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3rder is the No.1 threesome dating app and dating site where kinky, open-minded couples and singles meet for 3-some relationships!

Are you looking for local hot&open-minded singles and couples to explore 3-some relationships and enjoy swinging lifestyle? 3rder is the right place for you! We are a private and anonymous community serving open-minded swinging women and men who are looking for a three way! 3rder is the leading community for you to discover your sexuality and explore it. No matter if you are a single male/female looking for couples or you are a couple looking for a third person/swinger for your wife and husband, 3rder is the best place for you!

Unlike other similar sites, 3rder never discloses your personal information to any third party. All your personal information like your email address,photos,address is secured at our server and kept private. So, you don't need to worry about anything while exploring the special relationship here.

3rder is a Tinder-like dating app for 3 some dating. It is very easy to get started with your swinging lifestyle. Take a minute to create an account here and 3rder gives you all you need. Here, you can find singles and couples from all over the world regardless your marriage status,sexual preferences, races and religions. Top cities where 3rder are used:
United States: San Diego, Atlanta, Chicago, Michigan, New York City(NYC), Los Angeles, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington DC
Australia: New Zealand, Sydney, Melbourne, Western Australia, Queensland
Canada:Toronto, Ontario, Quebec, Vancouver, BC, Alberta, Edmonton
United Kingdom(UK): England, Ireland, Scotland, London, Dublin.

Subscription options for VIP membership service:

1-month subscription with auto renewal: $9.99
3-month subscription with auto renewal: $24.99
6-month subscription: $39.99

**Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary in countries other than the U.S. and are subject to change without notice.

Please note that with all subscriptions:

– No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during active subscription period.
– Payment will be charged to iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
– Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
– Account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period, and identify the cost of the renewal
– Subscriptions may be managed by you and auto-renewal may be turned off by going to your Account Settings after purchase
– Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited when the user purchases a subscription to that publication, where applicable

See our Terms of Use Agreement below for more information on our cancellation policy.

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Special notice for using 3rder:
- No porn / nudity / adult photos
- No personal contact information in your photos and anywhere else at 3rder app.
- No advertisement

What's New

Version 2.0.2

- Bug fixed
- Better user experience
- Performance enhancement

Ratings and Reviews

4.9 out of 5

1.1K Ratings

1.1K Ratings

Finally an app that works for me

Finally54works for me

I have tried several similar dating app in hope to find a nice threesome relationship. But I was failed until I found 3Somes. I joined this app just because the perfect design and the positive reviews from other members. However, this app gave me a big surprise after I tried it out. It is easy to navigate and I had a great opportunity to meet beautiful ladies in my own city. Now, I am already in connection with a beautiful lady. Thank you guys for setting up this nice app!

You’ve been warned.


This app and its bloated fake ratings are BS! We are a couple that are on SLS and tinder and they are ions better than this crap app. How can you limit a paid app search to 8 profiles then have the balls to have them wait 60 seconds. Are you serious?! Tinder you can swipe, swipe and swipe to your hearts content. Please! Please don’t spend a $ on this app. It has inflated fake reviews. There is no one that would rate this even close to worthy of 2 stars. This is horrible. Our first four hours on Tinder proved fruitful and with an excellent experience. Even Feeld is a way better app than this. And that’s chucked full of dead profiles. The rest is up to you. Good luck out there.

Great place to try new things and enjoy a different kinda lifestyle

Otis ThomasijN

Overall, the 3Somes has great features and no glitches or kicking me out every hour or so like most apps. It has great exploring matches capabilities and definitely delves into what you really want and what you're looking for. I hope later in the future it can provide me with what I want and I'll continue to use it happily.


70.9 MB
Requires iOS 8.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.
Age Rating
You must be at least 17 years old to download this app.
Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes
© 3Somes.org copyrighted
In-App Purchases
  1. One Month Auto-Renewable Membership $9.99
  2. Six Months Auto-Renewable Membership $39.99
  3. Three Months Auto-Renewable Membership $24.99


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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