62 episodes

Bend Don’t Break is a podcast that tells the story of police officers who have overcome significant adversity in their personal and professional lives. Through the power of story, the listener will understand the depth of resilience and personal strength that exists in the men and women who protect our communities 24x7.

Bend Don't Break Delta Police Department

    • Government
    • 4.9 • 175 Ratings

Bend Don’t Break is a podcast that tells the story of police officers who have overcome significant adversity in their personal and professional lives. Through the power of story, the listener will understand the depth of resilience and personal strength that exists in the men and women who protect our communities 24x7.

    Resilience and Strength: Navigating Through Grief

    Resilience and Strength: Navigating Through Grief

    Watch our video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/VWYOjcfSfb4
     
    Summary
    Constable Peggy MacConnell shares her experience of losing her husband in a tragic accident and how she coped with the grief and trauma. She emphasizes the importance of being your own advocate and doing what feels right for you. Peggy found support from the RCMP and her family, and she prioritized her physical fitness and mental well-being. She returned to work and embraced a routine to maintain a sense of normalcy. Peggy's resilience and positive outlook have helped her navigate through the challenges and continue to live a fulfilling life.
     
    Takeaways Be your own advocate and do what feels right for you Surround yourself with a strong support network Prioritize your physical fitness and mental well-being Embrace routine to maintain a sense of normalcy Maintain a positive outlook and take control of your own situation
     
    Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background
    08:13 The Organ Donation Process
    14:43 Support from Family and the RCMP
    26:13 Overcoming Judgment and Staying Resilient
    35:44 Returning to Work and Helping Others

    • 38 min
    • video
    Resilience and Strength: Navigating Through Grief

    Resilience and Strength: Navigating Through Grief

    Summary
    Constable Peggy MacConnell shares her experience of losing her husband in a tragic accident and how she coped with the grief and trauma. She emphasizes the importance of being your own advocate and doing what feels right for you. Peggy found support from the RCMP and her family, and she prioritized her physical fitness and mental well-being. She returned to work and embraced a routine to maintain a sense of normalcy. Peggy's resilience and positive outlook have helped her navigate through the challenges and continue to live a fulfilling life.
     
    Takeaways Be your own advocate and do what feels right for you Surround yourself with a strong support network Prioritize your physical fitness and mental well-being Embrace routine to maintain a sense of normalcy Maintain a positive outlook and take control of your own situation
     
    Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background
    08:13 The Organ Donation Process
    14:43 Support from Family and the RCMP
    26:13 Overcoming Judgment and Staying Resilient
    35:44 Returning to Work and Helping Others

    • 38 min
    • video
    The Transcendental Power of Meditation for First Responders

    The Transcendental Power of Meditation for First Responders

    Summary
     
    In this episode of the Bend Don't Break Podcast, retired police chief Les Sylven and Garry Foster discuss the benefits of transcendental meditation (TM) for first responders. They explain that TM is a simple and easy practice that can help reduce stress and build resilience. They share research studies that show the effectiveness of TM in reducing PTSD symptoms and improving overall well-being. The conversation emphasizes the proactive nature of TM, highlighting its ability to enhance concentration, conflict management, and relationships. They encourage listeners to explore TM as a tool for self-care and mental wellness.

     
    Takeaways Taking care of our minds is just as important as taking care of our bodies, especially for first responders who experience significant trauma. Transcendental Meditation (TM) is a simple and effective practice for reducing stress and building resilience. Research has shown that TM is effective in reducing PTSD symptoms and improving overall well-being. TM is a proactive measure that can improve job performance, relationships, and overall quality of life. Anyone can learn TM, and it can be practiced anywhere, making it a convenient tool for self-care.
    Chapters
     
    00:00 Introduction
    02:45 The Importance of Taking Care of Our Minds
    06:08 Transcendental Meditation: A Simple Tool for Stress Reduction
    08:59 Research on Transcendental Meditation and its Benefits
    10:52 TM as a Proactive Measure for First Responders
    24:02 Improving Job Performance and Relationships through TM
     
    Would you like to learn more about Transcendental Meditation? Contact Garry Foster at garryfoster108@gmail.com.

    • 35 min
    • video
    A Legacy of Resilience: Honoring Ryan Masales

    A Legacy of Resilience: Honoring Ryan Masales

    Summary
     
    In this episode, we remember Ryan Masales, also known as Chopper, who was an undercover operator for the Delta Police Department. Ryan battled brain cancer and shared his inspiring story. He discussed his early career in law enforcement, his involvement in Project Starboard, and his diagnosis of glioblastoma. Despite the challenges he faced, Ryan remained resilient and focused on spending time with his family. He emphasized the importance of realism and cherishing every moment. This conversation with Chopper and his wife Estelize covers a range of topics, including the importance of always having a plan, the role of physical fitness in their lives, Chopper's passion for tattooing, leaving a legacy, managing critical incidents, the power of love and support, finding hope in the face of adversity, the impact of a mentor, and the lessons they have learned.  



    Takeaways Ryan Masales, also known as Chopper, was an undercover operator for the Delta Police Department. He battled brain cancer and shared his inspiring story of resilience. Ryan discussed his early career in law enforcement, his involvement in Project Starboard, and his diagnosis of glioblastoma. He emphasized the importance of realism and cherishing every moment. Always have a plan, whether it's in policing or in life. Physical fitness is important for both mental and physical well-being. Find a passion that allows you to leave a lasting impact. Support from loved ones and the community is crucial in difficult times. Hope is a powerful motivator in the face of adversity. Mentors play a significant role in shaping our lives. Focus on the present and make the most of each day.  

