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Vanilla Umbrella is the only discreet Mobile BDSM & Fetish Dating Community, kink, chat & forum that allows NO TRIBUTING, NO FINDOM and no other money scams or exchanges. Only users with real interest in BDSM, fetish & kink, as well as swinging.
Use it for chat & dating with singles or couples around you, make friends, find romance or meet swingers. Whatever your fetish is, find others to chat about bondage, DDLG, latex, leather, femdom mistresses, slaves etc.


Enjoy Fetish Dating - Chat, Meet New People via the Open Chat (the only Mobile BDSM Fetish Forum with instant notifications). Find events, munches, fetishes (breaking the bondage, DDLG, ropes, shibari, daddy baby girl etc.). Use the personals to find a mistress, a submissive, a unicorn or a couple.

Instead of using different sites with different features (fetlife, alt.com, collarspace etc.) VU is all in one and is mobile: Community, Dating and Forum.

VU is the perfect discreet site for genuine single women, single men or couples, whether they are Black, White, Asian, Latino, Straight, Gay, Lesbians, Bisexual, Queer or Transgender. VU is the safest kinky fetish, BDSM dating community in the United States, Canada, Australia, Germany, Norway, Sweden and all Europe, UK, England, Ireland, Scotland, and across the world.

What's New

Version 2.8

GDPR Data Protection for everyone
Usability & filtering improvements
Live updates about the work progress on our new website, a joint platform with millions of other users, soon to launch.
Ease of access to our 24/7 support service
Faster private selfie verification process

Ratings and Reviews

4.1 out of 5

68 Ratings

68 Ratings

Works, if you’re careful


After under 2 weeks of using the app, I found a really nice person to have a threesome with. The interface made this easy and chat/photo system kept the creeps at bay and made me feel safe. Went off without a hitch and all in all was a fun and unique experience at the time. About a year later as of writing this, my wife has left me and I’ll be ending my life once I can make enough money to pay her back for the cost of the lawyer. I can’t blame the app for that, but be warned that it’s a fantastic outlet for impulsive decisions and should be used with caution. I f—-ed up. Don’t be like me.

Love it

Aft tech

It needs a better notification system and the messages could be easier to find instead of having to wait to load more and if someone sends one while you are trying to go to the bottom of the list you are screwed but I still really love the app itself

Good app


Really good and discreet app but seems to hav a glitch that says there are unread board posts still unread than what you go in and actually see. I like keeping my unread zeroed out but sometimes it shows some unread. And it's a pain that you have to use credits to send a message to someone.


Vanilla Mobile Ltd
12.1 MB
Requires iOS 8.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.
Age Rating
You must be at least 17 years old to download this app.
Infrequent/Mild Sexual Content and Nudity
Infrequent/Mild Alcohol, Tobacco, or Drug Use or References
Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes
© Vanilla Mobile Ltd 2015
In-App Purchases
  1. VIP 1 Month $19.99
  2. 50 Credits $15.99
  3. 200 Credits $32.99


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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