 experiences, the big Big Brother season finale and what we're excited for in the upcoming fall TV season. We finished off with some fun events including a big birthday party fundraiser for Stonewall Citizens Patrol, return of some Rodeo fun at Urban Mo's, Matchgame at the Hole to benefit our AIDS Walk team + so much more. Thanks to Alberto & Denise for being such gracious hosts. If you've got some spare time and want something constructive to do, volunteer for Mama's Kitchen - you'll be glad you did. | 9/16/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 55 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Doug Kolk 9/14/11 | It's not often that the entire HSSS crew & audience is smitten with a guest and that's exactly what happened with this week's man of the hour, San Diego's very own news reporting hotness, Doug Kolk. Happy to sit in the hot seat, Doug chatted with Aaron & Ophelia about how he got started in TV journalism, the travels that have taken him up and down the east coast to finally landing in San Diego, where he's solidified his news groove - 'fan base' - reporting for KFMB CBS channel 8. This was Doug's first time at the Brass Rail and he really enjoyed himself. Watch and find out why we're all a flutter of Doug and make sure you tune in to CBS in San Diego daily to catch him in action. | 9/14/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 56 | VideoThey Said 9/13/11 | Back at the Brass Rail studio having survived the San Diego Blackout, Jerimiah, Courtney, Ian, Kelly & Alejandra recapped their labor day weekends & how they handled the big Blackout of 2011 before diving into some big news & hot topics. After wishing Jerimiah a happy birthday, the crew talked about the 10th anniversary of 9/11, Serena William's outburst at the U.S. Open finals, the stabbing & SWAT stand-off in Balboa Park, what goes on at gay bathhouses, the new fall TV line-up and use of proper gender pronouns. Ian finished off with some BIG weekend events, most of which benefit AIDS Walk San Diego…which is right around the corner (9/25/11.) Have you signed up yet? | 9/13/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 57 | VideoHSSS LIVE Blackout Show 9/8/2011 | Coming to you LIVE from Blackout 2011 at Urban MO's Bar & Grill, Aaron & Ophelia got the inside scoop on all the electricity-less goings on from the patrons enjoying a little He Said / sHe Said antics. We feel for all those at the adult bookstores who experienced a climax fail during this outage. | 9/9/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 58 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 9/1/11 | Yep, it's official. Aaron & Ophelia made the big announcement today that our Thursday LIVE From show has found a permanent home, at our Copa Bar studio at the fabulous Urban Mo's. They'll be serving up shot & drink specials to audience members while we dish the deets each week in true HSSS style. Don't worry, we'll still be traveling around bringing you the best, latest & greatest San Diego has to offer - from big events to fundraisers to grand openings - but when we've got nowhere to go, Mo's is where we'll be. This week, we talked Chaz Bono & Cher on the Dancing With The Stars announcement, a gay bashing in Salt Lake City, boycotts on both sides of the spectrum, Big Brother & television drama, some Craigslist hilarity and the constant need to 'improve' things that are already working. Several LOL moments, including a little TMI on Ophelia's 'plumbing.' Have a safe & hopefully sun-filled Labor Day holiday. The whole crew is taking a break this weekend & we'll return next week…back at Mo's. | 9/2/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 59 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Frankie V. 8/31/11 | First, Aaron & Ophelia hosted Channel 933 FM's Geena the Latina at our Brass Rail studio, so it was only fair we host the other half of San Diego's top morning drive time radio show. This week, Frankie V sat in the hot seat and got a little flirty with Miss O, which was making her heart palpitate just a tad. Frankie was great fun! He talked about his family & growing up in Boston, career track in radio, favorite San Diego hot spots, working with Geena, Sonic and his radio cohorts and he very ingeniously avoided any straight talk about his "love life." He's a hot, handsome, sassy east coast boy who was a great sport. Watch & find out why he's now one of our favorite guests. | 8/31/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 60 | VideoThey Said 8/30/11 | With all the They Said crew back at our Brass Rail studio roundtable, Courtney, Ian, Jerimiah, Kelly & Alejandra got back to business dishing the week's news, events & hot topics that made headlines in one way or another. Ian recapped his Summer Splash Fundraiser for AIDS Walk San Diego at Martinis Above Fourth and shared his night at the Salk Institute rubbing elbows with Idina Menzel. Then, the talk turned to football, well, actually wine in the form of Charger Legacy 2008 Cabernet, Michele Bachmann's continued "crazy," Chaz Bono & Nancy Grace on Dancing With The Stars, Hurricane Irene, the VMAs and a rather frank discussion about the Nicky Awards. Yes, we were completely shut out. Oh well, there's always next year! | 8/30/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 61 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 8/26/11 | Getting our drink & dish on at Urban Mo's in Hillcrest, the whole HSSS crew tried to stay cool while Aaron & Ophelia sweated through the week's news, hot topics & events in this little San Diego heat wave. Following Cristina Monet's vomitous birthday celebration, Ophelia was back at the home remodeling projects while Aaron attended a friend's pre-deployment soiree at Bourbon Street & then 'found love' with Sade LIVE at Cricket Wireless. Big news of the week included San Diego Pride being called out for a lack of diversity at the festival, the BIG east