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We all know that sex, intimacy and relationships are subjects we are passionate about. But navigating them without getting hurt or hurting others can be treacherous territory. Every two weeks, join Tari as he sensually unravels complex intimate subjects and presents them in a classy, intelligent, easy to understand format. If you want to be a better lover and partner or if you want to experience more pleasure and happiness in your relationships, this podcast is a must. Simply by tuning in, self-reflecting and taking action, you'll dramatically increase the quality of your life and see a measurable difference in yourself and those around you. Are you ready to get closer? Closeness Coaching and other intimacy packages are available on our website www.getcloseness.com and www.patreon.com/closeness
||ExplicitThe first 15 deadly sins of online dating||The online dating world is a bit like the wild, wild, West. For some, it’s almost a dirty little secret that we don’t discuss with anyone but our closest friends. How many apps are you on? Which ones specifically and …||2/15/2019||Free||View in iTunes|
||CleanCloseness with yourself: 5 pillars of self care||Being close with other starts with caring for yourself and knowing how to keep yourself in alignment. In this episode we discover the power of presence. This alone can dramatically improve your life. We’ll then look at physical activity that …||1/10/2019||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit12 Female faux pas to avoid in 2019||In this action packed episode we’ll discuss more than twelve mistakes you want to avoid when communicating with others. Here’s a taste of what’s in store: Unabashed over exaggeration Erroneously flinging around psychological and clinical te||12/28/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitA sensual meditation and rampage of appreciation||Do you know what gets you really turned on? How about what puts you in that space of pure unadulterated sexual desire? We do, and in this episode you’ll discover why knowing can better your life in ways you never …||12/10/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitGood manners. 5 female faux pas to avoid in 2019||This is part of an interesting new series on how to recognize bad manners and behavior and what to do about it. Regardless of your gender, it’s worth listening to! It’s easy to tell when someone is flat out being …||12/8/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitA Sex Coach in your Pocket: The Juicebox app and an interview with Brianna Radar||Brianna discusses real fears in today’s world such as erectile dysfunction, masturbation and consent. Where can we go to get help for intimacy and relationship issues? You already know you can get Closeness Coaching wtih us at www.getcloseness.com,||11/18/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitSarah likes it hot. How to excite a demi sexual with Sarah Messali||What does it mean to be demi-sexual and how does this affect online dating? What does it take for someone like Sarah to get aroused? Sarah shares her story as well as her why she made a major life decision …||11/8/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitImprove your sex life through dance and movement. An interview with Daniela Goulart||This powerful episode explores the roles of leading and following in dance and how that translates to relationships. We’ll discuss why women who trust and follow in dance can also experience better sex and intimacy. Then we look at how …||10/27/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitLeading in relationships is like leading in dance. An interview with Briana Gibson||Briana Gibson is a talented social dancer. In this candid interview with @breezydanceswcs she breaks down the art of communicating through social dancing. A lot can be learned by moving with someone for three minutes and in this episode …||10/18/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitPart 2: Who should initiate sex?||Asking for what you want Do you ever wonder why women don’t try again after initiating sex or intimacy but once? We’ll explain how women internalize rejection and what both partners can do about it. We’ll then break down how …||10/4/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitPart 1: Who should initiate sex: Common misbeliefs||Do you have a sense of how much sex you want? Do you refuse to quanitfy it? What are your thoughts on who should initiate sex after you’ve slept together a few times? These are big questions that eventually lead …||9/13/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||CleanIs it a deal breaker if your partner doesn’t share the same hobbies and sports as you?||We are as passionate about our hobbies and activities as we are about our relationships. For some this borders on obsession and infatuation, while for others it’s as important as religious beliefs and whether or not to vaccinate our children. ̷||9/2/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitDeep listening and oral sex part 2: How to go down||To get anywhere with your partner, we must first accept that both men and women are not mind readers. We can be very intuitive and sensitive, but it’s destined to fail when we expect someone to just know what turns …||8/21/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitDeep listening and oral sex part 1: How to go down||Deep listening is about tuning into your partner with your whole being so that you can give each other a more satisfying sexual experience. This is a potent form of intimacy that can really set the tone to make the …||8/17/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitI haven’t told him my feelings yet, but I just want to see where this is going…||There’s no greater gift than when a woman is all-in and has chosen you. You can see it in the way her eyes sparkle and in her actions. She wants you and it feels fantastic! But how do you make …||8/10/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitPart 2: How to recognize when they’re about to leave the relationship||One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Yet they can be avoided simply by recognizing early warning signs. But why do we ignore them so readily? In this …||7/26/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitPart 1: How to recognize a breakup before it happens||One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Yet they can be avoided simply by recognizing early warning signs. But why do we ignore them so readily? In this …||7/20/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitPart 2. Food and diet: Eating in a way that puts you in control||Closeness with another person starts with feeling great about yourself. Our eating habits, at least partially, dictate how you look and feel. In today’s episode we’ll explore: Roadblocks to an elimination diet Managing our cravings Sustainin||7/13/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitPart 1. Food and diet: An attractive way of eating that puts you in control||Oh the things we