Life on the Swingset - The Non-Monogamy Podcast
By Life On The Swingset
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Podcast Description
A podcast about swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and "the lifestyle" from the trenches. A diverse group tackles many issues involved with non-monogamy and what it means to be a swinger from the point of view of educating and illuminating what, for many, is a confusing journey to start on.
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ExplicitSS 63: Swinging For Dummies IV – Relationships, Websites, & Sexy Vacations | We wrap up our "Swinging For Dummies" primer for the swinging lifestyle with the future. We discuss the types of relationships you might want to have with your swinging playmates, how to discuss that with them, how to determine what you're trying to get out of swinging, what websites you might use, and then shamelessly we implore you to join us in Desire this November. (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/the-swingset-takes-desire/) Cooper & Marilyn will be attending the Queen of Hearts ball in St. Louis (http://sexstl.com/queen-of-hearts/) on February 25th and would love to meet any listeners/readers/swingsetters! | 2/6/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 62: Swinging For Dummies III – Rules & Group Sex | We squick Dylan out with talk of dragon sex. Dylan vindicates himself with a listener voicemail about post vasectomy emptiness, then discusses his gigantic balls. Once we establish that Shira is the Dummy of the title, we begin by discussing the difference between soft swap and full swap, same and separate rooms, and group sex. We discuss developing community, not rushing, and rules, how being drunk is a turn-off. You're dating as a team. | 1/30/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 61: Swinky – A Very BDSM Show Length Business | The Swingset crew gets quickly sidetracked by business that rapidly consumes the show. Dylan wants to be a Dom, Shira is enjoying being submissive. Cooper assigns the listeners the quest for a high quality strap on dildo that can squirt. We talk about being a switch, Cooper reveals his submissive tendencies, and we realize that we've talked far too long to continue the Swinging For Dummies show before next week. John Mayer's Body (http://ficdn.fashionindie.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/john-mayer-rolling-stone-shirtless-03.jpg) | 1/23/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 60: Swinging For Dummies II – Talking To Your Partner About Non-Monogamy | We continue our "Swinging For Dummies" discussion by moving into how to talk to your partner about your interest in non-monogamy. We weigh the idea of non-monogamy being a "deal-breaker" for your relationship and the future. Also on topic is potential for jealousy, the importance of LOTS of communication, and the excellent resources Sex at Dawn (http://www.amazon.com/Sex-Dawn-Stray-Modern-Relationships/dp/0061707813/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1326736650&sr=8-1) and Opening Up (http://www.edenfantasys.com/opening-up/adult-toys-dvds-25515#pcode-FKF). When all is said and done, it's important to remember that you're going to be okay TOGETHER. | 1/16/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 59: Swinging For Dummies I – Realizing You’re Non-Monogamous | We go back to basics in the first of our Swinging For Dummies episodes. But first, returning friend The Professor tells us about Ginger's panty-less New Years Eve celebration. We talk about the moment when we realized we were non-monogamous and how we dealt with that paradigm shift, how it impacted our perception of ourselves, and where we take that. We talk about cheating and deception while trying to be monogamous. We discuss the impact of monogamy on bisexuality, the complexity of polyamory, and how to begin. Learn more about Life on the Swingset's Trip to Desire (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/the-swingset-takes-desire/) This episode sponsored by The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) | 1/9/12 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 58: Bareback or Condoms: A Bad Swinger Sex Party | After a spirited reading of the suggested uses for the Hitachi Magic Wand, Cooper claims to be the Steward of Gondor, and Dylan and Cooper describe their swing party that went bad. Learn more about Life on the Swingset's Trip to Desire (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/the-swingset-takes-desire/) This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) | 12/31/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 57: 12 Vibrating Yule Logs – Sex Toys, & The Smitten Kitten | Cooper & Marilyn talk about their reconnecting hiatus, and their usage of Great Sex Games' Unpredictable (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/1383/review-great-sex-games-unpredictable/). The gang discusses some of their favorite sex toys including the nJoy Eleven, the Hitachi Magic Wand, Lelo's Siri C**t Vibe, Boris & Doris' The Cooper (http://bndpodcast.com/603/the-cooper/), The Mystic Wand, The Feeldoe, and more with Clare from The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/), who also tells us all about running a sex positive toy shop, shopping for toys, the evolution of the industry and more. Merry Happy everybody as we close down the second season of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast! Learn more about Life on the Swingset's Trip to Desire (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/the-swingset-takes-desire/) This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) | 12/18/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitPP 10: Postulant Polyamory – A Roadmap for the Newbs Part 1 | Gavin is taking a stand in this episode of POSTULANT Polyamory. It's time to welcome the newbs.. apparently. First, Shira talks about dating a swinger and Gavin talks about going to a kinky BDSM rope party and learning about Japanese rope bondage and other fun knotty origami ropey things. Then s**t gets basic: What is polyamory? Who is polyamorous and who isn't? How do you prepare yourself for entering the world of polyamory? Where do you find a community of poly peeps to get you started? How much does communication help in a relationship? How do you set boundaries? How do you convince your partner to go on this trip with you? What are the pros and cons of polyamory? Should you have veto power? What about tokens? Find out by listening to this episode of POSTULANT polyamory. | 12/15/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 56: A Voicemail Gang-Bang – Anal Sex Play, P***s Size, & Pregnant Swingers | After Cooper talks about kissing a boy for the first time, the crew answers voicemails about dealing with p***s size concerns while swinging, anal sex play for bi males, reactions to pregnant swingers in a party situation, and our biggest surprises in our time as non-monogamous folk. Learn more about Life on the Swingset's Trip to Desire (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/the-swingset-takes-desire/) This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) | 12/11/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 55: The Non-Monogamy Umbrella II – Swingers, Open Relationships, & Polyamory, 2gether 4 Eva | We continue our discussion with poly activist and organizer Pepper Mint (http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/), but first Cooper and Dylan blow a "fight" over the word queer out of proportion. We discuss eroticizing jealousy, Ginger gets hot over the idea of "straddling the line," Pepper discusses polyamory and gay men. Cooper becomes militant about coming out and rails against the forces of "old and evil." And of course, we all get silly many times. Follow Pepper on twitter @freaksexual Learn more about Life on the Swingset's Trip to Desire (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/the-swingset-takes-desire/) This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) | 12/4/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 54: The Non-Monogamy Umbrella I – Can’t Swingers And Polyamorists Get Along? | Pepper Mint, polyamory blogger, activist, & organizer joins us for a dialog on why the swinging and polyamory camps still have trouble getting along. We rant about a swing club that has been shut down by the authorities. Cooper doesn't want to "put baby in the corner" but finds it easy to shuffle Shira off to the poly side, but even she is shocked by the discussion of poly sex parties. Dylan is horrified to find that sometimes people want to move in after a month; and Ginger confesses her origin story involving Pepper. This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) Yearning for a sexy vacation? Why don't you join us in paradise when Life on the Swingset Takes Desire (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/the-swingset-takes-desire/) | 11/27/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitPP 7: Meeting Watson – A study in Virgins and Labels | Hey, look! Shira found a virgin to interview, but before that starts listen as Shira and Gavin discuss some hate mail they received. Find out where the Katz' stand on the issue of dating people with STI's and figure out what is causing the SEX DROUGHT. (One hint, parents: co-sleeping!) Then off to virgin land. How does one handle themselves before they have the labels of straight, gay, monogamous, or polyamorous? What can we do to facilitate our virginal friend? | 11/23/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitB2: Swinging with Jade & Kidder Kaper | Jade and Kidder Kaper join Cooper & Marilyn on the Swingset to talk about seeing each other with someone else for the first time, moments of jealousy, their swinger bucket list, pegging, and Kidder's seasonal masturbatory patterns. Join us on Kasidie.com with Kidder & Jade and get a 60 Day Free Trial! (http://www.kasidie.com/?referredby=LifeontheSwingset) | 11/19/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 53: Naked In Paradise II – The Swingset Takes Desire Resort & Spa | We continue our chat with Jim & Char of CharTravel about lifestyle vacations, focusing more on Desire as a whole as Shira asks a number of nitty gritty questions about passports, cost, and the nudity policy. Cooper rants about the foolishness of booking flights with Travelocity. Ginger gets lost in her own little world of Desire fantasies. We discuss food, alcohol, excursions and other things to do at Desire Resort & Spa. Learn more about Life on the Swingset's Trip to Desire (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/the-swingset-takes-desire/) This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) | 11/13/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 52: Naked In Paradise I – Sexy Vacations and Desire Resort & Spa | Have your vacations lately seemed a bit too dull or full of minors? Well tonight we're talking about vacationing the sexy way and taking a lifestyle trip. We discuss the ins and outs of going on a lifestyle or nude vacation at any level of the sexually open lifestyle, about etiquitte, and how to protect yourself and your relationship. We also thoroughly discuss Desire Resort & Spa and our upcoming trip to this fabulous spot in Cancun, Mexico in November 2012. Learn more about Life on the Swingset's Trip to Desire (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/the-swingset-takes-desire/) This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) | 11/5/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 50mk2: Our Evolution II – Anal Sex & Male Bisexuality, Getting Flogged & Opening Up | We continue our 50th episode reflection of what we're still learning in the lifestyle when Cooper talks about his first one on one mandate and how he feels it pushed him back to a solid 2 on the Kinsey Scale, and Shira discusses an experience of being flogged, beaten, and spanked and how she's in an exploratory mood lately. Correction Note from Shira: Hey listeners! I totally botch the name of Kevin Allison's show in the business portion of this podcast. If you are interested in hearing Kevin's podcast, the name is Risk! and it can be found at risk-show.com (http://risk-show.com/). Please go and give it a listen - Kevin has been broadcasting some great stories about polyamory, non-monogamy, kink and much more! Thanks! <3 This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) | 10/28/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSS 50mk1: Our Evolution – Polyamorous Leanings, Coming Out Sexy | The Swingset crew celebrates their 50th episode with reflections of how we can still learn new things in the lifestyle. We wish Shira a happy Swingset Anniversary. Ginger sends Prof to a sexy party SOLO! Dylan and Tonia explore polyamory and talk to their son about non-monogamy. Ginger yearns to come out as non-monogamous, so we discuss the levels of being out and the normalization of non-monogamy. This episode sponsored by: Adam & Eve (http://www.adamevetoys.com/)and The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) | 10/22/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 49: Unite The Clans! Coming Together on Swinging Sites & Sex Clubs | After Shira horrifies us all by talking about a potential boy-toy's penile subincision, we manage to pull it together and discuss the changing landscape that is online swinger sites and sex clubs along with our special guest Emily from Kasidie.com (http://www.kasidie.com/?referredby=LifeontheSwingset). We talk a bit about the history of the website, and Emily's role there, but use it as a springboard to discuss the larger themes of how the word is spreading about non-monogamy, and how welcoming and accepting out communities can be. This episode sponsored by: Adam & Eve (http://www.adamevetoys.com/) The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) and Close2You's Opus G Spot Vibe (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/opus#pcode-FKF) | 10/15/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitB1: Swinging With Boris & Doris of BnDPodcast.com | Cooper & Marilyn sit down with Boris & Doris, hosts of the Boris & Doris Podcast (http://bndpodcast.com/) and discuss returning to non-monogamy, getting into bondage and BDSM, airtight, jealousy and compersion, the best and worst times, stainless steel sex toys, bisexuality, gspot orgasms, gushing, and more! Join us on Kasidie.com with Boris & Doris and get a 60 Day Free Trial! (http://www.kasidie.com/?referredby=LifeontheSwingset) | 10/15/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 48: We’re Porn Again – Our Fetishes & Home-Made Porn | Dylan asks Shira how polyamorists feel about one night stands. We all talk about the kind of porn that gets us going, then each of us admits to what our guilty pleasure porn is; Cooper feels very bad about his and insists everybody is judging him. After the break we discuss homemade porn, what we've all made, and why swingers take pictures and video. The Swingset's Recommended Porn Sites: Domai: Joyful Nudes of Beautiful Women (http://domai.com/) - Suicide Girls (http://suicidegirls.com/) - Water Bondage (http://www.waterbondage.com/site/?c=1) iFap.to: Mobile Porn (http://ifap.to) - YouPorn (http://youporn.com) - The Art of B*****b (http://www.theartofblowjob.com/) rss feed/tumblr porn: Lady Cheeky: Smut For Smarties (http://www.ladycheeky.com/) - Gimme Some Ginger (http://gimmesomeginger.tumblr.com/) - Down the Rabbit Hole (http://alicedigitalis.tumblr.com/) Art or Porn: You Decide (http://art-or-porn.com/) - Bend Me Over (http://bendmeover.net/) This episode sponsored by: Adam & Eve (http://www.adamevetoys.com/) The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) and Close2You's Opus G Spot Vibe (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/opus#pcode-FKF) | 10/1/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 47: Naked People Doing Dirty Things – Porn All Around Us | We wonder if pubic hair is making a resurgence, find out that Shira has no tolerance for young people, discuss how we first encountered and discovered porn. We learn that Ginger didn't believe people actually had sex in porn. Shira talks about her past with jealousy over porn. The boys refuse to let Shira go into body negativity mode. Then we all talk about what we've learned from porn. Internet Pornography Statistics Infographic (http://www.onlinemba.com/blog/stats-on-internet-pornography/) This episode sponsored by: Adam & Eve (http://www.adamevetoys.com/) The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) and Close2You's Sinfonia Vibe (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/traditional-vibrators/sinfonia#pcode-FKF) | 9/24/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 46: Burning Man ’11 Pt 2 – Fear & Loathing on the Playa | Uh oh! You heard the last podcast and were left wanting for juicy details? The second part of our Burning Man shows reveals exactly what happened between Dylan and the Majestic Woman he met at Burning Man 2011. You will also find out if there was love in the air for Shira B. Katz. Emotions run high in this heartfelt episode recorded just one week after Shira and Dylan return home from the Playa. This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) and Close2You's Harmonia G Spot Vibe (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/traditional-vibrators/harmonia#pcode-FKF) | 9/17/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 45: Burning Man ’11 Pt 1 – Shira & Dylan’s Excellent Adventure | Cooper & Marilyn take a vacation to visit sexy friends from the Great White North. Dylan & Shira B. Katz haven’t been about to shut up about Burning Man and now you finally get to hear why. Listen as the crew discusses what Burning Man has to do with non-monogamy, who they camped with, and what a non-monogamous person can expect on the Playa. Ahoy! Burning Man; land of The Human Car(cass) Wash, The Snack Food Glory Hole, and a place where even the monogamous have an opportunity to open up a little. This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) (use coupon code SWINGSET at checkout) and Close2You's Rhapsodia Anal Beads (http://www.edenfantasys.com/anal-toys/anal-beads/rhapsodia#pcode-FKF) | 9/14/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitSpecial – Dylan Crosses The Rubicon from Swinging to Polyamory at Burning Man 2011 | Dylan here – I visited Burning Man this year, and while I fully expected to have a mind-blowing experience, I found myself wrapped up in the loving arms of another woman, and unable to completely handle some of the consequences of that. I had my first little polyamorous experience, a "playawife" for a few days, but I needed to get some of what was on my mind out. So, this recording is me, on-site, at 8am the day after I decided that what I was doing wasn't going to last. Take a listen, and tell me what you think. | 9/8/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 44: F*****g Technology – Sexting, Cybersex & Phone Sex | We are living in the golden age of sexual communication. There are so many ways to have sexy conversations and interactions online, it's really rather amazing. We talk about our likes and dislikes, our enthusiasms and wants, and how we all get off online. This episode sponsored by: Adam & Eve (http://www.adamevetoys.com/) and Close2You's Legamento C**t Vibe (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/clitoral-stimulators/legamento#pcode-FKF) | 8/21/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 43: Flirting as Swingers, Polyamorists, & Non-Monogamists | Flirting! It's like a gateway drug, and that gateway sometimes leads to all manner of sexual exploits. Tonight we discuss the importance and value of flirting and how it has helped shape the panel's sexual lives, as well as how Ginger & Shira flirted their way onto the show. And speaking of that, this is Ginger's anniversary episode, as she's been swinging on the Swingset with us for a full year now. All this, Cooper has sexy house guests, Dylan almost picks up a woman at a buffet line at a bowling alley, dead flies, bottles of wine, and more on Life on the Swingset: The Podcast. This episode sponsored by: Adam & Eve (http://www.adamevetoys.com/) and Close2You's Opis G-Spot Vibe (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/traditional-vibrators/opis#pcode-FKF) | 8/8/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 42: Kody Brown & the Polygamy Lawsuit – Legislating the Bedroom | Dylan hosts this episode where we discuss Kody Brown's lawsuit, the fight for polygamy, and "Sister Wives." Shira has learned the power of selfish sex. Cooper rants against religion and oppression, but what else is new? This episode sponsored by: Adam & Eve (http://www.adamevetoys.com/) The Smitten Kitten (http://www.smittenkittenonline.com)and Close2You's (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/traditional-vibrators/sinfonia#pcode-FKF)Legamento C**t Vibe! (../723/review-close2yous-legamento/) | 7/26/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 41: Breaking Up Is Really Hard To Do For Swingers Too | Cooper tells the crew about the breakup he and Marilyn went through with a unicorn friend of theirs, their struggle with it, and how they've applied their feelings about