coast earthquake, Hurricane Irene, the sluttiest cities in the U.S., the epic Big Brother backdoor & the lesbian charged with domestic violence for beating her girlfriend with a strap on. Final call for friends & fans to join the HSSS & They Said AIDS Walk San Diego team the cut-off for personalized shirts is August 28…the same day as the fabulous Nicky Awards! See you there. | 8/26/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 62 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Bill Biss 8/24/11 | This week, from the new HSSS set at our Brass Rail studio, we chatted with local freelance writer and media personality Bill Biss. Bill's bylines have been a fixture in local LGBT media circles for more than a decade from Buzz to Bottomline to Rage and everything in between. Bill's specialty is entertainment feature writing and celebrity interviews. He shared some of his favorite (and not so favorite) celeb 'gets' including Cyndi Lauper, Debbie Reynolds, Lady Gaga and more. | 8/24/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 63 | VideoThey Said 8/23/11 | With Jerimiah still out on vacation and Ian "recovering" from weekend events, Aaron joined Courtney, Kelly & Alejandra at the "new" Brass Rail roundtable for this week's dose of dish, news, topics & events. The crew went in-depth on some big headlines including Libya, the release of the West Memphis 3, puppy mills in Pennsylvania, meeting dates from sites and apps & some changes to upcoming TV shows. Then, Kelly geeked out, showing everyone her new WiFi baby monitor gadget that she can watch from her smartphone. We wrapped up with a producer question: if you were trapped in an elevator, what person would you want (and not want) to be trapped with, followed by our prep & plans for this coming weekend's big gay event: The Nicky Awards. We hope you voted for us! | 8/23/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 64 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 8/19/11 | Back at our fabulous Copa Bar studio at Urban Mo's Bar & Grill, the gayborhood was ripe & ready for Toast To Hillcrest…and our brand of news & views with a little booze. Aaron & Ophelia recapped their weeks of CityFest dunk tank festivities & new window installations and then moved on to talk about more serious issues like the gay rodeo, Abercrombie & Fitch's feud with MTV's The Situation, San Diego's "Hottest News Dude" Marc Bailey from CW 6, AIDS Walk San Diego, the Nicky Awards & the woman who eats her dead husband's ashes. We finished off with some fun upcoming events and some very special shout outs to our good buddy & former HSSS guest Ron Smith who's leaving San Diego for a new chapter in Seattle and the wonderfully 'omazing' John Laird and his partner, Aaron Borovoy. The entire HSSS crew sends our thoughts and prayers to both of you during this very difficult, trying time. Love & light, sweet Princes. | 8/20/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 65 | VideoLIVE with David of Scooter Brew 8/17/11 | Not only did HSSS get a lesson on brewing beer, we learned it can be done by a raccoon…sorta. This week, David White, owner & head brewer of Scooter Brew, the only gay-owned & operated craft brewed beer in California joined Aaron & Ophelia in the hot seat at our Brass Rail studio to talk about his love of beer & one very special raccoon, Lucy his beloved pet, whose palate helped perfect the malted grain combinations - one of the primary components that makes up a beer's flavor - for Scooter Brewery's line of craft beers. David, an out & proud gay man, has worked tirelessly since Lucy's passing to see his beer brewing dream become reality. He's self taught, self-funded (but seeking investors) and knows the intricacies of developing flavor profiles, brewing & bottling some truly unique and delicious craft beers. Scooter Brews' bottle labels - one for each color of the rainbow flag - represent six very distinct types of beer: black IPA, strong ale, pale ale, Russian stout, smoked porter with sage & regular ale (Lucy's signature recipe.) This is not 'gay beer' it's great beer and Dave is definitely on to something fantastic. Get to know all about him, Scooter Brew & Lucy, right here. | 8/17/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 66 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Gary Snyder: The Lost Webisode | From the 619 Bearcasters all the way to the East Coast bear community, HSSS certainly loves their bear boys. So, from the far reaches of Pennsylvania out on a special trip to sunny San Diego, the BurghBear himself, Gary Snyder, joined us at Pecs Bar in North Park for a chat about the bear communities on both coasts, bear-centric events & how he helps his local, regional & national LGBT bear communities by networking, having fun & making a difference. Get to know this fun & feisty lil' bear from the right coast up close & personal, only on HSSS.tv. | 8/17/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 67 | VideoThey Said 8/16/11 | The They Said crew, sans Jerimiah who took the night off, hit the Brass Rail studio roundtable for this week's post-CityFest news & views...and there was a lot of ground to cover. Courtney lead off the conversation with a CityFest recap including the Mama's Kitchen Dunk Tank, tater tots at R Gang Eatery & the packed house at Babycakes, while Kelly, Ian & Alejandra chimed in with their opinions on the new LED Hillcrest sign. Moving on to hot topics, they tackled the recent excommunication of a local Sister of Perpetual Indulgence, the father who decapitated his 7-year-old special needs son, Somalian famine, Bert & Ernie and the legal marriage of a trans woman and gay man in Cuba. Ian finished out with some fun upcoming fundraisers to benefit AIDS Walk San Diego and South Bay Pride happening August 20 at Chula Vista Memorial Park. | 8/16/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 68 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 