Join 4 million lesbian, bisexual and queer people on HER - the world's largest and most loved free dating app for LGBTQ women.

So much more than 'swipe right' apps, or a Grindr for lesbians, HER is built by and for lesbian & queer womxn. We share LGBTQ+ news, all the lesbian and queer events taking place in your area and have smaller community groups so you can meet others in a safe, group chat.

HER hosts parties and socials in 15 cities across the world (from London to LA to New York) so download the app to find out when the next one is happening near you and get exclusive discounts on tickets.

Dowload HER to join a community of people who believe in LGBTQ+ equality and empowerment. Whether you're here for a girlfriend or partner, to meet the love of your life, your person for a great date or your next friendship group, the HER community is a welcoming and supportive one. We'd love to welcome you to our space.

- FRIENDLY, FUN & SAFE: These are the words our community use to describe us.
- FREE: all of our core features are completely free. View profiles, get matches, add friends, start chats, view events, join communities.
- UPGRADE FOR EXTRAS: If you're looking for an upgraded experience you can subscribe to HER Premium to see who's online now, filter by sexuality and so much more.

We offer 3 types of subscriptions for HER Premium Memberships
1 Month: starting at $14.99
6 Months: starting at $59.99
12 Months: starting at $89.99

Payment will be charged to your iTunes account at confirmation of purchase
Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off in the iTunes Store at least 24hrs before the end of the current period.
Current Her Premium subscription price starts at $14.99 USD/month and are listed in full above.
Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary in countries other than the U.S. and are subject to change without notice.
No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during the active subscription period.
More details on Her Premium can be found at:

What’s New

Version 5.66

We've fixed a bug that caused an error when deleting an item from your profile

Ratings and Reviews

3.5 out of 5
222 Ratings
222 Ratings
K1M1L1P ,

Improvements Needed

Downloaded the other day and I’m already noticing a few issues with the experience.

Firstly, although the dating app scene is crowded these days, HER still has an opportunity to lead the way for the LGBTQ scene if it focuses on how people actually date and want to find people etc so that they’d be willing to pay. The reality is though, the experience without a sub is pretty poor so why would I? But seriously, could you BE anymore expensive?

1 - The name still really confuses me as it’s not exactly inclusive to the FULL market it’s targeting?

2 - I will suddenly get an in-app notification saying someone likes me and it pushes me to tap the notification icon. However, once in there - I can’t do anything BUT like the profile? I can’t exit, I can’t view their profile - it forces me to like as I’m blocked in. I have to shut the app down and when I return to my notifications, that profile isn’t there. However; moments later, it suddenly appears again - blocking me from doing anything.

3 - Why can’t I edit a text block in my profile? I have to delete it or write a new one.

4 - I find the grid design within a profile very basic and the fact that if someone writes a long paragraph of text, it’s not ideal to scroll within a image/light box view - too many different interaction types (swipe left/right, scroll up/down etc).

This is my 2/3 day review but I’m sure I will have more feedback as I *potentially* continue using without subscribing.

Niamh and Jordan ,

Thank you

I met a girl on this app, this time last year. We spoke and the notifications were a bit rubbish because they didn't come through. On the 25th January we met up and slowly started to see each other a little more. We fell in love and became official on the 2nd February. A year later, she has started university and we are still together.

This app, although a bit rubbish sometimes due to the notifications and set up as well as the presentation.. It allowed me and many others to meet their partners. We are still very much in love and want to say thank you to Her.

kllarsen ,

Free features are lacking

I first used Her about 4 years ago. Back then it had a more limited user base but more importantly most of the features were free. I hesitate to complain too much about a dating app specifically for women because this is pretty much the only one but the user experience is quite bad. Over time, more of the features have become only for subscribers. The look of the app has improved recently but I still don’t really get the feed and the ‘communities’. It’s a good idea in practice but it doesn’t seem to be working.


Bloomer Inc
165.7 MB
Requires iOS 9.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad and iPod touch.
English, French
Age Rating
You must be at least 17 years old to download this application.
Infrequent/Mild Sexual Content and Nudity
Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes
© Bloomer Inc. 2015
In-App Purchases
  1. Her Premium £13.99
  2. Her Premium £13.99
  3. Her Premium £10.49


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