Nobody Told Me!
By Jan Black & Laura Owens
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When mother-daughter duo Jan Black and Laura Owens first conceptualized their two-generational talk show, nobody told them they’d snag the title of #1 self-help podcast for months on end! But that’s exactly what they’ve done, delving into topics as far-flung as network building, the importance of failure, finding hope after being kidnapped, and how the principles of brain surgery can help us work through everyday problems. Featuring interviews with extraordinary individuals, Nobody Told Me! shines light on the shared human experiences that bring us together, and the challenges that serve as catalysts for our greatest growth. Nobody Told Me! combines Jan’s impressive broadcast journalism background with Laura’s unique, millennial perspective. Driven by a genuine desire to educate and empower, their pioneering platform gives insight into the strategies and secrets of people in all walks of life. Equal parts information and inspiration, Nobody Told Me! brings a personal touch to the interview process. Together, Jan and Laura are asking the questions that help their listeners get through life’s toughest times.
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Leigh Steinberg: ...the quality that will save you is resilience | Joining us on this episode is Leigh Steinberg, who is known as one of the greatest sports agents in history and the real-life inspiration for the film, Jerry Maguire. Leigh has represented the #1 pick in the NFL draft a record setting 8 times and has negotiated well over three billion dollars in contract deals for his clients including Patrick Mahomes, Steve Young, Troy Aikman, and Oscar De La Hoya. And while Leigh’s life has been filled with unbelievable highs, he’s also had some high-profile struggles which he writes about in his book, The Agent: My 40-Year Career Making Deals and Changing the Game. | 2/21/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Sarah Shockley: ...you come to know yourself through difficult journeys | According to the Centers for Disease Control, over 20% of the adult population in the United States suffers from chronic pain. It’s estimated that between 11 million and 20 million Americans suffer from pain so severe that it frequently limits their work or life activities. Sarah Anne Shockley is one of those chronic pain sufferers, having lived with debilitating nerve pain since 2007. She felt isolated and alone and wished she’d had a guide to living with more ease in the midst of pain and ultimately, relieving the pain. She ended up writing such a book herself, which provides practical advice for living with chronic pain and for relieving suffering on mental, emotional, and physical levels. The book is called The Pain Companion: Everyday Wisdom for Living With and Moving Beyond Chronic Pain. | *** We'd like to thank our sponsor for this episode, BetterHelp, the world's largest online counseling platform! You can get 10% off your first month by going to betterhelp.com/nobody. | 2/18/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Valentine's Day Special: relationship expert Guy Winch on healing a broken heart | Valentine's Day can be incredibly rough when you're single, but we have good news: this episode is perfect to help you heal old wounds and get excited about the wonderful things in store for you. Licensed psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Guy Winch is the author of the brook, 'How to Fix a Broken Heart', which aims to help people heal after a breakup or death of someone they love. His viral TED Talk, 'Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid', has been viewed over 5 million times and is rated among the top 5 most inspiring talks of all time on TED.com. In this interview, he tells us that our past heartbreaks do not define us, shares the best ways to heal, and reminds us that there are many other fish in the sea! | 2/14/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Tina Seelig: ...that most rules are recommendations | We're thrilled to share this conversation with Stanford Engineering School Professor Tina Seelig, author of 17 books including the international bestseller, What I Wish I Knew When I Was 20. Tina was trained as a neuroscientist and has always been interested in how we think, especially how we come up with bold new ideas. Her Ted talk on the “Little Risks You Can Take to Increase Your Luck” has had close to two and a half million views. *** We'd like to thank our sponsors for this episode! 1) BETTERHELP: get 10% off your first month by going to betterhelp.com/nobody 2) ZOLA: start your wedding website and get $50 off of your registry on Zola, go to zola.com/nobodytoldme *** | 2/12/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Jay Pharaoh: ...don't be afraid to be yourself | Enjoy this NTM Nugget from Jay Pharaoh, a Saturday Night Live alum best known for impersonating people like Barack Obama and Kanye West. Today, he's on the road as a stand up comedian and has some great wisdom to share with us about what he's learned during his career. | 2/10/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Reshma Saujani: ...that I didn't have to be perfect | In this episode, we talk to Reshma Saujani, the Founder and CEO of Girls Who Code, a national non-profit organization working to close the gender gap in computer science and technology. We learn what inspired her new book, 'Brave, Not Perfect: Fear Less, Fail More, and Live Bolder' and why it's so important to take chances, embrace the unknown, and unlearn perfectionism. As Reshma says, "we need to start doing things we suck at", like going to a dance class for fun even when we know we're going to be the worst one in there, in order to learn to embrace imperfection and failure. She believes that by gaining resilience and making bravery a lifelong habit, we will lead much happier and more fulfilled lives. | 2/8/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Liz Fosslien and Mollie West Duffy: ...that bad days are a normal part of life | On this episode, we’re going to take a wide-ranging look at emotions in the workplace. How should you deal with jealousy, insecurity, panic, anger or simply having your feelings hurt on the job? Our guests, Liz Fosslien and Mollie West Duffy, are organizational consultants who’ve studied how emotions affect our professional lives and how we can navigate emotions at work. They've written about it in their new book, No Hard Feelings: The Secret Power of Embracing Emotions at Work. | 2/4/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Damona Hoffman: ...it's all going to work out | Dating is one of the hottest topics these days, as the traditional ways of meeting potential matches and the rules for finding love have changed dramatically over recent years thanks to apps and websites. Our guest on this episode, dating coach Damona Hoffman, knows just about everything about the topic: in addition to hosting two TV series on love & relationships for A&E, her coaching methods have recently been featured in People, Oprah Magazine, and the Washington Post. She's also a real life success story, having met her husband online. In this episode, she sheds some light on why singles of any age should give the apps a shot, how to make your dating profile stand out, conversation openers, great first date options, the best ways to follow up after that date, and why in the end, you should enjoy the process (even though it can be frustrating at the time) because it will all work out the way it's supposed to in the end. | 1/30/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Bryan E. Robinson: ...that it's okay to stop working and just #chill | Are you a workaholic? A perfectionist? An overachiever? Maybe all three of those things? Our guest on this episode, Dr. Bryan Robinson is a licensed psychotherapist who describes himself as a “recovering” workaholic. He’s the author of a new book aimed at helping people break the cycle of over-working. The book is called #Chill: Turn Off Your Job and Turn On Your Life. In this conversation, we talk about how to create a work-life balance, how to deal with burnout, why we shouldn't multitask, the best way to start out your day, and why everyone should try meditation. | 