8/12/11 | Back from a romantic river excursion & new home remodeling project - which made her hella to set - Ophelia joined the crew back at HSSS.tv's August host location, Hillcrest's always happening hot spot Urban Mo's Bar & Grill. After Ophelia detailed another eventful trip to the trailer at the river, Aaron shared some big news topics from around the world including the riots spreading throughout Britain, the Dougherty Gang fugitive siblings caught in Colorado, the promising new treatment for Leukemia and the alleged McDonald's zit popper arrested for grossing out customers. Then, the topic turned to one of our favorites, food, as we highlighted some of Hillcrest's new restaurants: The Range Kitchen & Cocktails, Snooze, Freebirds World Burrito, Brazen BBQ, Daddy's Hot Dogs & Luna Grille. Voting parties for the Nicky Awards (we're nominated along with They Said for Outstanding Online Media) are happening all weekend long at different bars & nightclubs throughout Hillcrest. And, don't forget to sign up for AIDS Walk San Diego & help in the fight against HIV/AIDS. | 8/12/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 69 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Geena the Latina 8/10/11 | Move over Ellen K, there's another fierce diva on the Top 40 radio waves and her name is Geena the Latina. One-half of the super popular A.M. drive time show on Channel 933 "Frankie & Geena," Geena, the gorgeous Latina joined Aaron & Ophelia at the Brass Rail studio this week to dish celebrity gossip, music, reality TV and being a successful female voice in the male dominated medium of radio. Geena's been working in radio for 9+ years in both the LA & San Diego markets and has earned her spot among those elite voices we hear on radio stations every morning. Fun, sassy & sweeter than cotton candy, Geena's been a go-to source for all things celebrity and entertainment since landing at Channel 933 as part of the original AJ's Playhouse morning crew several years ago. Not only is she a radio dynamo, but she loves her gays & wasn't afraid to go toe-to-toe with Ophelia on who had the cutest shoes. She shared some very personal stories about her family and life growing up in Los Angeles and then let her hair down discussing her favorite and least favorite celebrity interviews. Now, if we could just get her to fix the results of their Hottest News Dude in San Diego poll, we'd be set. Big shout out to Cousin Chris who tagged along for support. Geena was a great guest, so Frankie Vizzle has some pretty big 'wedges' to fill when it's his turn in the HSSS hot seat. | 8/10/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 70 | VideoThey Said 8/9/11 | With Kelly off for a little medical procedure, Aaron joined Courtney, Ian, Alejandra & Jerimiah at the Brass Rail studio for this week's noticeably sober roundtable of news & hot topics. Courtney started off the conversation talking about the U.S. economy, the debt deal deadline, compromises made and now, the downgrade of the U.S. credit rating. Then, the crew moved on to the horrible helicopter tragedy in Afghanistan that took the lives of 30 Americans. To boost the mood in the room, the topic of m**********n came up with Jerimiah, Ian, Alejandra & Aaron sharing some hysterical stories of their first time, while Courtney professed she doesn't do that sort of thing. Reality TV, CityFest, colon cancer, Craigslist and Ian's list of big events, including Nicky Awards voting parties (where you can vote for They Said & all the cast members,) local comedy nights & AIDS Walk team leader training finished out the gab fest…in record time. Producers Joey & Kurt have never been more pleased! | 8/9/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 71 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Urban Mo's 8/5/11 | We kicked off our month-long HSSS LIVE From at August's host location, the always happening Urban Mo's Bar & Grill in the heart of Hillcrest, with special guest co-host Jesse "GlitzGlam" Greika filling in for Ophelia who's off enjoying some quality river time. Bringing all the Glamour our gayborhood can handle, Glitz & Aaron dove right in, cocktails in mouth, dishing the week's big news, topics & events including Protect & Defend's big Party in the Desert (PID PAD,) the death of the last known gay Nazi concentration camp survivor, Nicky Awards voting parties around town & the rise of new HIV cases among young, black men who sleep with men. The new HIV study from the CDC prompted a deeper discussion on knowing your status, being responsible and protecting yourself and others from infection. We also touched on fetishes, from drag to leather to tattoos and discussed how words can hurt people - so choose them wisely. As the cosmos & Kick Ass margaritas took their toll, Aaron & Glitz slurred their way through some fun upcoming events including Team Trivia at the Hole, Bear Night at Numbers & Laugh Out Proud at Martinis. Don't forget to sign up for AIDS Walk San Diego…Team He Said / sHe Said & They Said would love to have you walk with us. | 8/5/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 72 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Doug Lathrop 8/3/11 | This week, Aaron & Ophelia invited the fun, spunky & super cool Doug Lathrop to join us at our Brass Rail studio to talk about his life as a gay man with disabilities. Intelligent, charming & witty, Doug is far from 'disabled' and has some pretty mean wheelchair moves to prove it. He's a senior editor for the monthly magazine, New Mobility, and recently came out to both friends & family in the pages of the magazine. Doug's got many talents and isn't afraid to let his inner-geek shine…just ask him to show you his tattoos. We talked about everything from meeting guys, hooking up and finding a partner, to the lack of wheelchair-accessible establishments in the gay community. Get to know Doug, his story and what it's like for him