Doggy Style Podcast Sam and Pat Cullinane

Hey guys! We wanted to let you know we've moved. In this episode we talk about what happened to Doggy Style and how you can listen to our new podcast The Not So Perfect Couple Podcast.
Make sure to head over there and click subscribe, rate, and review...and lets continue to be the man behind the woman behind the man...as the Not So Perfect Couple!
Can't wait to see you there!

Sex Every Other Weekend with Alissa Daire Nelson and Joel Nelson 

   

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Alissa and Joel discuss:  

·        Remarried with children.  

·        How to serve, honor and respect your spouse.  

·        Finding harmony with totally different personalities. 

·        How to decipher anger and irritation. 

·        Just say yes to sex! 

Key Takeaways:  

·        Take care of yourself emotionally before getting back in the saddle with dating and remarriage. 

·        You must take responsibility for your actions to be a better spouse, especially after divorce. 

·        Don’t say corrosive things about your spouse to your friends, it’s unproductive and destructive.  

·        Love is unconditional respect and acceptance. Alissa would like to talk to Oprah about love. 

  

   

"Everyone brings their shit, whether it’s being single for fifteen years or going through a divorce." — Joel Nelson Quote  

  

  

Connect with Guest:   

Twitter: @daire2succeed 

Instagram: @alissadairenelson    

Website: www.daire2succeed.com    

Book: www.daire2succeed.com/the-book-2 

Show: www.daire2succeed.com/frickinawesomeentrepreneur 

  

Connect with Sam and Pat:  

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook  

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook  

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/   

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life  

   

  

Show notes by show producer: Laura Gray 

  

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.   

Make a Love List, Check it Twice with Jim and Jamie Sheils   

    

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Jim and Jamie discuss:   

·        How time management effects the family.  

·        The List of qualities you desire in your future spouse.   

·        Learning together as a couple. 

·        How to deepen your connection with your spouse.    

Key Takeaways:   

·        Family time should always be a priority. 

·        Never stop learning about your partner and with your partner. 

·        Love is the cornerstone of a healthy family. 

·        “A genuine desire to be my best self, and for him to be his best self.” -Jamie and “Continuing to grow together.” -Jim  

 
   

    

"If you have thirty minutes, you don’t have to have five weeks, you can focus thirty minutes." — Jamie   

   

   

Connect with Guest:       

Instagram: @18summerstribe     

Website: 18Summers.com  

Email: familyboardmeetings@gmail.com  

   

Connect with Sam and Pat:   

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook   

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook   

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/    

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life   

    

   

Show notes by show producer: Laura Gray   

   

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.  

Love is Presence with Traci & David Osborn 

  

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Traci and David discuss: 

·         Choosing the relationship first over fights and whatever else may come up. 

·         Meeting your own needs and being responsible for your own happiness. 

·         Tips for maintaining a successful relationship while also shooting for higher levels of success in your professional life. 

·         Finding time to spend with your family and making it count. 

  

Key Takeaways: 

·         Don’t try and make your partner be something other than who they are. 

·         Book in family time and be as present as possible during those times. 

·         Don’t try and escalate a heated situation when you’re in reactionary mode. 

·         Be willing to get help when you need it, there are a lot of resources out there to assist you. 

·         Love is presence – it is being there for someone in the capacity they need you to be. 

  

  

"A relationship is a hard thing; it’s a beautiful thing. The deeper and longer you go, even though it gets harder, the rewards get better and better." — David Osborn 

  

  

Connect with David and Traci: 

Website:  DavidOsborn.com & TheGoalTemplate.com 

Book: Wealth Can’t Wait & Miracle Morning Millionaires 

  

References: 

·         His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof marriage by Willard F. Harley, Jr. 

·         Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting out of the Box by The Arbinger Institute 

·         Moment App 

  

Connect with Sam and Pat: 

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook 

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ 

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life 

  

  

Show notes by show producer: Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie 

  

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

Interested in a More Fulfilling Sex Life? With Jaiya
 
In this episode, Sam and Jaiya discuss:
What it means to be a somatic (body based) sexologist and how Jaiya got into the field. The importance of a real, healthy sex conversations and education. Jaiya's Erotic Blueprints which identify your sexual language - like Dr. Chapman's 5 Love Languages but for sex. Questions from Doggy Style Listeners! Key Takeaways:
Most people initiate sex in their own, primary blueprint. There are many kinds of orgasms. You are not broken if you don’t have any of them, but anything is possible and you can learn to have all of them! Different sexual challenges can keep things going – 90 days of oral, 40 days of kink, 7 days of sex every day, or even Sam and Paddy's '30-Day Just Say Yes to Sex Challenge.' Give one a try and see what happens. Have a daily pleasure practice, pertaining to your blueprint, and find what turns you on.  
 
"[Love is] keeping my heart open when I want to close it, caring for each other's distress, when you feel like you're home and you create safety for each other rather than triggering each other." — Jaiya
 
 
Discover your Blueprint: www.eroticbreakthrough.com/doggystyle
 
Connect with Jaiya:
Twitter:  @JaiyaNWSE
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/JaiyaNWSE/
Instagram: missjaiya
 
 
Connect with Sam and Pat:
Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook
Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/
Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life
 
 
Show notes by show producer: Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie
 
Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 
 

The Pirate Ship of Love with Jon & Tatyana Vroman 

  

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Jon and Tatyana discuss: 
Tatyana's podcast debut!  What Jon and Tatyana have learned about themselves over the course of their 10+ year relationship (patience).  Benefits of afternoon sex and also morning sex.  Being authentic and allowing your partner to be their authentic selves.  Parenting the best you can in the situation now – it’s never too late to be a great parent. 
Key Takeaways: 
Weekly dates aren't realistic for everyone, but planned time alone together is crucial.  With arguments – it’s timing over topic.  Whoever is the least triggered in an argument is the one responsible for healing the conversation.  Your relationship with your partner needs to be priority #1 if you want to be a great parent.  You can't be everything for your partner and that is not a problem.  At the heart of it, love is patience. 
  

  

"Anything that happens, it’s worth keeping this marriage going. Even if it’s hard, and difficult, and makes no sense, there is a reason why we are together. And it’s a huge reason." — Tatyana Vroman 

  

  

Mentions: Hal Elrod, Mike McCarthy, Esther Perel 

  

  

Connect with Guest: 

Twitter:  @jonvroman 

Facebook:  Jon Vroman, Tatyana Vroman 

Website:  FrontRowDads.com 

Book: The Front Row Factor: Transform Your Life with The Art of Moment Making 

Show: Front Row Factor, Front Row Dads 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonvroman/ 

  

Connect with Sam and Pat: 

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook 

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ 

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life 

  

  

Show notes by show producer: Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie 

  

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.