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It’s time for online dating to stop wasting people’s time. HowAboutWe is the answer. We’re making on-demand, totally-natural, and completely-safe online-dating a reality.

By using our newest feature -- TONIGHT -- you’ll be able to get set up in LESS THAN FIVE MINUTES for a date that same evening.

TONIGHT is FREE. It’s safe. It’s natural. It’s straight to the point. It’s awesome. And don’t worry, you get to choose who you’d like to go out with.

With our most popular feature -- THE POOL -- you can now message people for FREE if you both like each other.

This is the new HowAboutWe, better than ever. Everything still starts with an awesome date idea. You still connect with people that intrigue you. It’s still all about getting offline on great dates. It’s just way better. :-)

We can’t wait for you to try it.

For the serious dater, paid members can get even more from their experience. Members can:
- Send messages to anyone you want
- See who has liked you
- Get featured more
- Browse profiles invisibly
- See who has viewed you

Download the app for free to begin browsing dates. Upgrade to send and receive unlimited messages, see who has viewed your profile, find popular users, get offline, and more. Your paid membership services cost as little as $8.33/month or $9.99/month for our basic and premium plans. Your upgrade will be charged to your iTunes Account at the confirmation of your purchase and will auto renew each month. Auto renew may be turned off by going to your Account Settings after purchase and must be turned off at least 24 hours before the end of the current one/three/six/twelve month period to avoid being billed again. Upgrade is completely optional. Download the app free to begin browsing dates.

Our privacy policy can be found here:

From our Members:

We have over 1 million members - and they love HowAboutWe. Here’s what they’re saying:

“We combined her date of sunset drinks at a beachfront alehouse with my idea of running into the ocean at night. Since then our jeans have dried, our feet have thawed, and we’ve seen lots more of each other.” - Rob, 29, Venice, CA

“Aaron's date idea was to go to a driving range, and I had the perfect place... He even managed to sneak in a kiss! Nine months later we are still together and happy as ever, thanks to HowAboutWe! - Sammie, 22, Washington DC

“Marcie and I immediately hit it off. On our first date we went for Italian in Chelsea... we've been a couple since and each day is better than the last. Thankfully yours (and completely in love).” - Tim, 29, New York, NY

What's New in Version 3.0.2

Bug fixes and improvements

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Customer Reviews

Time waster!!!!!!

When I came across this site after reading an reviewon USA Today I thought sure why not give it an shot to see the possibilities of discovering an new love life expierence,Sadley as many other reviews speak of "how about we?" is an time waster. The majority of profiles appear to of been made and the people are no longer active on the site as it'll show last time on the site and an substantial amount have nothing there you may get one or two at the most who are actually on the site active in addtion they say that you'll get an new batch"5" of people(supppose to be date opportunities) daily which isnt the case. As others have written I contacted "how about we" and never recieved an response there is not any customer service to speak of based on my expierience,my reccomendation is to put your time and effort elsewhere when seeking an date .

A complete waste of time (and money)

I had SOME success two years ago so I tried it again last month - I should have asked for a refund after the few days of seeing the same faces as two years ago and absolutely NO date prospects! Now I've wasted almost a month on "checking" if there is ANYTHING even slightly considerable out there but the answer is unerringly NO. I realize that it's not the apps "fault" but getting me into paying for it before I even know that there is no point to, is kind of shady. Especially since both on my app and on desktop version the "match" and "message" icons are constantly blinking as if someone has messaged me or some match is being made - which is what got me to paying for it in the first place.. Very disappointed.

Used to be great… I don't understand what happened

I've had lots of success with How About We over the years - it's responsible for at least five multi-month relationships in my life.
I don't know what they've done to this app. The "tonight" feature seems intriguing, and I'll try it someday, but now I have no way to get to my archived email (is all of that... Gone??). And there's a huge flaw where if you do get a match, and you decide to talk later, there's absolutely no where to get back to that person. I looked at every nook and cranny and every menu item, those people seem to be lost forever.

I don't understand, and I am very disappointed...

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  • Free
  • Category: Social Networking
  • Updated:
  • Version: 3.0.2
  • Size: 36.4 MB
  • Languages: English, Danish, Dutch, French, German, Hindi, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Polish, Portuguese, Russian, Simplified Chinese, Spanish, Swedish
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You must be at least 17 years old to download this app.
  • Infrequent/Mild Sexual Content and Nudity
  • Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes
  • Unrestricted Web Access
  • Infrequent/Mild Alcohol, Tobacco, or Drug Use or References
  • Infrequent/Mild Profanity or Crude Humor

Compatibility: Requires iOS 7.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.

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