now that he's out & learn some wheelchair etiquette from someone who knows a thing or two about being constantly at crotch-level (i.e. patting on the head…not so good.) Thanks for joining us, Doug! | 8/3/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 73 | VideoThey Said 8/2/11 | They Said was back in action at the Brass Rail roundtable this week with Jerimiah already three sheets to the wind, but holding his own. After the crew discussed the who, what, when & where of the Nicky Awards and all the fabulous San Diego LGBTQA community members who were nominated, they got down to some serious & silly business talking about the debt ceiling, Eva Longoria's new lesbian movie "Without Men," relationships and honesty as the best policy. Ian finished up with big upcoming events including the Family Matters Children's Clothing & Toy Swap, Summer Splash at Martini's to benefit AIDS Walk San Diego and, of course, the Nicky Awards event…San Diego's "gay Oscars." If you have ideas on what the crew should wear so they make Nicole's Best Dressed list, please leave your comment below or connect with us on Facebook. | 8/2/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 74 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from R Gang Eatery 7/29/11 | HSSS brought the crew & fans back to one of our favorite San Diego restaurants, Top Chef hottie Rich Sweeney's R Gang Eatery in Hillcrest. Sipping down a couple of $5 signature cocktails from RGE's Happy Hour Refueled menu, Aaron & Ophelia winged it through their weeks filled with hysterical stories of camping trips, "river folk," cliff diving, BBQs for Stonewall Citizens Patrol, the relocation of a sneaker hoarder & the need for a few new Nicky Awards categories. When the monkey bread & pork skewers hit the table, we dished one of our favorite TV shows, Big Brother, and gave predictions on which house guests will make it to the final four. After a few more signature cocktails, we wrapped up with some shout outs to viewers & friends watching from across the land. Big thanks to Sister Lona for helping out while Producer Kurt tended to his "kitty." | 7/30/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 75 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Mike Dinwiddie 7/27/11 | Aaron and the newly bronzed goddess that is Ophelia shared the Brass Rail studio spotlight with local event personality & gameshow host, HIV/AIDS activist, country singer & all around fun guy, Mike Dinwiddie. Mike's had quite an interesting journey from office 9 to 5-er to aspiring country music star, yet still remains a genuine gentleman. Active in the community, Mike's participated in two AIDS Lifecycle bike rides from San Francisco to Los Angeles, helping to raise needed money for HIV & AIDS services. On top of that, he's a social butterfly who mixes his out 'n about with a little fun, hosting interactive trivia and other gameshow-inspired nights at The Hole including the popular Match Game, which returns on September 16th to benefit AIDS Walk San Diego. Oh, and about that country music dream, Mike recorded a CD (www.cdbaby.com/cd/mhansen) and this boy has got some chops. | 7/27/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 76 | VideoThey Said 7/26/11 | They Said kicked off this week's roundtable of topics at our Brass Rail studio talking about two biggies: the President Obama's DADT Repeal Certification and the 36th Annual Nicky Awards Nominations. Then, Courtney, Alejandra, Jerimiah, Kelly & Ian - all Nicky Award nominees individually and collectively for this here show - talked in depth about DADT, DOMA and the Respect for Marriage Act, the tragedy in Norway, the death of Amy Winehouse, Comic Con and Courtney's big move back to the gayborhood. Then, the crew got personal when Producers asked, "would you date someone who was HIV+." After some insightful discussion, Ian wrapped up with several upcoming events including AIDS Walk San Diego (there's still time to join Team HSSS / They Said,) San Diego Gay Men's Chorus "Guy Tunes" concert, Laugh Out Proud at Martini's Above Fourth and Olive Onemore's Summer Splash event. | 7/26/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 77 | VideoLIVE from the Caliph 7/22/11 | If you love pianos, Broadway showtunes & lots of sparkle with your cocktails, then the legendary Caliph is your spot. Aaron & Ophelia enjoyed some signature Caliph hospitality out on the bar's patio while getting busy chatting about this week's news, topics & events. After recapping our weekends of sick dogs and San Diego Pride, we talked DOMA and the Senate Committee hearing about repealing the law, the pending repeal certification of DADT, Harry Potter's record-breaking opening weekend, Cinepolis luxury movie theater opening in Del Mar, Team HSSS & They Said for AIDS Walk San Diego and v****a hygiene - specifically in preparation for oral sex - thanks to some great tips from mommy blogger The Sexucator. Events not to miss include the 2011 Legacy Concert hosted by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence at The Center and the 36th Annual Nicky Awards Nomination Ceremony at Martinis Above Fourth. Stay cool & drink lots of water...it's getting hot out there. | 7/23/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 78 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Jeff Praught 7/20/11 | Gearing up for a new sports talk show coming soon to HSSS.tv, Ophelia & Aaron invited local sports guru & out athlete Jeff Praught to our Brass Rail studio for a chat about all things LGBT sports in San Diego. Jeff, who spends his days working as a producer/writer/statistician for the San Diego Padres, is a devoted sports fan and active player in several local leagues. We talked about everything from major athletes & coming out to pool and dart leagues, swim meets, wrestling and rugby. Jeff is truly a one-stop shop when it comes to San Diego's gay sports activities and is passionate about the