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Unremarried Widow

A Memoir

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“A frank, poignant memoir about an unlikely marriage, a tragic death in Iraq, and the soul-testing work of picking up the pieces” (People) in the tradition of such powerful bestsellers as Joan Didion’s The Year of Magical Thinking and Carole Radziwill’s What Remains.

Artis Henderson was a free-spirited young woman with dreams of traveling the world and one day becoming a writer. Marrying a conservative Texan soldier and becoming an Army wife was never part of her plan, but when she met Miles, Artis threw caution to the wind and moved with him to a series of Army bases in dusty Southern towns, far from the exotic future of her dreams. If this was true love, she was ready to embrace it.

But when Miles was training and Artis was left alone, she experienced feelings of isolation and anxiety. It did not take long for a wife’s worst fears to come true. On November 6, 2006, the Apache helicopter carrying Miles crashed in Iraq, leaving twenty-six-year-old Artis—in official military terms—an “unremarried widow.”

In this memoir Artis recounts not only the unlikely love story she shared with Miles and her unfathomable recovery in the wake of his death—from the dark hours following the military notification to the first fumbling attempts at new love—but also reveals how Miles’s death mirrored her own father’s, in a plane crash that Artis survived when she was five years old and that left her own mother a young widow. Unremarried Widow is “a powerful look at mourning as a military wife….You can finish it in a day and find yourself haunted weeks later” (The New York Times Book Review).

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Important and Moving

As the sun came up I sat at a dining room table with tears streaming down my face finishing the book I had brought on a trip to visit my in-laws. Hours before I had attempted sleep unsuccessfully, lying awake thinking about the soldier whose life had ended too soon in Iraq and the woman who was left bereft and wondering why. I stayed up all night to get to the end hoping for closure, but the last page was only the beginning. For weeks I kept thinking about my wife, the life we've built together and how incredibly fragile it is. I thought about war and how deeply I now felt the human cost that families across the country shoulder everyday. And I thought about Artis Henderson and the courage it must have taken to write such a brutally honest memoir. I have rarely read a book that so profoundly impacted me. I think every person in congress and the White House should be required to read it. So important. So beautifully written. Emotionally devastating. But mostly a reminder of what's really important in life. I cannot recommend it more highly.

A Book with Emotion

Artis painted a picture of Miles, her mother and countless friends and relations that evoked true emotions from these personalities that I cried as the story unfolded. She told a story that speaks of how she was unjust to Miles in Iraq—without excuses she grew from the retelling. Very beautiful telling.

Unremarried Widow
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  • $3.99
  • Available on iPhone, iPad, iPod touch, and Mac.
  • Category: Biographies & Memoirs
  • Published: Jan 07, 2014
  • Publisher: Simon & Schuster
  • Seller: Simon and Schuster Digital Sales Inc.
  • Print Length: 256 Pages
  • Language: English
  • Requirements: To view this book, you must have an iOS device with iBooks 1.3.1 or later and iOS 4.3.3 or later, or a Mac with iBooks 1.0 or later and OS X 10.9 or later.

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