See for yourself why millions of couples worldwide have benefited from The Gottman Institute’s research-based approach to relationships. Inspired by the popular card decks from The Art and Science of Love weekend workshop for couples, this fun app offers helpful questions, statements, and ideas for improving your relationship.

By downloading our free app, you can:
• Explore 14 card decks with more than 1,000 flashcards
• Check off cards to keep track of which ones you’ve completed
• Shake your phone to see a random card
• Access more free resources from The Gottman Institute

Choose Love Maps to get to know your partner better, Opportunity for great date-night ideas, or explore the Salsa decks to add some spice to your intimate life.

As the world’s most trusted relationship company, our mission is to improve people’s lives through products and programs that educate, inspire, and heal.

Our approach to relationships is based on more than four decades of ongoing research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. We serve couples and parents directly while providing world-class training to the professionals who support them, and we are committed to making our services accessible to everyone.

What's New

Version 1.0.4

Thanks for using Gottman Card Decks! We regularly update the app to fix bugs, improve performance, and add new features to help you connect with your partner.

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Ratings and Reviews

4.7 out of 5

56 Ratings

56 Ratings

A convenient resource!


Gottman has been a great resource for my marriage, and my husband and I were both excited to see this app. It’s an easy way to find new conversation topics and to improve our communication skills. Even better that this tool is something we can easily keep accessible in our phones. The app has been simple to use and we’re looking forward to exploring more of the topics in it.

Great resource for couples and therapists


The Gottmans have great easy to use tools for couples. I was so excited to see they now have all their card decks for free. These are a staple for many couples therapists and as a couples therapist I let all my clients know about this app. Great for conversation starters, ideas to connect, and sex help for those in a rut or looking for ways to enhance their relationship.

A fun way to intentionally nurture your relationship


This is a great resource for any couple wishing to develop more understanding of their partner’s needs, effectively share their own, and increase intimacy. We have had some serious grown up fun & shown each other more appreciation. Thank you Gottman Foundation!!


The Gottman Institute, Inc.
26.4 MB
Requires iOS 9.3 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.
Age Rating
You must be at least 17 years old to download this app.
Frequent/Intense Sexual Content or Nudity
© 2017 The Gottman Institute


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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