camaraderie created amongst the players, participants and fans. Learn what's going on in our city's active LGBT sports scene from the man who's got his finger on the proverbial pulse. Ya, he's a tall drink of hotness, too! | 7/20/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 79 | VideoThey Said 7/19/11 | Back at our Brass Rail studio following a big 3-day Pride celebration, Courtney, Ian, Kelly, Alejandra & Jerimiah hit the roundtable for a recap and discussion of the week's news, events & hot topics. The crew covered lots of ground including: Food Truck Fabulousness, San Diego Pride weekend, more Casey Anthony verdict backlash, USA Women's Soccer at the World Cup, the Rupert Murdoch News of the World scandal & the suspicious death of a woman in Coronado. Then, the crew gave some very interesting perspectives on having sex on the first date. Ian finished up with upcoming events including the Legacy Concert at The Center, comedy night at Flick's and AIDS Walk San Diego. Haven't signed up for a team yet? Join the He Said / sHe Said & They Said team...our t-shirts will be fierce! Thanks to Ian's little brother Sean Johnson for hanging out & watching the show LIVE. | 7/19/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 80 | VideoLIVE from Redwing 7/15/11 | The crew hit North Park happy hour hot spot Redwing again this week for our pre-Pride showstravaganza! Aaron knocked back a few tall boys (and maybe a Bloody Mary) while getting us caught up on the news that's now including the woman who castrated her husband and chucked his p***s in the garbage disposal, the Target CEO's campaign donation to Michele Bachmann, drug-resistent superstrain of gonorrhea, the primetime Emmy nominations & the 36th Annual Nicky Awards. Then, Ophelia took to the mic for a new segment, Ophelia's Flames & Fans, where she got stern and serious about the San Diego Pride organization, its operation and Board of Directors. We finished up with some big weekend gayborhood events like Fur Ball at Numbers, Pride Hangover Brunch at R Gang Eatery, High Tea at the Andaz San Diego Hotel & Church at Babycakes. The volunteers from Stonewall Citizens Patrol will be out all weekend helping keep the streets safe for Pride weekend so if you see them, make sure to give 'em a wave. And, don't forget to sign up for AIDS Walk San Diego, it's right around the corner. Happy Pride, everyone! | 7/15/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 81 | VideoLIVE with Ladonna Monroe 7/13/11 | Just in time for San Diego Pride weekend, Aaron & Ophelia welcomed one drag diva extraordinaire to the HSSS.tv Brass Rail studio, the one and only Ladonna Monroe. An established fixture in the Southern California drag scene for more than 15 years, Ladonna has amassed a cult-like following thanks to her wit, style and spot-on impersonations of stars like Lucile Ball, Annie Lennox and Reba McEntire, among others. She's been active as one of the headline names of Dreamgirls Revue, currently hosting their popular Saturday night show at Bourbon Street. Ladonna talked life, drag and Jagermeister love while giving us the inside dish on all the queens on the scene including the "Who's Who of So Cal Drag." | 7/13/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 82 | VideoThey Said 7/12/11 | Back on at the roundtable in our Brass Rail studio, They Said had a lot of news and events to cover after last week's little vacay. Recapping weeks filled with bartending, barbecuing, girl fights and sunburns, Jerimiah, Kelly, Courtney, Ian & Alejandra gave their take on the latest big news topics including the Hillcrest fire, Casey Anthony trial & verdict, U.S. Women's Soccer, the Royal visit to California, Rupert Murdoch's News of the World scandal, the prison chaplain arrest for paying inmates for oral sex & the 16-pound baby born in Texas. When Producers asked "If you caught your BFF's partner cheating on them, would you tell them," there were some very surprising responses from the crew. Ian finished out with big events including Food Truck Fabulousness to benefit AIDS Walk San Diego, San Diego Pride events around Hillcrest + more. Have a comment for crew, connect with them on Facebook or leave it below. | 7/12/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 83 | VideoLIVE from The Hole 7/8/11 | Back from a quick little holiday weekend with Producer Joey in tow, we descended upon the pretty much world famous Hole in Pt. Loma for our weekly dish of news & views with a little booze. San Diego's getting hot, noted by Aaron's persisting sweat, but with bevies in hand, we recapped our Fourth of July weekends and moved on to hot topics: the Casey Anothony verdict, the passing of Jason "Cowboy" Huggins, the federal court's DADT discharge stop order and the 3-alarm Hillcrest fire that displaced several residents and businesses including gayborhood staple Obelisk Book Shoppe. Then, Aaron & Ophelia discussed first date etiquette and gave their personal do's & do not's. Finally, after sweating through a second shirt & mini pitcher of beer, we wrapped up with upcoming events including Bear Happy Hour at Pecs, Ophelia's Wet 'n Wilder fundraiser for the HYC, Food Truck Fabulousness to benefit AIDS Walk & the Center's Champagne Breakfast to kick-off Pride. And don't forget, you can join the He Said / sHe Said & They Said AIDS Walk team NOW - you'll get a sexy new team t-shirt to wear for the walk, too. | 7/8/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 84 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Michelle Guerin 6/29/11 | Live from the Brass Rail studio where Monday's are Manic, drinks are cheap and bartenders are hot, Ophelia & Aaron welcomed the reigning diva of San Diego nightlife, Michelle Guerin, local entertainment reporter and editor of DiscoverSD.com. Statuesque and oh so gorgeous, Michelle sipped vino and shared with us her story as well as gave us the inside scoop on all things hot & happening