polyamory and non-monogamy to the situation. The crew uses this as a jumping off point to discuss breakups in general in non-monogamy and how they differ from monogamous breakups. Then Dylan finally discusses his bisexual leanings. This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (http://www.smittenkittenonline.com) and Close2You's Sinfonia Vibe (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/traditional-vibrators/sinfonia#pcode-FKF) | 7/11/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 40: S**t Shaming and Anthony Weiner’s P***s on Twitter | The crew discusses the fact that girls need to ask permission to touch too, Shira is rejected for the very first time, Dylan talks about massages at strip clubs, and we get deep into the Anthony Weiner sex scandal, discussing whether this is an example of our society's extreme s**t shaming, if it's possible he has an open marriage, and how we feel about this type of scandal in general. Show Notes: Bill Maher & Jane Lynch - The Weinerlogues (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HClsBFDLye4&) S**t-Walks (http://www.slutwalktoronto.com/) Kendra Holliday's The Beautiful Kind (http://www.thebeautifulkind.com) This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (http://www.smittenkittenonline.com) and Close2You's Harmonia G-Spot Vibe (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/traditional-vibrators/harmonia#pcode-FKF) | 6/27/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitPodcast Special – Ending The Sexual Dark Age Question About Bisexuality | In this short podcast special, the Swingset crew answer a question sent by a listener of the Ending The Sexual Dark Age podcast (http://www.sexualdarkage.com) about how to transition yourself to being a bisexual male in the lifestyle when you'd previously identified as straight. | 6/21/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 39: Debauchery at a Swing Club – Couple’s Playhouse Swingers Club Near Chicago | Dylan and Cooper return to Couple's Playhouse (http://couplesplayhouse.com/), a swing club in the suburbs of Chicago for part two of their discussion and description of their first trip to a swingers club. Shira and Ginger add their own thoughts about swing clubs and other kink friendly clubs. Cooper talks about how odd it is to wander around nude with an erection, and Dylan continues his epic flirt. This episode sponsored by: The Smitten Kitten (http://www.smittenkittenonline.com) and Close2You's Rhapsodia Anal Beads (http://www.edenfantasys.com/anal-toys/anal-beads/rhapsodia#pcode-FKF) | 6/18/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 38: Our Swingers Club Adventure – Living it up at Chicago Swing Club Couple’s Playhouse | After Shira discusses the wonderful world of sex and feeling better that came from having her IUD removed, Ginger talks about the benefits of hers, and Dylan discusses exploring his wife's...for science. Ginger regales us with Prof's solo date with a friend, Cooper and Marilyn take separate dates, and we discuss a wonderful trip to Couple's Playhouse (http://couplesplayhouse.com/), a swing club in the suburbs of Chicago, and our experiences within in part one of our two-part discussion. This episode sponsored by: Adam & Eve (http://www.adamevetoys.com/) The Smitten Kitten (http://www.smittenkittenonline.com) and Close2You's (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/traditional-vibrators/sinfonia#pcode-FKF)Legamento C**t Vibe! (../723/review-close2yous-legamento/) | 6/4/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 37: Gang Bang The Mailbag – Listener Questions on Swinging, Poly & Open | In our first "Listener Mailbag" episode we answer several questions from voicemail and email, tackling such diverse topics as the hotness of swingers, sexual experience and prowess, how to swing when you have kids, going to swing clubs, male bisexuality, the HIV positive military man swinger, and more. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, & Shira B. Katz This episode sponsored by: Adam & Eve (http://www.adamevetoys.com/) The Smitten Kitten (http://www.smittenkittenonline.com) and Close2You's (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/traditional-vibrators/sinfonia#pcode-FKF)Opus Gspot Vibe! (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/opus#pcode-FKF) | 5/22/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 36: Everybody Loves Orgasms – Swingers, Poly, and Open Cumming Together | While Dylan fills his ass with first a vibrator, then a butt plug, we giggle our way through a discussion of our favorite thing in the whole world, orgasms. We discuss the differences in the many "spot" orgasms (G-Spot, P-Spot C-Spot U-Spot) and what orgasms feel like for us. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, & Shira B. Katz This episode sponsored by: Adam & Eve (http://www.adamevetoys.com/) The Smitten Kitten (http://www.smittenkittenonline.com) and Close2You's Harmonia Sinfonia Vibe (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/traditional-vibrators/sinfonia#pcode-FKF) | 5/8/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 35: Safer Sex, The Infections Formerly Known as STDs & Swinging – How Swingers & Polyamorists Handle Safer Sex | One of the most concerning topics for anyone looking to get into the swinging or other non-monogamous lifestyles is the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection, so we invite Gay Rick from Sex Is Fun (http://www.sexisfun.net/), a HIV educator, on to discuss the concept of acceptable risk, how we all need to make the decision for ourselves if our lifestyle is worth the risks inherent in it, and ways to minimize our exposure risks. On this show: Cooper, Shira B. Katz, Dylan, & Gay Rick from Sex Is Fun (http://www.sexisfun.net) For more information about STIs and STDs, check out the CDC's website. (http://www.cdcnpin.org/stdawareness/) Subscribe to our podcast on iTunes (http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/life-on-swingset-a-primer/id354627460)! And why not rate us while you're there? This episode sponsored by: Adam & Eve (http://www.adamevetoys.com/) The Smitten Kitten (http://www.smittenkittenonline.com) and Close2You's Harmonia G-Spot Vibe (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/traditional-vibrators/harmonia#pcode-FKF) | 4/24/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 34: Breaking it Down – BDSM In The Swinging Lifestyle | Miss Ami, a full time Domme, returns to The Swingset to discuss how BDSM fits into the swinging and non-monogamous lifestyles, how these worlds collide, and being out as a kinky person. And Dylan's curiosity seems to be moving to full blown obsession. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, & Miss Ami This episode sponsored by: Close2You (http://www.close2you.de/en/philosophy) and their Rhapsodia Anal Beads! (http://www.edenfantasys.com/anal-toys/anal-beads/rhapsodia#pcode-FKF) The Smitten Kitten Online (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/)'s sex positive toy store, use the coupon code SWINGSET at checkout to save 10%!! | 4/10/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 33: Spank My Ass! BDSM, Swinging and You | The Swingset crew invites Miss Ami, a full-time Domme to join the discussion about what BDSM stands for, what it means to be Domme/sub, how her lifestyle impacts her life, and why swingers seem to have such difficulty feeling comfortable with those four letters. (Dylan also discovers he might be more interested in exploring this than he thought...) On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B. Katz & Miss Ami This episode sponsored by: Close2You (http://www.close2you.de/en/philosophy) and their Sinfonia Vibe! (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/473/my-little-symphony-review-close2yous-sinfonia/) The Smitten Kitten Online (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/)'s sex positive toy store, use the coupon code SWINGSET at checkout to save 10%!! | 3/27/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 32: Cooper & Marilyn’s Excellent Adventure – Swinging at Desire Resort & Spa | Cooper and Marilyn just got back from Desire, but in between the nonstop playtime and suntanning and hottubbing and drinking and dining, they found time to record a full trip diary detailing their time spent at Desire Resort & Spa in Cancun. (Well, they found time to record two out of the three trip reports, the third was recorded, sadly, in cold Chicago.) So here it is, in its entirety, Cooper and Marilyn's Excellent Adventure! On this show: Cooper and Marilyn Show notes: This episode sponsored by Close2You (http://www.close2you.de/en/philosophy) and their Legamento C**t Vibe! (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/723/review-close2yous-legamento/) | 3/13/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 31: Sex on the Swingset is Fun – Live From Desire, The Sexiest Place on Earth with Kidder Kaper & Lorax | In Ep 31, the greatest crossover since The Flintstones met The Jetsons happens as Cooper and Marilyn podcast with Kidder Kaper and Lorax from Sex Is Fun live from an outside bed at Desire in sunny Cancun. They discuss what it's like to be in a world populated by sex positive people, what may be the first publicly accepted bi male b*****b at the resort, the sometimes high tension and heightened drama that can result from such, the sexy times that have been had, first full swaps, newbies, and more! (And poor Marilyn gets stuck with three HUGE personalities...at least she seems to enjoy herself) On this show: Cooper, Kidder Kaper, Marilyn, and Lorax Show notes: Check out Sex Is Fun the podcast and sex positive website (http://sexisfun.net/)! Our friends, the newbies, the Boris & Doris Podcast (http://bndpodcast.com/) This episode sponsored by Close2You (http://www.close2you.de/en/philosophy) and their Opus Gspot Vibe! (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/opus#pcode-FKF) | 2/27/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 30: Love Thyself – M**********n and Non-Monogamy | In Ep 30, we discuss m**********n, which Woody Allen called "sex with someone I love," and talk about why, in swinging and non-monogamy, we have all the opportunity in the world for sex and we still continue to jack off and jill off (is that a thing?) We discuss discovering m**********n, techniques, toys, and why we love ourselves. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, & Shira B. Katz Show notes: This episode sponsored by Close2You (http://www.close2you.de/en/philosophy) and their Harmonia Gspot Vibe! (http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/traditional-vibrators/harmonia#pcode-FKF) | 2/17/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 29: Porn, Bisexuals, Anal Sex, Opening Up, and Tristan Taormino | In Ep 29, the Swingset tries very hard not to simply gush over their biggest crush, Tristan Taormino, as she joins us for a discussion of the time writing porn, her thoughts on bisexuality in the lifestyle and in film, her book Opening Up, and putting things in hers and other people's asses. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, & Tristan Taormino, author of Opening Up (http://www.edenfantasys.com/opening-up/adult-toys-dvds-25515#pcode-FKF) Show notes: Tristan Taormino's website Pucker Up (http://www.puckerup.com/) Check out Ginger & The Professor's Blog (http://gingerntheprof.blogspot.com/) | 2/3/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 28: Sexual Erotic Nutrition and Sex At Dawn – An Interview With Christopher Ryan (Part 2) | In Ep 28, the Swingset's interview with Christopher Ryan, author of the bestselling book Sex At Dawn (http://www.sexatdawn.com/) which challenges the idea that monogamy is natural and ingrained in human beings, continues. We discuss whether or not there's hope for America's dawning sexuality, tours, future books, swinger parties and more. On this show: Cooper, The Professor, Shira B.Katz, & Christopher Ryan: author of Sex At Dawn (http://www.sexatdawn.com/) | 1/20/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 27: Bonobo Porn and Sex at Dawn – An Interview With Christopher Ryan (Part 1) | On Ep 27, the Swingset interviews Christopher Ryan, author of the bestselling book Sex At Dawn (http://www.sexatdawn.com/) which challenges the idea that monogamy is natural and ingrained in human beings. We discuss bonobos, a species that sexually is far more similar to us than chimpanzees, and the very porn-like videos of this species enjoying themselves. We postulate that the matriarchal societies described in Sex At Dawn (http://www.sexatdawn.com/) are very reflective of the swinging and polyamorous lifestyles. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, The Professor, Shira B.Katz, & Christopher Ryan: author of Sex At Dawn (http://www.sexatdawn.com/) Show notes: Bonobo Handshake (http://www.bonobohandshake.com/) by Vanessa Woods | 1/13/11 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 26: Auld Lang Syne – An Orgy, A Game, An Epiphany, & A Ritual | Episode 26 is a time of reflection for us as The Swingset celebrates the end of its first year of existence. We discuss what we've learned along the way, talk about the orgy Cooper and Marilyn threw for Ginger and the Professor where the crew beta tested a new game from Great Sex Games (http://greatsexgames.com/), Dylan discusses his swinger epiphanies, Shira shares a New Years Eve ritual, and we enjoy each other's company thoroughly. Join us for the last show of 2010 and our first season finale! On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, & Shira B.Katz Show notes: Music provided by TheDuke (http://soundcloud.com/theduke), the track was Gay Gordon - Auld Lang Syne (theDuke Remix) (http://soundcloud.com/theduke/gay-gordon-auld-lang-syne-theduke-remix), check him out! | 12/30/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 25: Where Do They Get Those Wonderful Sex Toys? – Part 2 | Ep 25 is part two of our Holiday Buying Guide, where we welcome back Sasha in all her giggly glory, we talk about our first sex toys and our favorite sex toys, giving you some recommendations for your holiday purchasing. (And some naughty stories to boot!) On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Sasha Darling Toys: Below are the toys we talked about on this show, buying any of these toys through us helps us continue to make this podast and website, so, if you're planning to buy, buy through one of these links, or from Eden Fantasys using this link (http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/#pcode-FKF). (http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_ENT90020.