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It’s like a fitness app for relationships.

Relationships – like anything worthwhile – take intentional commitment over time. Like physical fitness, healthy relationships are built on developing healthy habits. In the age of mobile devices, we have endless apps and other digital tools to help us clarify fitness goals, make plans to achieve those goals, track our progress, and even provide reminders toward objectives. But what if there was such a tool to support healthy relationships?

Love Nudge for Couples will help you put the concepts of The 5 Love Languages® into action in ways that are easy, obvious, and satisfying. This playful, engaging app helps couples be intentional and really connect when it comes to love. Learn your Love Languages, connect with your partner, exchange encouraging and playful nudges, set and track activity goals, and monitor each other’s love tank levels.

The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman has helped millions of couples strengthen their relationships… one language at a time. For well over a decade, The 5 Love Languages® by Dr. Gary Chapman, a perennial New York Times bestseller, has stood unrivaled in the love and relationships category. It was originally published in 1992.

What’s New

Version 3.9

We are actively reading your feedback and regularly updating the app experience. Please email us at support@lovenudge.app with your suggestions or questions.

This release includes some bug fixes and updates that you asked for!

Ratings and Reviews

4.3 out of 5
260 Ratings
260 Ratings
john_donahue ,

App has a serious flaw

I love the 5 Languages series. I have read them all and have taught some classes based on them. But the Love Tank meter has a serious flaw—you can’t update your love tank level unless you change the percentage. My wife and I have been in a new and incredible season of our love life together. When I first opened the app my love tank was 100% full and hasn’t diminished in the seven days since. I would love to be able to update the app do my amazing and wonderful wife could know that she has kept my love tank at overflowing for so many days in a row, but the only way I can accomplish an update would be to artificially lower the number from 100% and that would likely crush her. She has always had such a hard time speaking my love language(s) but lately she has been doing such an incredible job and I can’t use this one possible method to encourage her to keep pressing forward. She deserves the kudos and I really want her to gain the confidence she deserves from knowing my love tank has remained at an overflowing state for so many days in a row.

Developer Response ,

Hi john_donahue - 100% full for many days in a row is fantastic! You will be the envy of anyone who reads your review.

We're glad to hear that The 5 Love Languages has been helpful for your relationship, and we're grateful for your feedback. You've identified an issue that has otherwise gone unnoticed. We'll alert the design team and make a correction based on your feedback.

Meanwhile, here's a work-around. At present, Love Nudge is retaining only one love tank level a day (the last one) - so if you enter your love tank level now, and moments later enter another, the latter will prevail for the day's recording. Until we get the fix in play, take advantage of the once-a-day retention by entering a value that is just under 100% and save it; then slide up to 100% and save it. If you enter the second one immediately, the record of the earlier entry will be discarded and never seen by your wife.

Thanks again for your helpful feedback. We hope to hear from you again!

Bugaboooxo ,

Young love

My boyfriend and I both love the idea of the app. I think it does help to have reminders.
One thing I’m not sure how to handle is this idea of “keeping score” sometimes we might be having a disagreement and then one of us will update with a low % and then the other will get offended or update lower. Sometimes we feel like we are doing our best and the other person doesn’t think so.
I try to give myself 24 hours to update after my boyfriend updates his so it doesn’t feel like a negative response. I think it would be helpful to create lists from other people on the app that show examples of all the languages. More in depth view points and suggestions from other couples.

Developer Response ,

Hi Bugaboooxo - Great feedback and ideas. In case you haven't spotted this yet, when you're creating a goal you can filter the activity suggestions by love language - simply tap the love language icons at the top of the 'create goal' screen.

Collecting and sharing activity suggestions is a great idea. We're working to improve the app based on feedback like yours and will share this one with the design team.

MandaElysePanda ,

I look forward to updates!

There’s a lot of potential with this app and I’m very excited!

I think you should be able to see and mark nudges off of your partner’s list. So for example, I set a goal to spend phone free time together and he can mark it as done. I think allowing this to be part of the features will allow a partner to complete tasks for the other while surprising them with the “act of service” for example.

Right now, sending a nudge and asking my partner to do something feels like a digital version of nagging.

I also wish you could mark nudges off in the Nudges section so that you keep track of the fact that you completed a nudge your partner asked for.

Thank you for the fun app! I look forward to updates!

Developer Response ,

Hi MandaElysePanda - Thanks for your positive feedback! We'll take your ideas to the Love Nudge Design Team for consideration. Watch for updates!


Moody Publishers Limited
26.9 MB

Requires iOS 8.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.



Age Rating
Rated 9+ for the following:
Infrequent/Mild Mature/Suggestive Themes
© Moody Publishers 2019


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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