in San Diego's burgeoning restaurant, bar & night club scene. We also talked about the hyper competitive local media landscape and the hard work involved in constantly staying on the pulse of the city. Check out Michelle's 'must do' list of hot spots in America's Finest City, only on HSSS.tv | 7/5/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 85 | VideoThey Said 6/28/11 | Jerimiah was out with the sniffles, so Courtney, Ian, Alex & Kelly held down the fort for this week's They Said roundtable of perspectives on the news & hot topics happening now. LIVE from the Brass Rail studio, the crew got deep about New York's passage of same sex marriage, high profile sex scandals and the brutal attack of local community member Cowboy that's left him in a coma & his attacker facing attempted murder charges. Producers Aaron & Kurt posed a few thought-provoking questions that lead to some very intense debate before they wrapped up with several big upcoming events. Have a comment for the crew, leave it here or connect with them on Facebook. | 7/4/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 86 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Redwing | With Producer Joey on a much needed vacay, Aaron & Ophelia winged it, with great help from Apprentice Kurt, through the news, hot topics & laughs of the week, including some fun questions from the live audience. Cocktails at the ready, we dished on customer service, AT&T UVerse vs Cox Communications, the OJ Simpson-Oprah confession hoax, HIV testing, the Hillcrest youth prom and the Soul Plates benefit for Being Alive. The King & Queen of PDA (Public Displays of Affection) La Lee & Trent were in the audience which sparked a fun & funny conversation about kissing, handholding and sex in public. What are your thoughts on PDAs - leave us a comment below. | 7/3/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 87 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Charlene 6/22/11 | This week, Aaron & Ophelia had the pleasure of welcoming 80's pop music icon, Charlene, to the HSSS hot seat. From top of the charts, to palling around with Michael, Stevie & Diana, to Top of the Pops & American Bandstand, Charlene's been to paradise...but has never been to the Brass Rail. Charlene's smooth, angelic voice with R&B flair lit up the radio waves with "I've Never Been To Me" in the early 80's and since has had a whirlwind life filled with family, candy shops & writing, both music and books. The singular hit she made famous not once, but twice, has reemerged in current pop culture having been immortalized on the small screen by Just Jack on Will & Grace, in movies like Shrek the Third & Priscilla: Queen of the Desert and on the gay dance scene, having been remixed seven ways to Sunday by some of the biggest DJs on the circuit. Get to know this truly one-of-a-kind, sweet & sassy lady and what's in store for her in the future, only on HSSS.tv. | 6/22/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 88 | VideoThey Said 6/21/11 | Do not attempt to adjust your screens, what you're seeing is actually correct. With Jerimiah's white legs at the immediate left & Courtney dead center, They Said switched up the seating arrangement and added a few new segments to the mix of news & hot topics on the roundtable. This week, the crew shared highlights from big weekend events like the Amazing High Heel Race and dished news including the ongoing Tracy Morgan gay sensitivity saga, the death of a Jackass cast member & Anthony Weiner's resignation. Then, producers posed a few questions & each crew member gave their perspective on punishments for drinking & driving and what one trait from the opposite sexual orientation they most wish they had. You'll be surprised at what they had to say. Tune in for all the juicy deets + more. | 6/21/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 89 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Redwing 6/17/11 | This week's raucous talk at Redwing was a riot, but not like that in Vancouver over the Canuck's Stanley Cup loss, which we did touch on. And, it was a welcome home show as one of our favorite Military men was in attendance after just returning from a long deployment (thank you for your service, Sir.) We laughed, drank and chatted our way through hot topics & happening including new furniture purchases, Cox Communications, the flag football championship, a graduating design pup, politics, Weiners and straight men taking on lesbian personas (Gay Girl in Damascus & LezGetReal.) And, that was just the first half. Remember, knowledge is power. Help Lead The Way by getting tested for HIV - it really is no longer optional. | 6/17/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 90 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Lead The Way 6/15/11 | This week's LIVE in-studio guests are San Diego VIPs in a big way. On numerous shows, both Aaron & Ophelia have stressed the importance of being tested for HIV, so we were happy to welcome several of the personalities behind the newly launched Lead The Way campaign, Isabel Cruz owner of Barrio Star, Kinsee Morlan reporter for San Diego CityBeat and Dr. Susan Little from UCSD. Lead The Way is a first of its kind study orchestrated by UC San Diego's School of Medicine that aims to get everyone in 92103 + 92104 to answer the question “Would your or wouldn’t you take an HIV test?” If you would, LTW offers a free, confidential HIV Rapid Test that will give you your results in 10 minutes. If you would not, they'd like you to fill out a short, confidential survey. By participating in this study, you are helping them better overcome barriers to HIV testing. If LTW can get everyone to test, they can get treatment to everyone who wants it. And effective treatment can reduce the chances of HIV transmission by up to 90%. Dr. Little explained why, after 30 years of AIDS with still no vaccine, studies like Lead The Way are