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3nder — Dating for couples and singles.

By 3nder Ltd.

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Date kinky, curious and openminded singles and couples around you. It's about feeling comfortable with your curiosity about sexuality. Get your lovely matches and start exchanging photos and messages. You can also create group chats with the matches you already have. Another handy feature I have is called Curiosity, it tells you who already liked you, so you never miss a match. With me, you can also hide from friends with Incognito Mode or lock the app with Passcode and TouchID.

- It works for couples and singles
- No real names
- Hide from Facebook friends
- Exchange ephemeral photos
- Create group chats
- Know when someone liked you
- No advertising

* What media is saying:
"Have you grown tired of Tinder? No longer hooked on Hinge? Sick of gadding about on Grindr? Well, if you’re on the hunt for a new dating app with a new twist, say hello to 3nder..." —

"It’s a good time for 3nder to launch: A worldwide study released last year by the Metro publication showed 20 percent of people have had a threesome — up from 14 percent a decade ago." — NY Post

As seen on Cosmopolitan, Vice, New York Magazine, NBC, The Independent, Huffington Post, Salon and many others.

* My mission
Our perception of love evolves faster than our society. With me, you can explore your sexuality, away from social pressure.

* Should you worry about privacy?
User Incognito Mode to hide from Facebook friends who might be using 3nder. Or lock me with TouchID and Passcode. You can come up with your Imaginary Name, so you don't have to use your real one. Nothing will be shared on your Facebook wall or whatever. When you sign up with me, you can use an imaginary name, just in case you are not happy with your real one.

* Why I charge?
We respect our customers and their data. That's why we are NOT selling it to 3rd parties to make a living. App functions thanks to our Majestic Members, these are our heroes.

*Invite friends anonymously.
US and Canada can now invite their friends anonymously. We are going to send a message from our number. Your identity will never be disclosed.

- Get in touch by swiping down with two fingers
- Exchange ephemeral photos with your matches
- Create group chats


The app is free to download and use. We also offer an optional subscription package, called Majestic Membership.

You must be at least 18 years of age to access and use 3nder.

- The free 7-day trial begins when the user subscribes for the monthly package.
- The 3 months rate doesn't have a trial ​but includes 33% off of the regular monthly charge.
- You can subscribe to 3nder's premium features for a low monthly (£8.99) or 3 months rate (£5.99/mo - £17.99 in total) and save yourself the hassle of renewing!
- 3nder provides flexible subscription options to suit your needs starting as low as £5.99 per month(3 months rate)! - Payment will be charged to iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
- If you pick the subscription optio​n, it automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
- Account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period, and identify the cost of the renewal
- Subscriptions may be managed by the user and auto-renewal may be turned off by going to the user's Account Settings after purchase
- No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during active subscription period
- Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited when the user purchases a subscription to that publication.

All personal data is handled under the terms and conditions of 3nder privacy policy. More details can be found here:

Terms and Conditions can be found here:

What's New in Version 3.3.0

I am getting better.
— Little glitches here and there
— Problem when you purchase but UI is not refreshing
— Refreshing Lookaround when you open the app
— Automatically blocking reported users
— Interface improvements

Keep in mind that I am listening to your feedback. Swipe down with two fingers if you want to get in touch with me and my lovely creators.

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Customer Reviews

Great App!

This app is pretty amazing! There are a couple of aesthetic bugs but nothing that hinders usability. It has an attractive and easy to use UI. There is a free week long trial of the premium services (so long as you don't forget to cancel before the week is up!) but so far there is not much difference between standard and majestic memberships. My girlfriend and I have already been on a date and it was a blast--we already have the next one planned! The only thing missing from this app is a user base because it is so new, so hurry up and join! Support this app! It is exactly what the poly/swing/open-minded community needs!

GREAT IDEA - App needs work

The idea is great and overall my wife and I love this. The people are real and it's not full of smarmy guys just looking to hook up.

The app itself needs a bit of work. The messaging system is pretty bad, in face most people use KIK instead. There also seems to be a glitch in the distance system. If you click on the "far" option then back to "nearby" the far people stay in the rotation.

It would also be nice to be able to upload photos that are not on Facebook.

Cancellation never worked

It never really worked. Not enough people on there. I am surprised with all the reviews.
I cancelled my subscription two months ago but it never cancelled. My husband is on the phone with Apple support to report and cancel the subscription through them since the app failed to do it. I updated my app and it's not working so I had no way of communicating with trinder support and I couldn't log into my account to see my history. I had no confirmation email from them either. It cost us money and at least one hour of our time to cancel. They have lots of room for improvement and I hope they succeed.

3nder — Dating for couples and singles.
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  • Free
  • Category: Social Networking
  • Updated:
  • Version: 3.3.0
  • Size: 34.9 MB
  • Languages: English, Catalan, Czech, Danish, Dutch, French, German, Greek, Indonesian, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Norwegian Bokmål, Norwegian Nynorsk, Polish, Portuguese, Russian, Simplified Chinese, Spanish, Swedish, Traditional Chinese, Turkish, Ukrainian, Vietnamese
  • Seller:
You must be at least 17 years old to download this app.
  • Infrequent/Mild Cartoon or Fantasy Violence
  • Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes
  • Infrequent/Mild Sexual Content and Nudity
  • Infrequent/Mild Profanity or Crude Humor

Compatibility: Requires iOS 7.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.

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Top In-App Purchases

  1. Majestic Membership$11.99
  2. Majestic Membership$23.99
  3. Majestic Membership - 30 days$7.99
  4. Majestic Membership - 90 days$15.99