1/25/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Amy Morin/Alex Hutchinson: ...how to become mentally stronger | On this episode, we bring you excerpts from a couple of our Nobody Told Me! conversations with great guests who have a lot to offer in terms of helping you become stronger mentally and physically. First, we talk to Amy Morin, a psychotherapist whose TED Talk, “The Secret of Becoming Mentally Strong” has had more than 6 million views. Amy is the author of the international best-selling book, 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do. Next, we speak to fitness journalist and best-selling author Alex Hutchinson, who researched the limits of the human mind and body in writing his book, Endure: Mind, Body, and the Curiously Elastic Limits of Human Performance. He says that we are always capable of pushing a little farther and explains how to do that. | 1/22/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Elizabeth Emens: ...how to do less, do better, and live more | In this episode, we talk to Columbia Law School professor Elizabeth Emens about the disproportionate way couples split up life administrative work. She explains her research methods, the "sticky" nature of this type of work, and why it's often better to revert to paper and pen rather than a to-do list on your phone. Later, we find out strategies on asking your partner for help. Her new book is called 'Life Admin: How I Learned to Do Less, Do Better, and Live More'. | 1/18/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Catherine Sanderson: ...that it's gonna be okay | On this episode, we'll find out how so many aspects of your life are greatly impacted by the way you think about yourself. Our guest is Catherine Sanderson, Amherst College psychology professor and author of the new book The Positive Shift: Mastering Mindset to Improve Happiness, Health, and Longevity. Among other things, we discuss how to change negative thought patterns, the implications of comparing our lives to others, how to interact with social media in a positive way, and not letting your fear of failure keep you from trying. | 1/14/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Chris Guillebeau/Carol Roth: ...how to start a business, big or small | In this episode, we talk to Chris Guillebeau and Carol Roth about staring and running a business, big or small.Chris Guillebeau is the New York Times bestselling author of "The $100 Startup". He talks about how to identify what your side hustle should be and why simply doing something on the side, like driving for Uber/Lyft, does not count. He talks about how much money you need to start a business, whether your side hustle should become your full-time job, and ways to make quick cash. Next, we talk to Carol Roth, the New York Times bestselling author of "The Entrepreneur Equation" about why some people are entrepreneurial and others aren't. Among other things, she explains the first thing you need to do when starting a business, the importance of making real connections, and how to handle negative reviews. | 1/11/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Sue Klebold: ...the terrible things that you go through are what build you into a better human being | In this episode, we talk to Sue Klebold about how she would give her own life to stop her son Dylan's mass shooting at Columbine High School. Sue reveals how Dylan had no mental illness diagnosis, and no one knew about the dark depression he wrote in personal journals. Eventually, his suicidal thoughts turned homicidal, and his friendship with fellow shooter Eric Harris developed into extreme rage amongst the two which led to that unforgettable tragedy in 1999. We discuss how she has spent the last fifteen years excavating every detail of her family life and trying to understand the crucial intersection between mental health problems and violence, what she feels she missed in Dylan's mental state, the idea of forgiveness, and the urgent need to change how society responds to psychological disorders in order to prevent future tragedies. | 1/7/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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...how to manage time better and avoid procrastination | If one of your New Year’s resolutions is to make better use of your time, this is a must listen! In this episode, we’ll hear from a couple of experts who spend their time figuring out how to help others with time management and procrastination. Laura Vanderkam is the bestselling author of several books, including What the Most Successful People Do Before Breakfast, and her latest book, Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done. She says good time management plays a major role in determining your level of success in life. Next, we hear from Tim Pychyl, one of the world’s leading experts on procrastination and the author of the book, Solving the Procrastination Puzzle: A Concise Guide to Strategies for Change, about how to stop putting things off that are important to us. | 1/4/2019 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Kathrine Switzer: ...that I could do amazing things if I just believed in myself | This is an incredibly motivating episode to listen to as you make your New Year's resolutions! Kathrine Switzer is one of the most iconic figures in running. She was the first woman to officially run the Boston Marathon in 1967 and made history as she ran it again fifty years later in 2017 at the age of seventy! Kathrine was inducted into the National Women's Hall of Fame for creating a social revolution by empowering women around the world through running. In this episode, we discuss why and how she ran her first Boston Marathon, how it inspired the world to take women's running seriously, how to become a runner at any age (people in their nineties do marathons!), and how being an ordinary person who works harder than anyone else can give you the competitive edge over someone with natural talent. You can learn more about her at kathrineswitzer.com. | 12/31/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Tim Larkin: ...that hesitation can be the difference between life and death | In this episode, Jan and Laura talk to internationally known self-defense expert and New York Times bestselling author Tim Larkin about the ideas behind his books 'How to Survive the Most Critical 5 Seconds of Your Life' and 'When Violence is the Answer: Learning How to Do What It Takes When Your Life Is At Stake'. He explains how the average person can benefit from learning potentially lethal 'self-protection' moves, not just 'self-defense' moves, so they they can survive a dangerous situation. Later, Tim explains why hesitation can mean the difference between life and death, the importance of situational awareness, and how you may mindlessly be putting yourself in dangerous situations. You can learn more about him at his website, http://www.timlarkin.com. | 12/28/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Michael Crossland: ...you learn far more from a loss than you'll ever learn from a win | In this episode, we talk to the awe-inspiring Michael Crossland, who defied the odds of life-threatening cancer, heart attacks, and a horrific drug trial that killed all except for him -- all by the age of 18. He is at the forefront of today’s new generation of inspirational speakers and is the number one bestselling author of 'Kids Don't Get Cancer' across six different countries. We talk about the importance of perspective, how to deal with adversity, why it's best to set big goals, and why money doesn't equal happiness. You can learn more about him at http://michaelcrossland.com. | 12/23/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dr. Abigail Marsh: ...that altruists and psychopaths are connected by one emotion: fear | Joining us on this episode is Dr. Abigail Marsh, author of The Fear Factor: How One Emotion Connects Altruists, Psychopaths, and Everyone In-Between. It's been called an important book about the things that make some of us angels, some of us devils, and all of us human. She is an Associate Professor in the Department of Psychology and the Interdisciplinary Neuroscience Program at Georgetown University. We also have a great sponsor for this show, Rover. You'll hear their ad during this episode. You