so vital in helping to prevent further spread of the disease. Kinsee, Isabel & our own Aaron then shared why they said "yes" to being part of the study's promotional campaign, leaders in the community helping Lead The Way. People, knowledge is power. We at HSSS would get tested. Would you? | 6/15/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 91 | VideoThey Said 6/14/11 | Even with Jerimiah feeling a little under the weather, and new mama Kelly running on very little sleep, this week's They Said was a chat-filled roundtable of all things hot in the news now. The crew dished about the ongoing Weinergate controversy, the Casey Anthony trial, San Diego Mayor's race, the Real Housewives of Orange County reunion show, the Amazing High Heel Race, the current state of Don't Ask Don't Tell + more. Then, the producers wanted to know what the crew thought about sexting others if you're in a relationship: is it cheating or is it harmless? Some of their opinions might surprise you. Finally, the fabulous Ian wrapped up with some great upcoming events in and around the gayborhood. | 6/14/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 92 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Redwing 6/10/11 | In North Park, that place where “everybody knows your name” is Redwing Bar & Grill, the host location this month for “HSSS LIVE From.” With a PBR tall boy at the ready for Aaron, and a berry concoction for Ophelia, we recapped a weekend filled with San Francisco drag the way only Ophelia can do. Then, we moved on to news items like Weinergate, plastic surgery, the IGRA’s “It Gets Better” video, lgbt ally Gwyneth Paltrow & AIDS Lifecycle. We talked in depth about San Diego’s LGBT media & activists while sharing an excerpt from Nicole Murray-Ramirez’s latest column in the LGBT Weekly talking about responsibility, owning ones words, change and growth and then delved into our own personal ‘do overs if we could.’ After the extended chat fest, which had Producer Bo in perpetual ‘wrap-up’ we finally wrapped things up with big local events including the San Diego American Flag Football championship games this weekend, Church at Babycakes, Wii Olympics and the Red Flash Mob in Balboa Park to commemorate 30 years since the discovery of HIV/AIDS. | 6/10/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 93 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Brian Hill 6/9/11 | Aaron & Ophelia have snuck into the "Bear Cave" a time or five and this time, they got the Mother (er, Daddy) of Bear interviews: Brian "Woof" Hill. Not only is Brian sex-on-a-stick hot (Aaron has a total man-crush) but he's a fixture in the San Diego bear community organizing bear events and outings, bartending at Pecs Bar and playing the Whoopi on the popular 619 Bearcast podcast. Brian drank, laughed and chatted with us about the bar he works at, the bears he hangs with and the bear community he has certainly helped shape in America's Finest City. Brian's quite an opinionated bear whose sometimes edgy perspective causes controversy with his cast mates. But, he's always a genuine, fun, lovable, witty & smart sexabear. Wait, did we say that already... | 6/9/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 94 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Babette Schwartz 6/8/11 | Since starting the show, Aaron & Ophelia have been wanting to interview the icon, the legend, Miss Babette Schwartz. Well, this week, the stars finally aligned and Babette's busy scheduled allowed her a rare night out to sit in the hot seat and chat about her life, events, charity involvement and namesake store - you know, that happy place in Hillcrest with the best cards, t-shirts and other tchotchkes for every occasion. From bars, Bingo and Babette's Christmas, to rabble rousing around town with our own Ophelia back in the day, get to know this truly one of a kind drag personality, up close and personal. Aaron has never felt so short. | 6/9/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 95 | VideoThey Said 6/7/11 | Following a much needed holiday break, They Said came back this week ready to get their talk on and wow did it get heated. Back on panel was new mama Kelly who was eager to share all the baby Skylar updates with the rest of the crew. Then, everyone dug into some big news events including the death of Dr. Kevorkian, the NY Yankees, Jerimiah's clean-shaven face, Weinergate & what constitutes cheating. Then Producers Aaron & Joey introduced a new Weekly Hot Topic segment where the panelists share their opinion on a certain subject. This week, a Florida teacher punched a student in the face. Was it excessive force or self defense? Here's what They Said. ; | 6/7/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 96 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from RA Sushi Bar 6/3/11 | When it's for charity, we'll try anything once...okay, probably twice. This week, the whole crew was invited to one of downtown's most happening sushi spots, RA Sushi Bar & Restaurant where not only did we webcast live, but Aaron & Ophelia got their asses behind the bar to sling some hooch as the 'celebrity guest bartenders' for Nicky's Week, a week-long benefit at RA to help raise money for St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Scott, RA's General Manager shared with us the story of 13-year-old Nicky, the nephew of one of the restaurant's founders who lost his battle with cancer and why they continue to support the important work that St. Jude does. Aaron & Ophelia also got caught up on the news & gossip of the last week, discussed the upcoming summer TV season that includes the return of Big Brother and True Blood, and finished off with upcoming events: Rampart 2.0, San Diego American Flag Football semi-finals, Mr. & Ms Trans San Diego, Church at Babycakes, the monthly Community Food Distribution and more! Oh, and there were some saucy questions from the grab bag, too. Big