Done Being Single
By Treva Brandon Scharf and Robby Scharf
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How did Treva and Robby Scharf know it was time to settle down? Because they were done being single. Before getting married for the first time in their 50s, Treva and Robby did it all, dated it all, and lived to tell.brbr With a combined 107 years of single life experience under their belts, Treva and Robby are dating survivors. They’re they authorities on being single and finding love later in life.brbr Treva and Robby don’t just offer empty platitudes and promises, they offer expert dating intervention. From dating apps to dating gaffes, from getting a second date to getting laid, Treva and Robby have a toolbox of tips, and a guest list of relationship experts, therapists, doctors, and celebrities to help people get out of dating hell and find real love.brbr If you’re a dating hater ready to up your dating game, then you’re ready for DONE BEING SINGLE.brbr Tune into DONE BEING SINGLE, broadcasting live Saturdays at 12 Noon Pacific Time on VoiceAmerica Empowerment.
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