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It’s time for online dating to stop wasting people’s time. HowAboutWe is the answer. We’re making on-demand, totally-natural, and completely-safe online-dating a reality.

By using our newest feature -- TONIGHT -- you’ll be able to get set up in LESS THAN FIVE MINUTES for a date that same evening.

TONIGHT is FREE. It’s safe. It’s natural. It’s straight to the point. It’s awesome. And don’t worry, you get to choose who you’d like to go out with.

With our most popular feature -- THE POOL -- you can now message people for FREE if you both like each other.

This is the new HowAboutWe, better than ever. Everything still starts with an awesome date idea. You still connect with people that intrigue you. It’s still all about getting offline on great dates. It’s just way better. :-)

We can’t wait for you to try it.

For the serious dater, paid members can get even more from their experience. Members can:
- Send messages to anyone you want
- See who has liked you
- Get featured more
- Browse profiles invisibly
- See who has viewed you

Download the app for free to begin browsing dates. Upgrade to send and receive unlimited messages, see who has viewed your profile, find popular users, get offline, and more. Your paid membership services cost as little as $8.33/month or $9.99/month for our basic and premium plans. Your upgrade will be charged to your iTunes Account at the confirmation of your purchase and will auto renew each month. Auto renew may be turned off by going to your Account Settings after purchase and must be turned off at least 24 hours before the end of the current one/three/six/twelve month period to avoid being billed again. Upgrade is completely optional. Download the app free to begin browsing dates.

Our privacy policy can be found here:

From our Members:

We have over 1 million members - and they love HowAboutWe. Here’s what they’re saying:

“We combined her date of sunset drinks at a beachfront alehouse with my idea of running into the ocean at night. Since then our jeans have dried, our feet have thawed, and we’ve seen lots more of each other.” - Rob, 29, Venice, CA

“Aaron's date idea was to go to a driving range, and I had the perfect place... He even managed to sneak in a kiss! Nine months later we are still together and happy as ever, thanks to HowAboutWe! - Sammie, 22, Washington DC

“Marcie and I immediately hit it off. On our first date we went for Italian in Chelsea... we've been a couple since and each day is better than the last. Thankfully yours (and completely in love).” - Tim, 29, New York, NY

What's New in Version 3.0

For our five year anniversary, HowAboutWe is celebrating with a relaunch.

- Try our brand new free feature TONIGHT. The first on-demand dating experience.
- Start messaging for free with all mutual matches.
- Enjoy our many design changes that we hope you’ll love!

Please try it out, rate the app and get offline!

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Customer Reviews

The update is STRANGE.

The old app was a little glitchy. The new app has some slick design features, but my issue is with the "intrigued" section. Suddenly, everyone who has ever been intrigued by my date comes up in a little push notification, and whereas before I could DELETE them, now I can't. I also can't change my first photo in the app. It's just suddenly a LOT harder to find things. You can click here to look for guys, or here, here and here. It would be so much easier if everything was streamlined. And it just seems like there are a lot of difficulties when I DO want to send someone a message or propose a date. I like some of the new features but many are needlessly complicated.


Such a cool feature! It was fast, easy & it worked. I wanted a date for a small live show and TONIGHT definitely exceeded my expectations by pairing me with a cool guy. I'll use it again for sure!!

Straight to the point

"Tonight" worked great. I swiped right and HAW matched me for that night. It was also great to see that they've fixed a bunch of bugs in the update.

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  • Free
  • Category: Social Networking
  • Updated:
  • Version: 3.0
  • Size: 36.4 MB
  • Languages: English, Danish, Dutch, French, German, Hindi, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Polish, Portuguese, Russian, Simplified Chinese, Spanish, Swedish
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You must be at least 17 years old to download this app.
  • Infrequent/Mild Alcohol, Tobacco, or Drug Use or References
  • Unrestricted Web Access
  • Infrequent/Mild Profanity or Crude Humor
  • Infrequent/Mild Sexual Content and Nudity
  • Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes

Compatibility: Requires iOS 7.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch. This app is optimized for iPhone 5.

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