can sign-up to be a pet sitter through Rover at http://www.rover.com/nobody. | 12/18/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dr. Venus Nicolino: ...that love cures everything | On our show, we always like to offer good advice, but on this episode, we're going to explore bad advice...and the difference between good advice and bad advice! Our guest is Dr. Venus Nicolino, a clinical psychologist and relationship expert who you may know as the host of Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars. She also previously starred on LA Shrinks on Bravo and has been a guest on numerous other shows. She's the author of a new bestselling book called "Bad Advice: How to Survive and Thrive in an Age of B******t". You can sign up to be a pet-sitter for our sponsor, Rover, at http://www.rover.com/nobody. You can get 25% off your first personalized vitamin and supplement pack from our sponsor, Care/Of, by going to http://www.takecareof.com and entering the code "nobodytoldme" at checkout. | 12/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Nelson Dellis: ...that you can train yourself to have a great memory | This episode applies to everyone and is one of our favorites so far! Would you like to be able to remember things better? Do you struggle to remember the names of people you meet briefly at a party or in a work setting? Our guest, Nelson Dellis, can help. Nelson is a 4-time USA Memory Champion and one of the leading memory experts in the world. Nelson is also the author of Remember It! The Names of People You Meet, All of Your Passwords, Where You Left Your Keys, and Everything Else You Tend to Forget. | 12/10/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Susan Newman: ...that adult children don't have to please their parents all the time | Whether you're in you're twenties, forties, or sixties, there's always a part of you that wants to please your parents in just about everything you do...even if you don't want to admit it! This episode spotlights the relationships adult children have with their parents. Those relationships really come into focus during the holidays when families get together or perhaps DON’T get together because those relationships are strained. To help us explore relationships between parents and their adult children, we welcome social psychologist and author Susan Newman to the show. Susan is the author of several books, including, Under One Roof Again: All Grown Up and Relearning to Live Together Happily and The Book of No: 365 Ways to Say It and Mean It and Stop People-Pleasing Forever | 12/4/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dr. April Lane Benson: ...that the holidays can be much more joyous without material gifts | This is a holiday shopping episode you need to hear! Has your inbox been inundated with "SALE!" e-mails that you can't help but click on? During this time of year, it's almost impossible not to go overboard with buying gifts for friends and family (or yourself!). Our guest, Dr. April Lane Benson, is a nationally known psychologist who specializes in the treatment of compulsive buying disorder. On this show, Dr. Benson shares some great strategies for how to avoid shopping temptations, why 'experience' gifts make for a most memorable presents, and how to get through the holiday season in one piece. You can learn more about her at https://www.shopaholicnomore.com/. | 12/1/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Cait Flanders: ...that a year-long shopping ban would reset my finances and change my life | This is an episode that we can all benefit from! Cait Flanders is the best selling author of The Year of Less: How I Stopped Shopping, Gave Away My Belongings, and Discovered Life is Worth More Than Anything You Can Buy in a Store. Like so many of us, Cait found herself binge shopping and buying things she didn't need all too frequently. She went into debt, pulled herself out of it, and then found herself returning to her old habits. She took an extreme approach to change her financial situation: a shopping ban where she only allowed herself to buy essentials. She also decluttered her house, changed her eating habits, and took the time to find out what really mattered in her life. The book documents her year-long journey. You can learn more about Cait on her website at caitflanders.com or check her out on Instagram (@caitflanders). | 11/28/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Jacqueline Whitmore: ...that good etiquette will make your life much easier | We're very excited to welcome Jacqueline Whitmore to the show. She is one of the foremost experts on etiquette in the world today and is the author of Poised for Success: Mastering the Qualities That Distinguish Outstanding Professionals. She has appeared on countless major networks like ABC, CNBC, and CNN, and has been featured in the New York Times, USA Today, the Wall Street Journal, Time Magazine, and many others. In this episode, we talk about business etiquette, how to approach uncomfortable situations, how to make small talk, how social media has impacted our in-person interactions, and much more. You can learn more about her at https://etiquetteexpert.com/. | 11/23/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dan Schawbel: ...that it only takes one person to believe in you to change your life | Our guest on this episode is career and workplace expert Dan Shawbel, who is Partner and Research Director at Future Workplace, and the Founder of both Millennial Branding and WorkplaceTrends.com. Dan is also a New York Times best-selling author whose newest book is called Back to Human: How Great Leaders Create Connection in the Age of Isolation. He's interviewed more than two thousand of the best leaders in the world and has been featured as one of Forbes "30 Under 30". You can learn more about him at http://danschawbel.com. | 11/20/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Clean100th episode: some of our favorite 'nobody told me' lessons | This is the 100th episode of the show and we wanted to look back at some of the more memorable ‘nobody told me’ lessons our guests have shared with us. We’ve truly been honored to speak with each of our guests and they’ve given us so many wonderful anecdotes and pieces of advice that it’s tough to select highlights. All of them have been open and honest and the stories they’ve related are ones we can all identify with. In this episode, you’ll hear from: • Mitch Albom, bestselling author of “Tuesdays with Morrie”, who talks about passing on wisdom to the next generation • Hope Edelman, author of “Motherless Daughters”, who says that grieving the loss of a loved one is a lifelong process, but it doesn’t have to be a lifelong struggle• Dr. Guy Winch, whose TED talk “Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid” is ranked as one of the top five inspiring TED talks of all times, and says that to recover from any emotional blow, you need to manage your recovery proactively• Kidnapping victim Elizabeth Smart who explains why it’s your decisions, not your situation, that define you• Olympic gold medalist gymnast Nastia Liukin who talks about the importance of kindness• One of the world’s leading experts on happiness, Shawn Achor, who learned that success doesn’t equate to happiness• Todd Rose, a high school dropout turned Harvard researcher, who has studied countless people who have excelled by taking the road less traveled• Chris Voss, a former FBI International Hostage Negotiator, who talks about the importance of listening• Dr. Harriet Lerner, author of “Why Won’t You Apologize?”, who explains the importance of a heartfelt apology• Communication expert Carmine Gallo who says that we have more control over our mental state than we think we do, which means that we can choose how to respond to anything• Chris Guillebeau, New York Times bestselling author of The $100 Startup, who says that there is always another way, even if you don’t see it at the time• Amy Morin, international bestselling author of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do, who says that building mental muscle is similar to building physical muscle: you have to work hard to become strong• Drew Dudley, a leadership expert who tells us that the biggest impact on the world had nothing to do with his plans• Astronaut