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_FLVBRO.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_FLSIACSDPA.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_FLMLPS.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_TA550724.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_NXVIBRO01.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_RORBBLU.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_DIGDPN0017.jpg) A few things aren't available through our usual channels, so here they are below: (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/titty-f**k-her.jpg)(http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/jingle-jugs.jpg)(http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/double-d.jpg)(http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/produce-pals.jpg) Sasha & Cooper unbox the Hannah Harper Titty F**k-Her: Full Disclosure: We did not purchase this product, it was sent to us specifically for review. Our policy is to, regardless of how we acquired a product, review it fairly and openly. No writer for Life On The Swingset will ever deliberately mislead our readers into believing that a product is good because of anything we received from the company. We are open and honest, and cannot be bought or bribed. If we love a product, we'll tell you, if we don't, BELIEVE us, we'll tell you that too. End disclaimer. | 12/16/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 24: Where Do They Get Those Wonderful Sex Toys – Part 1 | Ep 24 is part one of our Holiday Buying Guide, where we welcome back Sasha in all her giggly glory, we talk about our first sex toys and our favorite sex toys, giving you some recommendations for your holiday purchasing. (And some naughty stories to boot!) On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Sasha Darling Toys: Below are the toys we talked about on this show, buying any of these toys through us helps us continue to make this podast and website, so, if you're planning to buy, buy through one of these links, or from Eden Fantasys using this link (http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/#pcode-FKF). (http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_LE98294.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_WEV2.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_JEJGKILV.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_VT250.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_SE145903.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_LE1581.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_LE1557.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_VXNNMOS.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_AL0118DVB.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_ENT93407.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_ENT93406.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_EPPL4.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_EPPWP6.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_TAEGG004.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_TA550724.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_LE0305.jpg)(http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/100x100/Sex_Toys_LIBFPTBV.jpg) A few things aren't available through our usual channels, so here they are below: Squiggle Wiggle Pen (http://www.amazon.com/Squiggle-Wiggle-Writer-Hart-Colors/dp/B000U0Y9XO)The Nosy Toyfriend (http://store.babeland.com/vibrators-waterproof/toyfriend?kbid=1769)The G-Pop (http://www.holisticwisdom.com/g-pop-sex-toy.htm) Full Disclosure: We did not purchase this product, it was sent to us specifically for review. Our policy is to, regardless of how we acquired a product, review it fairly and openly. No writer for Life On The Swingset will ever deliberately mislead our readers into believing that a product is good because of anything we received from the company. We are open and honest, and cannot be bought or bribed. If we love a product, we'll tell you, if we don't, BELIEVE us, we'll tell you that too. End disclaimer. | 12/9/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 23: Coming Out With Kendra Holliday | In Ep 23, we spend a long evening with our friend Kendra Holliday, who on National Coming Out day, revealed her identity to the world on her website The Beautiful Kind (http://www.thebeautifulkind.com). Over the course of an hour and a half, we talk with Kendra about the time since she came out to the world, the difficulties she's had with her community and her ex husband, and how it feels to be a source of sex positive information in a difficult world. We then move beyond to our own feelings about coming out as swingers, polyamorous, non-monogamous, or even simply sex positive. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Kendra Holliday Show notes: The Riverfront Times Article about Kendra: NSFW: The St. Louis mom behind sex blog the Beautiful Kind is outing herself (http://www.riverfronttimes.com/2010-10-06/news/nsfw-st-louis-sex-blogger-kendra-holliday-outs-herself-as-the-beautiful-kind/) The Riverfront Times Article about Kendra's pussy: Top Ten Things That Have Been Inside The Beautiful Kind's V****a: NSFW (http://blogs.riverfronttimes.com/dailyrft/2010/10/top_ten_things_the_beautiful_kind_vagina_sex_toys.php) The F*****g Article on The Beautiful Kind (http://thebeautifulkind.com/columns/tbk-saga/f*****g-photo-series) Sex Positive St. Louis (http://sexstl.com/) | 11/23/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 22: Bisexuality and You – Part 2 | In Ep 22, we wrap up our big discussion about male and female bisexuality, crossing our way into pansexuality and omnisexuality and everything in between. We discuss the journey of the bisexual male, the evolution of acceptance (and hotness) of the bisexual female, the stereotypes and biases against both and the growing need for non-monogamy to be its own subclass. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Kidder Kaper | 11/18/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 21: Bisexuality and You – Part 1 | In Ep 21, we begin the big discussion about male and female bisexuality, crossing our way into pansexuality and omnisexuality and everything in between. We discuss the journey of the bisexual male, the evolution of acceptance (and hotness) of the bisexual female, the stereotypes and biases against both and the growing need for non-monogamy to be its own subclass. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Kidder Kaper | 11/12/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 20: The Sexual Costumes and Masks We Wear | In Ep 20, we talk about how, even in open relationships, even as sex positive people, we often hide our true interests, feelings, ideas from playmates and our partner. We discuss why this might be as well as talk about moving beyond it. We also talk about fetishes and role playing. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Kidder Kaper Show notes: Check out our review of cum-like Liquid Silk (http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/2010/10/review-liquid-silk-maximus-lube-by-bodywise/) lube! | 10/29/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 19: Anal Sex & Double Penetration for the Non-Monogamous | In Ep 19, we talk about anal sex and its place in non-monogamy, how it's often tokenized for significant other play only, the wonders and joys of double penetration, pegging, and male bisexuality. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Kendra Holliday (Formerly TBK) Show notes: Buy the Nexus Maximus (http://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/double-ended-dildos/nexus-maximus#pcode-FKF), our favorite dual dildo! Pick up a copy of Tristan Taormino's wonderful Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women (2nd Edition) (http://www.edenfantasys.com/THE-ULTIMATE-GUIDE-TO-ANAL-SEX-FOR-WOMEN/adult-toys-dvds-18684#pcode-FKF) Check out Kendra Holliday's website The Beautiful Kind (http://www.thebeautifulkind.com) | 10/15/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 18: Blurring the Lines Between Polyamory and Swinging – Non Monogamy Cums Together | In Ep 18, we invite two new friends onto the swingset for our discussion of the blurred line between polyamory and swinging. In this discussion we attempt to define the two terms and then break down our own definitions, we expand further with how we relate to friends and lovers. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & TBK Show notes: TBK's articles about the sexy bar threesome (http://thebeautifulkind.com/columns/tbk-saga/fourth-meal-spicy-goddess-roll) and her jealous freakout (http://thebeautifulkind.com/columns/tbk-saga/my-jealous-freakout). The best book on swinging, polyamory and open relationships: Opening Up: Tristan Taormino (http://www.edenfantasys.com/opening-up/adult-toys-dvds-25515#pcode-FKF) Check out TBK's website The Beautiful Kind (http://www.thebeautifulkind.com) | 10/4/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 17: Guys Have P***ses, Girls Have V****as IV: The Final Chapter | In Ep 17, we bring it around with an all guys show for the final installment of our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. For this episode, the guys, led by Cooper, answer questions put to them by the girls. Up for discussion in this episode: Flirting, sexy clothes, imperfections, lifestyle advice, partner's enjoyment, pursuit & capture, anal play and more. On this show The Guys: Cooper, Dylan, Professor, Rob, & Barefeatz Check out Barefeatz podcast Lifestyle Life (http://lifestylelife.net/lsl/Welcome.html) | 9/23/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 16: Guys Have P***ses, Girls Have V****as III | In Ep 16, we switch things up with an all girls show for the back half of our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. For this episode, the girls, led by Ginger, answer questions put to them by the guys. Up for discussion in this episode: "Why doesn’t size matter?" "What do you notice first about men? About women?" "How should we approach you at swing events without being creepy guys?" "How is it different seducing a woman as opposed to a man?" "Guys love watching bi girls, would it turn you on to watch bi guys?" "During a sexy session, what sexy things do you like hearing from guys? Sexy talk? Sexy sounds?" "What’s one thing we could say to you that would make you melt?" "Do you wonder what it’d be like to have a p***s?" "Are you more Dom or sub? Could you switch? What do you like about it?" "Honestly, now, do you like kissing girls more than boys?" On this show The Girls: Ginger, Sasha, Marilyn, Kylie, & Tonia Check out Barefeatz podcast Lifestyle Life (http://lifestylelife.net/lsl/Welcome.html) | 9/18/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 15: Guys Have P***ses, Girls Have V****as II | In Ep 15, we continue our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. In the first two parts, the girls and guys answer the same questions and we jump back and forth between them. Up for discussion in this episode: "What are your favorite/least favorite lifestyle moments?" "Can you talk about a time you were jealous?" "What's a no-play deal breaker?" "What's the hottest thing you've seen your partner do with someone else?" On this show The Girls: Ginger, Sasha, Marilyn, Kylie, & Tonia The Guys: Cooper, Dylan, Professor, Rob, & Barefeatz Check out Barefeatz podcast Lifestyle Life (http://lifestylelife.net/lsl/Welcome.html) | 9/11/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 14: Guys Have P***ses, Girls Have V****as I | In Ep 14, we begin our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. In the first two parts, the girls and guys answer the same questions and we jump back and forth between them. Up for discussion in this episode: "When did you first know you were non-monogamous?" "Do you think you could go back to monogamy?" "What's on your to-do list?" "Full swap/Soft swap? Same room/different rooms?" On this show The Girls: Ginger, Sasha, Marilyn, Kylie, & Tonia The Guys: Cooper, Dylan, Professor, Rob, & Barefeatz Check out Barefeatz podcast Lifestyle Life (http://lifestylelife.net/lsl/Welcome.html) | 9/4/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 13: Threesomes, Foursomes, & Moresomes – Number Dynamics | In Ep 13, we discuss number dynamics in swing environments, from threesomes, to foursomes, to orgies. Sasha extols the virtues of odd numbers and the big pile, and Dylan discusses the house he wants to buy in a swinger friendly neighborhood, his greed knows no bounds, wanting a 10 seater hot tub. On this show: Cooper, Sasha, Dylan, Ginger, & Kylie | 8/22/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 12: Under Pressure – Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Pressure For Swingers | In Ep 12 we talk about pressure, and how pressuring encounters can be as swingers. The first half of our show focuses primarily on male pressure to perform and erectile dysfunction, in the back half we talk about pressure to move beyond your comfort zone, pressure to not use protection and many other things, and we're VERY happy that Sasha has returned to us! On this show: Cooper, Sasha, Dylan, & Ginger | 8/15/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 11: Bediquette – In Bed With Swingers | In Ep 11, we discuss the ins and outs of bediquette when it comes to bringing other sexy folk into your bedroom for playtime. We also introduce the newest member of the Swingset family, Ginger! On this show: Cooper, Dylan, & Ginger | 8/1/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 10: It’s Naked Time with a Live Nude Cast | In Episode 10 of Life on the Swingset the cast is naked! Not that it matters, because you can't see them. But just think of their