MWF Seeking BFF
My Yearlong Search for a New Best Friend
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When Rachel Bertsche first moves to Chicago, she’s thrilled to finally share a zip code, let alone an apartment, with her boyfriend. But shortly after getting married, Bertsche realizes that her new life is missing one thing: friends. Sure, she has plenty of BFFs—in New York and San Francisco and Boston and Washington, D.C. Still, in her adopted hometown, there’s no one to call at the last minute for girl talk over brunch or a reality-TV marathon over a bottle of wine. Taking matters into her own hands, Bertsche develops a plan: She’ll go on fifty-two friend-dates, one per week for a year, in hopes of meeting her new Best Friend Forever.
In her thought-provoking, uproarious memoir, Bertsche blends the story of her girl-dates (whom she meets everywhere from improv class to friend rental websites) with the latest social research to examine how difficult—and hilariously awkward—it is to make new friends as an adult. In a time when women will happily announce they need a man but are embarrassed to admit they need a BFF, Bertsche uncovers the reality that no matter how great your love life is, you’ve gotta have friends.
From the Trade Paperback edition.
From Publishers Weekly
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Interesting read - author intertwined her personal story with some great facts on friendships & relationships. Only bummer is I think I now don't have ENOUGH friends. Ugh!
MWF thank you!
I just moved for the second time in my life.....once when I got married at 24 and now17 yrs later and found this book to be inspiring to helping me adjust to a new environment. I am in search for my new BFF as I am 3000 miles away from NY. Thanks for the smiles
I loved every moment of this book. I, too, am in my late twenties, moved to another city to be with my significant other and found that making friends is not as easy as it used to be. Bertsche does a fantastic job of throwing in sociological and pop culture references in a fun way that relate to her story of finding friends along the way, and why certain friendships work out while others don't.
If you feel like friendship is hopeless after college, Bertsche shows that it's not. It just requires a little effort, follow-up and simply getting out there and not being afraid to put yourself in situations that you're not used to.
This book gives me the courage to do all of that. Favorite read in a really long time!!!