Mike Mullane says that nobody told him he was better than he thought he was• Psychology professor and author of “Popular” Mitch Prinstein who says that the kind of popularity he seeked out so badly in adolescence ultimately wouldn’t matter• Psychologist and compulsive shopping expert Dr. April Benson who explains that you can never get enough of what you don’t really need• Mark Rufenacht, founder and president of Dogs4Diabetics, who says that it’s okay to be different• Legendary radio talk show host Ronn Owens who tells us that every struggle has an end | 11/17/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Gemma Hartley: ...that dividing emotional labor in a relationship is a long process | Have you ever heard the term, “emotional labor”? It's that invisible, unappreciated caring you do for other people. You’re about to hear a lot about it as we talk with our guest, journalist Gemma Hartley, whose viral article "Women Aren't Nags, We're Just Fed Up" was viewed more than two BILLION times! Her new book is called Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward. | 11/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Gretchen Rubin: ...that everyone's "happiness project" is different | We're thrilled to welcome bestselling author Gretchen Rubin on this episode to talk about happiness. In her books, she draws from cutting edge science, the wisdom of the ages, lessons from popular culture, and her own experiences to explore how we can make our lives happier, healthier, more productive, and more creative. Her blockbuster book The Happiness Project spent more than two years on the New York Times bestseller list and sold more than 1.5 million copies. Her latest book is called The Four Tendencies: The Indispensable Personality Profiles That Reveal How to Make Your Life Better (and Other People’s Lives Better, Too). | 11/8/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Daniel Coyle: ...that you have to be vulnerable to build trust | Have you ever been part of a team or an organization that accomplished amazing things? Or have you been part of a team or group that just couldn't get its act together? What is it about the culture in some organizations that makes them toxic and why does the culture in other groups lead to happiness and success? For the answers to those questions, we turn to bestselling author Daniel Coyle, whose latest book is called The Culture Code: The Secrets of Highly Successful Groups. Daniel previously wrote bestsellers The Talent Code, The Little Book of Talent, The Secret Race (with co-author Tyler Hamilton), and Hardball: A Season in Projects. You can learn more about him on his website, which can be found at http://danielcoyle.com/. | 11/3/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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CeCe Moore: ...that I wouldn't find my passion until I hit my 40s | If you'd like to learn more about the rapidly expanding field of genetic genealogy, you're listening to the right show. Joining us is DNA expert CeCe Moore, an investigative genetic genealogist whose work has helped to solve high profile crime cases and helped connect individuals of unknown parentage with their biological relatives. You may be familiar with her from 20/20, Dr. Oz, 60 Minutes, and "Finding Your Roots". In this episode, we ask: * what is a genetic genealogist? (1:10) | * what makes your work so unique and the results so fast compared to what law enforcement has done in the past with DNA? (1:42) | * is the kind of DNA that is used in crime solving different than what everyday people submit to services like Ancestry.com and 23andMe? (2:35) | * why has the public recently become so interested in using genetic genealogy to solve crimes? (3:08) | * what is on the horizon with the field and its use in solving cold cases? (4:45) | * how do you choose which cases you take on? (5:38) | * does a DNA sample weaken over time? (6:36) | * where does the best DNA come from? (8:01) | * what is it like to meet with the families of the cold cases victims? (9:43) | * what does it feel like to see the suspect in a photograph once you've found the match? (11:35) | * what impact is this going to have on deterring violent criminals in the future? (13:08) | * how difficult would it be for the average person who is interested in genealogy to help solve genetic genealogy mysteries? (14:01) | * how has your work helping people find and reunite with their families (with 'foundlings') been different than your work with cold cases? (15:40) | * how did your interest in genealogy change from learning about your own family to helping others learn about theirs? (16:52) | * what advice do you have for people who want to determine their true parentage for DNA? where do they start? (19:33) | * how has genetic genealogy become easier in the past few decades? (21:15) | * what cases have had the most impact on you? (23:23) | * do your 'foundling' cases typically have a happy ending? (25:26) | * how is DNA going to be used to help identify bodies? (27:00) | * do you ever give up on a case? (29:08) | * what is your 'nobody told me' lesson? (31:24) | * how can people contact you and learn more about genetic genealogy? (32:23) | * You can learn about her work with the DNA Detectives by going to http://thednadetectives.com. | 10/30/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Todd Rose: ...prioritizing personal fulfillment is the most reliable path to success and happiness | “Dark Horse” is a term for those who triumph against the odds…for the winners nobody saw coming. And, “Dark Horse” is the very appropriate title of the new book by Harvard researcher Todd Rose which looks at men and women who’ve achieved impressive success, even though nobody saw them coming. Todd is an incredible example of this: he was a high school dropout who had two children by the age of twenty and was struggling to support his family on state benefits. Now, he's the director of the Mind, Brain, and Education program at the Harvard Graduate School of Education and a best-selling author. In this episode, Todd joins us to share his insights into why the standard formula for success may not be the best formula for you. You can learn more about Todd on his website at http://www.toddrose.com/.Questions asked include where did the term dark horse come from? (1:20), how did you take your own road to go from being on welfare to a Harvard professor? (1:41), what is The Dark Horse Project at Harvard? (3:18), what's typically the turning point for people where they decide it's ok to be a dark horse? (5:12), what role does fear play in making a big life change? (6:20), what should you do if you're considering going on a different path? (7:10), what are the four elements of the dark horse mindset? (9:54), if we haven't found our passion, how do we find it? (14:37), what percentage of the population do you estimate lives their lives according to someone else's notion of success? (16:35), why is sacrifice important? (18:46), what message does your work have for people who are approaching retirement and feel that they always went for the cookie cutter model of success and feel like it might be too late for them to blossom in another area? (20:13), why is there a stigma associated with being a millennial? (21:36), what advice do you have for a college student who needs to declare a major (24:00), what is the one piece of information that you think is most critical to share with new parents or frustrated parents who have children who are not excelling in a traditional environment? (25:40), who are some of the well known, successful dark horses? (26:57), what is your nobody told me lesson? (30:56). | 10/25/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Andrew Tarvin: ...the benefits of using humor in the workplace | On this episode, we welcome Andrew Tarvin, who calls himself the world’s first "humor engineer". He has helped hundreds of thousands of people at top organizations like Procter & Gamble, ESPN, PepsiCo, and Microsoft learn how to get better results while having more fun and has also been featured in Forbes and the Wall Street Journal. Andrew is the best-selling author of "Humor That Works: 501 Ways to Use Humor to Beat Stress, Increase Productivity, and Have Fun at Work". You can learn more about him at