thanks to the beauties of J Public Relations for coordinating the shindig - we had a blast. | 6/3/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 97 | VideoWebisode 1: The Lost Footage | Fished from the depths of Ophelia's fabulous drag closet comes the very first He Said / sHe Said show, feared lost forever but omazingly found thanks to a little spring cleaning. Camcorded LIVE on the patio at #1 Fifth Avenue in March 2010, Ophelia & Aaron wanted to get together, have some cocktails and film the conversation. Of course it's never that easy, so after several attempts & a final realization they had no idea what they were doing, they called in the big guns (Bo & Joey) and gabbed through what would be the building block of now over 100 webcasts. Grab a snack, sit back and have a listen...the show certainly has come a long way, baby. ; | 6/1/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 98 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE from Pecs Bar 5/27/11 | Just in time for Memorial weekend, Aaron, Ophelia & crew hit the newly expanded patio at everyone's favorite neighborhood bar, Pecs. A man's bar, bear country, or just an all around fun hang out, Pecs opens at 2PM every day serving up cheap, stiff drinks, tunes, pool, food & absolutely zero attitude. We drew quite crowd as we delved into our weekly recaps and talk big news including the tornados and storms through the midwest, the Rapture, Adele, American Idol, Dharma Dogs and other new food trucks in San Diego and our own fond farewell to Oprah. We also reminisced our favorite Memorial weekend memories, quick weekend getaways and where we were 30 years ago when AIDS was first discovered. Of course, we finished up with upcoming events including Church at Babycakes, Rampart 2.0 at Brass Rail, Bear Night at Numbers and our big HSSS special event at Ra Sushi downtown on June 2 where Aaron & Ophelia will battle it out behind the bar to raise money for St. Jude Children's Hospital as part of Nicky's Week of celebrity guest bartenders. Yes, it will probably be a hooch-slinging s**t show but it's for a great cause! | 5/27/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 99 | VideoHe Said / sHe Said LIVE with Bill Bouvier 5/25/11 | Making a special trip to San Diego for a chat with Aaron & Ophelia, LA-based hottie mchottness DJ/producer/promoter and all around gentleman, Bill Bouvier, shared the HSSS sofa for this week's 'LIVE with.' After a successful PR career working with some big brands and top celebrities, Bill moved to LA and has been an unstoppable fixture on the club circuit for more than 10 years now. From The Factory & Ultra Suede to HERE Lounge, The Abbey and everywhere in between, boys have been dancing to his mixes at parties, events & regular club nights on both coasts. He Joined DJ Brett Henrichsen's MASTERBEAT family in 2006 to help run company and transitioned to become the opening DJ for Masterbeat's numerous events and bookings. Now, Bill is adding song writer & producer to his repertoire, collaborating with dance hit diva Erin Hamilton on the "Strength" Project, a club track that will help raise funds & awareness for gay marriage and equal rights. The track will be released on June 11th and a $1 from the sale of every track will be donated directly to the Human Right Campaign's ongoing efforts to promote equal rights for all. Bill was candid, charming, funny and oh so yummy to look at. A huge thanks to his hubby, Troy, for letting him get away on date night so he could talk with us. ; | 5/26/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| 100 | VideoThey Said 5/24/11 | The absence of Kelly on panel this week means she's a new mama! Huge congratulations to Kelly & Abby on the birth of their beautiful baby daughter, Skylar Lee. Now that Babywatch 2011 is finally over, Ophelia joined Courtney, Ian, Alex & Jerimiah to talk about some big hot topics including Arnold Schwarzenegger's lovechild, monogamy and infidelity in relationships, the Urban Mo's remodel and the passing of loved ones and friends which segued into a deeper discussion on destructive behavior and accountability. This was a deep, often intense discussion. If you have comments or feedback of your own on any topic discussed, please leave them below. | 5/24/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
| Total: 100 Episodes |
Customer Reviews
He Said She Said
As most would see interesting, I completely love watching/listening to aHizz and Ophelia online while I work in the office. These two have a way of making me life every time. They are very "straight"-forward and good for the community. I since beginning watching, have moved FAR away but still listen to every episode!
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Omazing!
I listen to this podcast at work (well mostly listen, you can not help but look at the screen from time to time). I can not believe how quickly an hour goes by listening to He Said sHe Said, it's like having drinks with two talkative friends. Aaron and Ophelia have made me laugh out loud, and I am sure blush a few times, while learning more about their take on what going on in the world, the San Diego community, several new phrases, and introducing me to individuals in the community. 5 stars!
(They Said is relatively new and has entertaining moments. Love that each person on the panel seems to be speaking more, just wish they would take turns talking. 3 stars.)
Not A Fan
They don't even get a star. I listened to it a couple of times because they were calling people out.
It was 1 hour of the most inane babbling I've ever had the misfortune of listening to, and who are these people to be so disrespectful. They are wannabes is this the best our community has to offer in personality?
They Said was ok they if they have a different podcast I would give them some props at least that group wasn't so pretentious.
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