sexy naked bodies....This episode is about being naked and all that goes with it, the nervousness and fun, the excitement and panic, the boys say that any size boobs are great, and Sasha bucks the trend and says size does matter with p***ses. On this show: Cooper, Sasha, Dylan, & Kylie | 7/18/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 9: Ins and Outs of Swinger Parties | In Episode 9 of Life on the Swingset, we discuss attending a swinger party, Kylie admits her nervousness about them and asks questions, and Sasha proves herself to be a swing party guru and gives her hostessing tips. There's strapon play, stadium seating and more in this episode. On this show: Cooper, Sasha, Dylan, & Kylie | 7/4/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 8: Looking For Fun & Friends on Swinger Websites | In Episode 8 of Life on the Swingset, we discuss three major swinger dating websites, Adult Friend Finder (http://www.adultfriendfinder.com), Swing Lifestyle (http://www.swinglifestyle.com), and our personal favorite, and Lifestyle Lounge (http://www.lifestylelounge.com/login.asp?referredby=CHARMEDLIFE). We discuss how to decide which site is right for you (despite being biased), how to build a profile, start your search, add pictures and have a great time with online swinger dating. Cooper also talks about using amazon.com to buy condoms. On this show: Cooper, Sasha, Dylan, & Kylie | 6/20/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 7: Swinging Couples, Taking One For The Team, & Erectile Dysfunction | In Episode 7, we discuss the difficulties inherent in finding a four way connection between two couples, how taking one for the team and playing with someone you're not interested in can do more harm than good, and going on solo dates. Cooper also discusses a magical pill he took at his birthday party. On this show: Cooper, Sasha, Dylan, & Kylie | 6/6/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 6: Those Are The Rules – Defining Your Rules as Swingers | In Episode 6, the team discusses the importance of having rules in the swinging lifestyle, what's allowed and what isn't, what needs to be discussed beforehand and what doesn't. We also talk about what to do when rules are broken, and how to decide you need new rules or have outgrown the old. On this show: Cooper, Sasha, Dylan, & Kylie | 5/23/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 5: Soft Swap VS Full Swap | In Episode 5, we talk about the two major terms in the swinging community, soft swap (play but no i*********e with the opposite partner) or full (everybody gets laid) and discuss the complexities in defining each, and the pros and cons. Sasha also talks about her new website: pleasure-parties.com On this show: Cooper, Sasha, Dylan, & Kylie | 5/9/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 4: Compersion VS Jealousy – Swingers Deal With Jealousy | In Episode 4, we discuss compersion, the term that finds you experiencing pleasure because your partner is experiencing pleasure, versus jealousy, a term we all know. The Swingset gang discusses how to overcome jealousy in many situations, all striving for that nirvana called compersion. On this show: Cooper, Dylan, & Sasha | 4/29/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 3: Sad State of Affairs – Swinging in America | In episode 3 we discuss the sad state of affairs American consciousness is at regarding sexuality, from the RNC's new lesbian-bondage-strippergate, to sex ed, to the pros and cons of staying in the closet as swingers, to sex toys, and the fact that everybody's really just jealous. On this show: Cooper, Dylan, & Sasha | 4/14/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 2: Birds of a Feather – Finding Other Swingers | In our second episode, we continue our logistics of getting into the lifestyle with a look at finding friends and admitting to them and yourself that you want to...well...have sex with them. We discuss first dates, where to go and most importantly how to be safe when opening yourself up. We discuss what to do with a couple once you've decided to meet them, where to go, how much to tell them about yourself, and most importantly how to be safe. On this show: Cooper, Tyler, Dylan, & Kylie | 3/18/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
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ExplicitEp 1: Dipping a Toe In – How To Start Swinging | In our first podcast we discuss the very beginnings of what to do when you think you may want to have an open relationship. We talk in detail about dealing with that idea yourself and deciding if opening up is right for you. We also deal with the first stages of discussing this with your partner, dealing with the inherent issues, and finding your way to that next step. On this show: Cooper, Tyler, Dylan, & Kylie | 3/4/10 | Free | View In iTunes |
| Total: 69 Episodes |
Customer Reviews
The perfect open marriage podcast
This is our absolute favorite podcast about open marriages. We really like the format of multiple points of view and debate about common issues, how to do certain things, and even taboo topics such as poly vs. swinging and bisexual men. I dont think you can find a more open-minded podcast on this topic out there. We owe the Swingset many thanks for helping us think about some things in different ways with our own journey through opening our marriage. I HIGHLY recommend this podcast for anybody new or new-ish into opening their marriage. But even if you are a grizzled veteran in some way, or maybe hit some snags along the way, this podcast is for you!
Fun and Informative
We love this podcast, as it is very informative about the swinging lifestyle. From the reviews to the banter between the hosts, it is always an entertaining listen. High production quality and the very informative blogs and reviews on their website make this podcast a must-listen for any swinger's iPod. It would also be good for any couples just interested in finding out more about the lifestyle.
Funny & Enlightening All at Once.
Just finished devouring (er, listening to) Life on the Swingset's 5th podcast. Overall, I quite enjoyed it! As a newbie to the Swinging lifestyle, I was immediately put at ease by the group discussion-approach to the podcast, and casual-dialogue format.
A few times throughout the podcast, though, I got completely confused by the random topic-switching and all the lifestyle jargon. They're a fast-paced group, and let me be the first to say--they'll keep you on your toes! If you're a newbie like me, this might take a few listenings to really sink in, and it might help to have a swinger's glossary handy, also.
I loved the mix of theory and personal experiences, the wide-range of voices and opinions shared and the fun banter that was thrown back and forth. Even when I didn't quite understand all of what was being discussed, Life on the Swingset still had me wide-eyed and captivated.
If you haven't yet, take a listen! Great for newbies and the experienced alike. Afterall, once we stop learning, we're no longer alive.
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