https://andrewtarvin.com. | 10/19/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Robin Dreeke: ...that the secret to success is being a resource to others | Robin Dreeke is the former head of the FBI's Behavior Analysis Program and a recognized expert in the field of interpersonal communication. He is also the founder and president of People Formula, an organization that offers advanced rapport building, training, and consultation. He is the author of several best-selling books, including The Code of Trust: An American Counterintelligence Expert's Five Rules to Lead and Succeed. In this interview, we talk about how to create an instant connection, why some communication styles work better than others, and why it's important to follow what he's deemed "the platinum rule": treating others as they want to be treated. | 10/15/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Mitch Albom: ...what it would be like when your mentors have passed on and it's your turn to pass on wisdom to the next generation | We’re very excited to welcome best-selling author, journalist, screenwriter, playwright, broadcaster and musician Mitch Albom to our show. Mitch’s books have sold more than 35 million copies worldwide. His book, Tuesdays With Morrie, is the most successful memoir ever published. His first novel, The Five People You Meet in Heaven, is the most successful US hardcover first adult novel ever.And now, Mitch has written a sequel to The Five People You Meet In Heaven. It’s called, The Next Person You Meet In Heaven. You can purchase it at booksellers everywhere. His website can be found at https://www.mitchalbom.com. | 10/10/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Mastin Kipp (part 2): ...it's okay to let yourself be supported | Get ready for part two with Mastin Kipp, one of our favorite guests ever! Mastin is a best-selling author, speaker, and creator of Functional Life Coaching, a personal development company for people who are seeking rapid transformation in their lives. Through his seminars, books, and retreats, he has helped more than 100 million people worldwide. Oprah Winfrey calls him, “a thought leader of the next generation of spiritual thinkers.” He's a firm believer that the only thing stopping people from success is their unresolved emotional traumas. In this conversation, we talk about topics that just about anyone can relate to: how to make sense of senseless tragedies, how crisis can lead to opportunity if we find meaning in it, productive ways to deal with anger, resentment, and regret, the importance of changing habits, and so much more.Mastin’s latest book is called, Claim Your Power: A 40-Day Journey to Dissolve the Hidden Blocks that Keep You Stuck and Finally Thrive in Your Life’s Unique Purpose. You can learn more about him at http://www.mastinkipp.com. | 10/7/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Melissa Radke: ...if you put yourself out there, people will identify with you | Joining us on this episode is someone you may not know yet, but will want to know…and will hear a lot more about in the future. Melissa Radke came to the attention of 40 million people as a result of the video blogs she began doing on Facebook in her spare time. Those video blogs featuring Melissa’s take on life started out as a hobby and soon became a full-time job, which has lead to public speaking engagements, a book and a television show. Melissa’s book is called, Eat Cake. Be Brave. She feels she was born to be herself and be a light in the world. Her energy is magnetic and her words are relatable to anyone who has ever felt self-doubt or struggled with finding their place. You can learn more about her at https://www.melissaradke.com. | 10/2/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Lisa McCubbin...as an author, I would fall in love with my subjects | Joining us on this episode is award-winning journalist and New York Times best-selling author Lisa McCubbin, whose latest book is called, "Betty Ford: First Lady, Women’s Advocate, Survivor, Trailblazer", which has been called the “landmark biography of one of the most admired and influential women of our time.” It's a gripping book and you can learn more about it at https://lisamccubbin.com/books/betty-ford/. | 9/27/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Nastia Liukin: ...that being a kind, compassionate human being is more important than being an Olympic gold medalist | We want to give a very warm welcome to our guest on this episode, Nastia Liukin. Nastia is, of course, an Olympic gymnastics all-around gold medalist, a television commentator, a top competitor on Dancing With The Stars, and the author of the book, Finding My Shine, which is her autobiography. Nastia’s passion these days lies in inspiring others. She's created an app, Grander, which enables young girls to be mentored by their biggest role models. In our conversation with Nastia, we discuss the path from being a little girl in the gym to winning gold at the Olympics, the impact of that on her life, the most defining moment of her career (it's not what you'd think it would be!), her thoughts on body shaming, and how she has overcome self-doubt. Nastia is a true inspiration and this is definitely a must-listen interview! You can learn more about her on her website at http://nastialiukin.com. | 9/23/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Greg Behrendt: ...that men need more nurturing than they’re willing to admit | Welcome to Nobody Told Me! I’m Jan Black and I’m Laura Owens. Joining us on this episode is Greg Behrendt, who’s a comedian, a consultant on Sex and the City, and the author of several books that have earned him the title of “relationship expert” as well. You may be familiar with his books, He's Just Not That into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys, It's Just a Date: How to Get 'em, How to Read 'em, and How to Rock 'em, and It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy. Greg’s latest book, co-authored with his wife, Amiira, is called, How to Keep Your Marriage From Sucking: The Keys to Keep Your Wedlock Out of Deadlock. | 9/18/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Chris Voss: ...the secrets of negotiation from a former FBI international kidnapping negotiator | Our guest on this episode is Chris Voss and we’ve wanted to have him on the show for a LONG time! Chris is a former international hostage negotiator for the FBI whose career brought him face-to-face with bank robbers and terrorists. His résumé is extremely impressive: he became the FBI’s lead international kidnapping negotiator, he’s taught negotiation at leading universities, given speeches that have had millions of views, and he’s now sharing with us the negotiation skills that helped him save lives.Chris says life is a series of negotiations you should be prepared for and he explains all about that in his book, Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if your life depended on it. Chris is the founder and CEO of the Black Swan Group which trains businesses, individuals, law enforcement and government personnel in negotiations.You can learn more about Chris at https://blackswanltd.com. | 9/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Ingrid Fetell Lee: ...that joy is all around us | It is a “joy” to welcome our guest on this episode, Ingrid Fetell Lee. Ingrid is the author of a wonderful new book called, Joyful: The Surprising Power of Ordinary Things to Create Extraordinary Happiness. In our conversation, she talks about how making small changes to our environment, like adding flowers to a room, can positively impact our mood. She also discusses how just being aware of the simple, everyday beauty in our surroundings can make us feel grateful and happier in the long run. You can learn more about Ingrid on her website: http://www.aestheticsofjoy.com/. You can watch her popular TEDx talk, "Where joy hides and how to find it", at https://www.ted.com/talks/ingrid_fetell_lee_where_joy_hides_and_how_to_find_it/transcript?language=en. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram at @ingridfetell. | 9/7/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Amy Purdy...all of life's highs and lows will make sense in the end | It is an absolute joy to welcome our guest on this episode, Amy Purdy. Nineteen years ago, when Amy was just 19, she contracted a form of meningitis, which led to septic shock and the loss of both of her legs, her kidneys and her spleen. Amy promised herself that if she survived, she would live the best life possible, she wouldn’t limit herself and she would somehow help others as a result of her journey. Amy has done all of that and more! Among other things, she is a three-time Paralympic medalist in snowboarding, a runner-up on Dancing With The Stars, and the author of the best-selling autobiography, On My Own Two Feet: From Losing My Legs to Learning the Dance of Life. You can connect with Amy on her Instagram and Twitter accounts (@AmyPurdyGurl) or on her website at http://amypurdy.com. | 9/4/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Guy Winch...how terribly painful the loss of a pet is | On this episode, we welcome Dr. Guy Winch, licensed psychologist and in-demand keynote speaker, back to the show to talk about healing from the loss of a pet. Dr. Winch was with us previously to talk about his book "How to Fix a Broken Heart", which aims to help people cope about a breakup or death of someone they love; that someone can be a pet and the loss is devastating. What can we do to heal and move forward from it? Why does it feel like we never fully get over it? Listen to find out the answers. You can watch his compelling TED talk "Why we all need to practice emotional first aid", which has gathered more than six and a half million views, at https://www.ted.com/talks/guy_winch_the_case_for_emotional_hygiene. His website is http://www.guywinch.com. | 9/1/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Sam Quinones: ...that the opioid epidemic started because people were silent | Every day, more than 115 people in the United States die after overdosing on opioids. The misuse of, and addiction to, opioids — including prescription pain relievers, heroin, and synthetic opioids such as fentanyl — is a serious national crisis that affects public health as well as social and economic welfare. But, how did it become such a big problem? For some insight into that, we turn to award-winning journalist Sam Quinones, who’s the author of the book, “Dreamland: The True Tale of America’s Opiate Epidemic”. You can learn more about him at http://www.samquinones.com. | 8/27/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Drew Dudley: ...that the biggest impact I was going to have on the world would have nothing to do with my plans | Drew Dudley is a leadership expert whose TEDx Talk, “Everyday Leadership: The Lollipop Moment”, has been voted one of the 15 most inspirational TED Talks of all time. Drew has writted a new book called, “This Is Day One: A practical guide to leadership that matters”. He believes that everyone has leadership qualities within themselves and is passionate about helping people discover those. You can learn more about Drew on his website at https://www.drewdudley.com. | 8/22/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Mastin Kipp...that no matter what, you're gonna be okay | Mastin Kipp is a best-selling author, speaker, and creator of Functional Life Coaching, a personal development company for people who are seeking rapid transformation in their lives. Through his seminars, books, and retreats, he has helped more than 100 million people worldwide. Oprah Winfrey calls him, “a thought leader of the next generation of spiritual thinkers.” He's a firm believer that the only thing stopping people from success is their unresolved emotional traumas. In this interview, he teaches us how to get past that and get to the next level in our lives. Mastin’s latest book is called, Claim Your Power: A 40-Day Journey to Dissolve the Hidden Blocks that Keep You Stuck and Finally Thrive in Your Life’s Unique Purpose. You can learn more about him at http://www.mastinkipp.com. | 8/18/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Shawn Achor: ...success wasn't going to lead to happiness | How would you like to unlock hidden sources of potential in yourself and others? Our guest, Shawn Achor, feels it’s possible to do just that. Shawn is the New York Times best-selling author of The Happiness Advantage and Before Happiness and is known as one of the world’s leading experts on the connection between happiness and success. His latest book, Big Potential: How Transforming the Pursuit of Success Raises Our Achievement, Happiness, and Well-Being, is now available on Amazon. You can learn more about Shawn on his website: http://www.shawnachor.com. | 8/12/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Diane Barth (part 3)...we need to rethink what a friendship is | Diane Barth is a psychotherapist and the author of 'I Know How You Feel: The Joy and Heartbreak of Friendship in Women's Lives'. She writes the blog, 'Off the Couch' for Psychology Today. In addition, her articles have been published in the Clinical Social Work Journal, Psychoanalytic Dialogues, Psychoanalytic Psychology, and other professional journals. We're thrilled to have Diane on the show for a third time to talk about anger, betrayal, and competition in friendships. You can learn more about Diane on her website at https://www.dianebarth.net. | 8/8/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Alex Hutchinson: ...that by being too cautious I was holding myself back | On this episode, we invite you to join us as we learn all about the limits of the human body and the human mind with our guest, fitness journalist and best-selling author Alex Hutchinson, whose latest book is called "Endure: Mind, Body, and the Curiously Elastic Limits of Human Performance". You can learn more about Alex at https://alexhutchinson.net. | 8/5/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Carmine Gallo...we can choose how to respond to anything | It's a pleasure to welcome Carmine Gallo to our show. Carmine is a communication coach for the world's most admired brands. He is the Wall Street Journal bestselling author of "Talk Like TED" and "The Presentation Secrets of Steve Jobs." His newest book, "Five Stars: The Communication Secrets to Get From Good to Great", is now available at bookstores everywhere. You can learn more about him and his work on his website at http://www.carminegallo.com. | 7/30/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Laura Vanderkam: ...you should choose to focus on the times in your life when things worked in your favor | Do you feel like there aren't enough hours in the day to get everything done? Our guest on this episode says that there are -- we just need to manage that time effectively. Laura Vanderkam is a time management expert and the bestselling author of several books, including What the Most Successful People Do Before Breakfast, and her latest book, Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done. Her TED talk, "How to Gain Control of Your Free Time", has had more than six million views. You can learn more about Laura on her website: lauravanderkam.com. You can buy Off the Clock at: https://www.amazon.com/Off-Clock-Feel-While-Getting/dp/0735219818/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=&dpID=51fTsylGLdL&preST=_SY344_BO1,204,203,200_QL70_&dpSrc=detail. You can watch her TED talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/laura_vanderkam_how_to_gain_control_of_your_free_time. | 7/25/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Arielle Ford: ...you have control over what you feel and experience | Arielle Ford is a best-selling author, and the sister of another best-selling author, the late Debbie Ford, who was an internationally recognized expert in the field of personal transformation. Arielle is with us today to talk about the book, “Your Holiness: Discover the Light Within”, which her sister, Debbie, wrote, but which wasn’t discovered and wasn’t published until recently. It’s a fascinating story and one from which we all can benefit. You can learn more about the book at: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Holiness-Discover-Light-Within/dp/1788171446. | 7/21/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Keely Chace...how important it is to make time for relationships with family and friends | Have you ever procrastinated about writing thank you notes? Have you ever felt awkward when