    Chapters
     
    00:00 Remembering Ryan Masales
    03:56 Chopper's Early Career
    10:19 Project Starboard
    29:16 Glioblastoma and Realism
    41:36 Managing the Condition
    42:04 Always Have a Plan
    44:08 The Importance of Working Out
    46:19 The Art of Tattooing
    50:19 Leaving a Legacy
    56:50 Managing Critical Incidents
    59:37 The Power of Love and Support
    01:05:03 Finding Hope in the Face of Adversity
    01:06:03 The Impact of a Mentor
    01:19:21 Lessons Learned

    • 1 hr 22 min
    A Legacy of Resilience: Honoring Ryan Masales

    A Legacy of Resilience: Honoring Ryan Masales

    Watch our video on YouTube: https://bit.ly/4axm4Kd
     
    Summary
     
    In this episode, we remember Ryan Masales, also known as Chopper, who was an undercover operator for the Delta Police Department. Ryan battled brain cancer and shared his inspiring story. He discussed his early career in law enforcement, his involvement in Project Starboard, and his diagnosis of glioblastoma. Despite the challenges he faced, Ryan remained resilient and focused on spending time with his family. He emphasized the importance of realism and cherishing every moment. This conversation with Chopper and his wife Estelize covers a range of topics, including the importance of always having a plan, the role of physical fitness in their lives, Chopper's passion for tattooing, leaving a legacy, managing critical incidents, the power of love and support, finding hope in the face of adversity, the impact of a mentor, and the lessons they have learned.  



    Takeaways Ryan Masales, also known as Chopper, was an undercover operator for the Delta Police Department. He battled brain cancer and shared his inspiring story of resilience. Ryan discussed his early career in law enforcement, his involvement in Project Starboard, and his diagnosis of glioblastoma. He emphasized the importance of realism and cherishing every moment. Always have a plan, whether it's in policing or in life. Physical fitness is important for both mental and physical well-being. Find a passion that allows you to leave a lasting impact. Support from loved ones and the community is crucial in difficult times. Hope is a powerful motivator in the face of adversity. Mentors play a significant role in shaping our lives. Focus on the present and make the most of each day.  

    Chapters
     
    00:00 Remembering Ryan Masales
    03:56 Chopper's Early Career
    10:19 Project Starboard
    29:16 Glioblastoma and Realism
    41:36 Managing the Condition
    42:04 Always Have a Plan
    44:08 The Importance of Working Out
    46:19 The Art of Tattooing
    50:19 Leaving a Legacy
    56:50 Managing Critical Incidents
    59:37 The Power of Love and Support
    01:05:03 Finding Hope in the Face of Adversity
    01:06:03 The Impact of a Mentor
    01:19:21 Lessons Learned

    • 1 hr 22 min
    • video
    How PTSD Manifested Physically

    How PTSD Manifested Physically

    In this episode of Bend Don't Break, Courtney Luxen from the Calgary Police Service shares her journey of overcoming functional neurological disorder (FND) and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). She initially joined the police service with a background in sports medicine but fell in love with the idea of becoming a cop after seeing a female officer in action. Courtney experienced various physical symptoms, including uncontrollable blinking, breathing difficulties, and loss of motor control. After a long and challenging recovery process, she returned to work in a part-time capacity and now advocates for mental health and wellness within the police service.
     
    Takeaways
    Seeking therapy and regular check-ins with a mental health professional are essential for everyone, especially those in high-stress professions like policing.
    Maintaining physical health, practicing gratitude, and incorporating breath work and meditation can contribute to overall well-being and resilience.
    Don't judge others and avoid comparing yourself to others. Each person's journey is unique, and it's important to focus on your own progress.
    Recovery from mental health challenges is a lifelong journey, and it's crucial to have a supportive network of friends, family, and colleagues.
    Never lose hope. Even in the darkest times, there is always the possibility of a better tomorrow.
     
    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction and Background
    01:12 Becoming a Police Officer
    04:05 Getting Sick and Seeking Help
    08:25 Diagnosis and Treatment
    10:49 Recovery and Rehabilitation
    27:00 Returning to Work and Advocating for Mental Health
    30:29 Lessons Learned and Advice
    34:45 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

    • 35 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
175 Ratings

175 Ratings

GerryTreviews ,

Bend Don’t Break

Thank you for the continued commitment to well being within the first responder industry and beyond.

There is so much value in people with lived experience sharing their stories, for both listeners who may be having similar experiences and impacts, as well as for the guests who are talking about their own struggles.

The podcast is so real.

True Blue Podcast ,

Bend Don’t Break

Heard every episode and some multiple times! So much to learn here. Keep up the good work.
Matt Waterman

Kootenay EM ,

Powerful Message of Support

I came upon this podcast by chance and was blown away. It is from British Columbia with agencies, and individuals, who I know. That makes it both universal and local. Real and incredibly powerful. It’s produced professionally and is of the highest caliber throughout.

It’s about policing but the themes are common with other first responders, and all emergency responders.

I come from public safety (provincial emergency management) and EHS but I found a huge amount of resonance with the stories that are told. Having been on my own mental health journey for the past 4 years and recently, finally, diagnosed with PTSD, I found these podcasts more relatable than anything else I have found.

These podcasts can help not only individuals but also organizations. We need to change our work cultures to better support responders of all stripes so that we can continue to serve and protect the public. This podcast is an important step in getting us there.

No one needs to go it alone!

Gundula Brigl
past Regional Manager
Emergency Management BC

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