Can't We Talk about Something More Pleasant?
This book can be downloaded and read in iBooks on your Mac or iOS device.
#1 New York Times Bestseller
2014 NATIONAL BOOK AWARD FINALIST
In her first memoir, Roz Chast brings her signature wit to the topic of aging parents. Spanning the last several years of their lives and told through four-color cartoons, family photos, and documents, and a narrative as rife with laughs as it is with tears, Chast's memoir is both comfort and comic relief for anyone experiencing the life-altering loss of elderly parents.
When it came to her elderly mother and father, Roz held to the practices of denial, avoidance, and distraction. But when Elizabeth Chast climbed a ladder to locate an old souvenir from the "crazy closet†?-with predictable results-the tools that had served Roz well through her parents' seventies, eighties, and into their early nineties could no longer be deployed.
While the particulars are Chast-ian in their idiosyncrasies-an anxious father who had relied heavily on his wife for stability as he slipped into dementia and a former assistant principal mother whose overbearing personality had sidelined Roz for decades-the themes are universal: adult children accepting a parental role; aging and unstable parents leaving a family home for an institution; dealing with uncomfortable physical intimacies; managing logistics; and hiring strangers to provide the most personal care.
An amazing portrait of two lives at their end and an only child coping as best she can, Can't We Talk about Something More Pleasant will show the full range of Roz Chast's talent as cartoonist and storyteller.
From Publishers Weekly
© Publishers Weekly
Can't we talk about something pleasant ?
Thank you for such an amusing and enjoyable book you have touched base so well with life and ageing parents . We are all human sharing these familiar emotions in stages of our life .You have so many moments in your book that are so familiar with my life at present you made me smile and have a laugh . You have written this book so well in comic script it captures you and in all our forms . So well written it brings peace to your heart behind a smile .
It's genius - but so sad
I was enthralled by this story. The illustrations really POP, the humour is brilliant and laced with goodly doses of pathos and tragi-comedy. To be able to document this story in such an engaging, witty and realistic manner reflects the authors understated genius.
I do wonder how Roz emerged from such a horrid childhood with her humour not just intact but fully brilliantine.
I only wish I had bought this in hard copy not ebook.