it came time to write a “Get Well” card or a sympathy note? Have you ever struggled with finding the right words to sign off on a card --- should you say, “Love” or “Warmest regards”? Our guest, Hallmark Master Writer Keely Chace, is here to offer advice in dealing with all kinds of card, letter and note-writing situations. Keely is the author of several books, including "On a Personal Note: A Guide to Writing Notes with Style". You can find a lot of her writing tips in her “What to Write” series online at Hallmark.com. | 7/18/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Francesca Gino: ...that it would be important to bring rebelliousness into our lives | Would you describe yourself as a “rebel”? If so, you may have what it takes to become very successful! Our guest, award-winning Harvard Business School Professor and behavioral scientist Francesca Gino, has been studying rebels at organizations around the world for more than 15 years. She contends the most successful among us are those who break the rules and she shows how to do that in her new book called, “Rebel Talent: Why it pays to break the rules at work and in life.” You can check out the book at: https://www.amazon.com/Rebel-Talent-Pays-Break-Rules/dp/0062694634.Francesca's website is: http://francescagino.com. | 7/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Ellen Petry Leanse: ...life could be this hard, yet still filled with joy and satisfaction | We're thrilled to share this interview with Ellen Petry Leanse, a leading expert on technology and happy living, and the author of 'The Happiness Hack: How to Take Charge of Your Brain and Program More Happiness Into Your Life'. She's spent 35 years working with leaders at Facebook, Google, and Apple and is a respected Silicon Valley influencer. You can read more about Ellen at https://www.ellenleanse.com/. Her TEDx talk can be found at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i5p3NC9OwB0. You can buy the book at https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Hack-Charge-Brain-Program/dp/1492656917. | 7/9/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Carol Roth: ...that I couldn't do anything, so I never felt there were limitations to my success | Joining us on this episode is Carol Roth, a well-known advocate for entrepreneurship and small business. She's been an investment banker, business strategist and deal-maker, and is also the author of the best-selling book, "The Entrepreneur Equation". You can learn more about Carol on her website at https://www.carolroth.com. | 7/6/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Hope Edelman: ...grieving the loss of a close loved one is a lifelong process, but it doesn't have to be a lifelong struggle | One of the toughest things that can be faced by a girl or a woman of any age is the loss of her mother. Our guest, Hope Edelman, knows all about that. In fact, she knows more about it than most of us. Hope is an expert in the field of early mother loss and mother-daughter relationships. She's written extensively on those topics and is the author of "Motherless Daughters" and "Motherless Mothers", among others.You can learn more about Hope on her website: http://hopeedelman.com | 7/2/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Bobby Bones: ...you can turn your life into whatever you want it to be | If you're even somewhat of a country music fan, chances our you've heard of our guest. Bobby Bones is the host of the host of The Bobby Bones Show, which has an audience of more than five million per week. He's a member of the musical comedy group, "Bobby Bones & The Raging Idiots' and even mentored the top 24 on American Idol this year. His latest book, "Fail Until You Don't: Fight. Grind. Repeat.", is about how he and some of his famous friends made it through their failures and found their way to enormous success. You can check out his website at: https://bobbybones.iheart.comYou can buy his book at: https://www.amazon.com/Bare-Bones-Lonely-Youre-Reading/dp/0062417355 | 6/29/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Lori Deschene: ...to listen to my own voice over anyone else's. | Let’s face it—we all worry! We worry about work, money, relationships, our families, health..and other important life issues. We worry about things we’ve said and done, about how people perceive us, about what might go wrong and about things we can’t control. Our guest on this episode, Lori Deschene, is the author of a new book called, “Tiny Buddha’s Worry Journal—A creative way to let go of anxiety and find peace.” The "Tiny Buddha" community that she built online has more than three million monthly readers.You can check out Tiny Buddha at: https://tinybuddha.com/.You can buy the book at: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0062849875/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=tinbud-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=0062849875&linkId=c3b78eede1807eb2e501242c2509aacc | 6/26/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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CleanSally Quinn...nobody gets through life without pain | Longtime Washington Post journalist and author of "Finding Magic" | 6/22/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Mark Ruefenacht: ...it's okay to be different | Joining us on the show is Mark Ruefenacht, the founder and president of Dogs4Diabetics. Mark is recognized in the Guinness World Book of Records for training the world’s first dog to detect and alert on changing blood sugars in diabetics. On this episode, we'll learn how dogs can help detect changing blood sugars in diabetics.You can learn more about Dogs4Diabetics at https://dogs4diabetics.com/. | 6/14/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dr. Mark McLaughlin: ...how the core principles behind brain surgery can apply to our daily lives | Joining us for this episode is Dr. Mark McLaughlin, a neurosurgeon at Princeton Brain and Spine Care, who believes that all of us can benefit by taking the core principles behind brain surgery and applying them to any of life's problems. It's a fascinating concept, and one that Dr. McLaughlin writes about in an upcoming book, "Out-Thinking Fear: A Neurosurgeon's Secrets for Making Life's Hard Decisions", which will be available in 2019.You can learn more about Dr. McLaughlin by checking out his website (http://www.markmclaughlinmd.com), his Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/MarkMcLaughlinMD/), or his Instagram (@mmclaughlinmd). | 6/10/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Diana Butler Bass...there is a gap between our desire to be grateful and our ability to behave gratefully | Most of us know that gratitude is good…and good for us. But, many of us find it hard to sustain a meaningful life of gratefulness. So says Diana Butler Bass, who is the award-winning author of ten books on American religion. Her latest book is called, Grateful: The Transformative Power of Giving Thanks. She says “Gratefulness is not a magic fix, but it might just be the bright star directing us to a new and better place.” You can find more about Diana's latest book on her website: http://dianabutlerbass.com/. | 6/8/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Amy Medling...that PCOS (polycystic ovary syndrome) affects 1 in 10 women | It's estimated that five million American women suffer from polycystic ovary syndrome, also known as PCOS. It's a disorder that often goes undiagnosed or misdiagnosed and our guest on this episode, Amy Medling, is working to change that. Amy is a certified health coach who has PCOS herself and started the website, PCOSdiva.com. She's also the author of the new book, "Healing PCOS", which features a 21-day plan for reclaiming your health and life with polycystic ovary syndrome. You can check out Amy's website at https://pcosdiva.com/. You can buy the book at https://www.amazon.com/Healing-PCOS-Reclaiming-Polycystic-Syndrome/dp/0062748165/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8. | 6/4/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Ramie Liddle: ...how a year-long adventure with a 90-year-old woman with stage 4 cancer taught me to seize the day | On this episode of the show, we'll get a behind-the-scenes look at a very special journey undertaken by a 