put into our mouths. Our culture insists that the only way to health is through what we eat. We would argue that it’s our thoughts, self talk and overall attitude that matter equally. However, the evidence …||7/7/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitWhat a woman’s body is capable of, Part 3: Asexuality, arousal, anal and getting come drunk||Sometimes a woman is ready to do something sexual before you are. Yes, it happens! The result can sometimes create frustration or negative judgment in men. Learning how to sensually navigate this when it comes up is not only important, …||7/4/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitWhat a woman’s body is capable of, Part 2: Orgasms and getting comfortable with self-love||Self love and “touching yourself” is an interesting proposal. Observe how you feel even reading the question: “Do you touch yourself?” Some women have no issue being handsy multiple times every day while others rarely touch themse||6/17/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitWhat a woman’s body is capable of, Part 1: Sex and the shadow side of male achievement||Helping a woman reach her peak and spill over into orgasm is a very exciting experience. It’s even more so if you’re able to indulge each other in multiple orgasms. But often, men feel that they’ve achieved something by doing …||6/10/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitHow to turn a woman on with decisiveness||Fewer things are more exciting to a man than a fully aroused woman. Interestingly, this is the episode that excites women the most. As men, usually we think about turning a woman on in person and with physical touch or …||6/1/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitShould you talk to strangers?||Is it safe to talk to strangers? Have you ever been on a date and said, “You don’t know me,” or “You don’t know anything about me!” or “You’re a stranger!” Language shapes our view of the world and it||5/24/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitHow to say no part 4. Dating archetypes||Now you know how to honor your partners “no.” But what do you do when they change their mind from a yes to a no, or a no to a yes? How do you navigate your own energy and desires …||5/18/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitHow to say no part 3. Rejecting with compassion and where to go after no||How many times have you changed your mind, not wanting someone at first but then later wanting him or her? You said you were attracted, you acted like you were attracted and then suddenly you weren’t attracted anymore. As a …||5/11/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitHow to say no part 2: Manners and why men must do the approaching||Have you ever learned how to reject someone in a considerate way? Have you ever thought about the best way to receive rejection? We have and we’ve got a lot to say about it. We’ll also examine why men must …||5/4/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitHow to say no part 1: Rejecting and receiving rejection||Rejection isn’t easy for anyone because it leaves most people feeling unworthy and hurt. Both men and women are generally terrible at receiving it and even worse at giving it. But rejection is a necessary step towards establishing or maintaining &#||4/28/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitUnrequited love: What to do when you like someone more than they like you||The feeling of unrequited love is a difficult and painful subject for everyone. Yet somehow we rarely consider the impact of how the other person feels when we are the ones who aren’t into them. It’s an emotional subject that …||4/20/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitHow to tell when you’re being lead on and how to stop talking about wasting time||Are you guilty of telling people you don’t want to waste time? It’s a nasty, demoralizng expression that implies anyone who isn’t the one, or who isn’t going to give you something you want, is of no use to you. …||4/13/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitHow to say “I’m not interested”||Have you ever been accused of playing games or not being up front? Most of us struggle with three simple words: I’m not interested. This one sentence alone can save you time and heartache. If we’re being honest with ourselves, …||4/6/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitWhy being “really busy” makes you sexually unattractive and totally undesirable||Do you tell people how busy you are all the time? Is your response to people asking you out, “Can’t,” “I’m busy,” “It’s a really busy week for me,” or “I’m soooooo busy”? Do you ever follow this||3/30/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitPart 2: Having sex with someone new for the first time||All Closeness episodes are now available on YouTube! Please consider subscribing. The moments you share with a partner that lead up to sex are also what will make your experience special. Foreplay can start well before you even see each …||3/22/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitPart 1: Having sex with someone new for the first time||You’ve shared some amazing time together and now you’re ready to take things to the bedroom. Yes, logistically we all know “how” to have sex, but do you know how to really navigate through being with someone new for the …||3/16/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitStart Here. What is the Closeness Podcast?||The Closeness podcast teaches us how to be intimate in the healthiest way possible. Delivering content with a sensual but classy tone, we tackle and unravel real questions about dating, sex, relationships and intimacy. Whether your single, married or so||3/8/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
Informative, authentic, relevant, and stimulating.
Tari’s talks on relationships, sexuality, and the art of dating in the modern world are both provocative and profound. He provides advice and personal experiences with creating intimacy and communicating effectively (and affectionately) with your partner or love interest.
He is easy to listen to even when he traverses into controversial territory. His podcasts are relevant and thought provoking.
This appeals to singles as well as those who are in committed, long-term relationships. The content is informative, engaging and dynamic.
Stunning Podcast - Must Listen!
I’ve found the Closeness podcast to be a beautiful and intriguing look into not just sex and relationships but human interaction as a whole. Tari’s takes on life and love are sometimes fascinating, sometimes breathtaking, and always deliciously candid. It’s smart, sexy, and has challenged (and evolved) the way I look at intimacy. And his deep sultry voice doesn’t hurt either ;)
One of my favorites!
Tari is so insightful and thoughtful. He takes the listener on a journey with him as you learn and explore ideas with some very smart and knowledgeable people. I find this podcast very helpful when looking at the relationships in my life and am so thankful for the work Tari is doing.