90-year-old woman who was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and advised to have surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation. That woman, Norma Jean Bauerschmidt, said no to conventional cancer treatments and yes to a life on the road. Going with her on that road trip of a lifetime was her son, Tim, and his wife, Ramie, who've written about the experience in the book, "Driving Miss Norma". It's all about one family's journey saying "yes" to living. The book can be purchased at https://www.amazon.com/Driving-Miss-Norma-Familys-Journey/dp/0062664328. The Facebook page, "Driving Miss Norma", has more than 500,000 likes. You can check it out at https://www.facebook.com/DrivingMissNorma/. You can learn more about Tim and Ramie's mission at their website, https://www.missnorma.com/. | 6/2/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Chris Guillebeau: ...there's always another way | Have you ever wanted or possibly NEEDED to have a new source of income quickly? Did you have any idea how to achieve that? Our guest, Chris Guillebeau, can help! Chris is the New York Times bestselling author of "$100 Startup" and "The Happiness of Pursuit". His latest book is called "Side Hustle: From Idea to Income in 27 Days". Chris also hosts the popular daily podcast, "Side Hustle School". You can learn more about Chris on his website at https://chrisguillebeau.com/. | 5/29/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dr. James Brandt...how blindness is being treated by Orbis' Flying Eye Hospital | A few months ago, Laura was driving by an airport in Florida and spotted a plane unlike anything she'd seen before. She was on the phone with her mom at the time (of course!) and told her about the plane, which had the words 'Flying Eye Hospital' written on the side. Like any good mother, Jan immediately Googled it. We decided this was something we had to learn more about! To help us do that, we welcome Dr. James Brandt to the program. Dr. Brandt is a professor of ophthalmology and vision science at UC Davis and has been on 20+ programs with Orbis and their Flying Eye Hospital. You can learn more about Orbis and the Flying Eye Hospital at https://www.orbis.org/en/what-we-do/flying-eye-hospital. | 5/27/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Harriet Lerner: ...how profoundly important a heartfelt apology is | Have you ever found it tough to say, “I’m sorry”? Have you ever longed for someone to apologize to you? If so, you’ll want to hear what our guest, Dr. Harriet Lerner has to say about apologies and why they can be so important in our relationships. Harriet is a well-known psychologist -- one of the nation's most loved and respected relationship experts -- and the author of the New York Times bestseller, "The Dance of Anger". Her latest book is called “Why Won’t You Apologize?...healing big betrayals and everyday hurts”. You can learn about Harriet by checking out her website at https://www.harrietlerner.com/. | 5/23/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Paul Schmucker and Todd Deeken: ...ask for forgiveness, not permission | There’s a lot that nobody told us about cars and we aim to fix that on this segment by talking with car enthusiasts Paul Schmucker and Todd Deeken who make it their business to help people decide what car is the right one for them. Paul and Todd co-host a show on the Velocity Channel, produce YouTube films and feature-length films, and host the Everyday Driver Car Debate podcast on iTunes. Their website is http://www.everydaydriver.com. | 5/20/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Jim DeFelice: ...about real-life American heroes | Jim DeFelice has always been fascinated by heroes. He's s the co-author of bestsellers like "American Sniper", "American Wife", and "Code Name: Johnny Walker". His latest book is called "West Like Lightning: The brief, legendary ride of the Pony Express". In this interview, he talks about some of the great legends of American Western history who were associated with the Pony Express. You can check out his website at http://www.jimdefelice.com/home.html. | 5/16/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Elizabeth Smart...it's your decisions that define you | In 2002, when she was just fourteen years old, Elizabeth Smart was kidnapped at knifepoint by a pedofile from her home in Utah. She endured nine months of being shackled, raped, starved, and threatened by her kidnappers, Brian David Mitchell and his wife, Wanda Barzee, before she was rescued and reunited with her family.Her new book, "Where There's Hope: Healing, Moving Forward, and Never Giving Up", is an inspiring read and is available through booksellers everywhere.You can read more about Elizabeth at http://www.elizabethsmart.com. | 5/11/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Nancy Ancowitz...you can reach as high as you want to reach | A lot of people see themselves as introverts. They stay silent in meetings, eat lunch alone, never brag about themselves, speak softly, and wait to be approached in social situations. Our guest, business communications coach Nancy Ancowitz, describes herself as an introvert and specializes in helping introverts excel in an extroverts world. Nancy is the author of the book, "Self-Promotion for Introverts: The Quiet Guide to Getting Ahead". You can check out her website at https://www.nancyancowitz.com. Her book is available at https://www.amazon.com/Self-Promotion-Introverts-Quiet-Guide-Getting/dp/007159129X. | 5/6/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Daniel Chidiac: ...your visions will become your reality if you just hold onto them | Just a few years ago, Daniel Chidiac was sitting in his bedroom with a blank notepad in front of him and a burning desire to share the lessons he'd learned about shaping your own destiny after hitting rock bottom. After thousands of hours of hard work, Daniel turned that blank notepad into an Amazon.com bestselling book called, "Who Says You Can't? YOU DO", which is all about helping you create the life of your dreams. There's a reason more than half a million people follow his Instagram: his words of wisdom are life changing. Check it out at https://www.instagram.com/whosaysyoucantyoudo. You can buy his book at https://www.amazon.com/Who-Says-You-Cant-Do/dp/0987166506 | 5/4/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Carina Chocano...it's still not a level playing field for women | As a child, our guest, Carina Chocano, was confused by the mixed messages all around her about how to be a woman. The messages told her who she could be and who she couldn't. After spending five years as a movie critic, Carina came to understand how the stories our culture tells us about what it means to be a girl limit our lives and shape our destinies. She's written about that in her new book, titled 'You Play the Girl: On Playboy Bunnies, Stepford Wives, Train Wrecks, & Other Mixed Messages'. You can learn more about Carina by going to her website at https://www.carinachocano.com/about And you can buy the book at https://www.amazon.com/You-Play-Girl-Stepford-Messages-ebook/dp/B01912P4NA | 4/29/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Jordan Harbinger: ...anyone can learn how to build a network | Our guest for this episode is Jordan Harbinger, host of the appropriately named podcast 'Jordan Harbinger Show'. Forbes Magazine named him one of the fifty best relationship builders anywhere. His focus is on magnetism, charisma, and personal growth. He's a relationship coach whose goal is to teach people how to use better social skills to improve their business and personal relationships. | 4/24/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Sally Helgesen: ...to have more confidence to speak up | What does it take to get a raise, a promotion, or… | 4/21/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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E. Scott Geller: ...that the key to achieving your goals is simple: one step after the other | E. Scott Geller is a nationally recognized leader… | 4/15/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Adam Leipzig: ...not to ask for permission, just do it | It’s hard to know where to start with the introdu… | 4/10/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Tanya Menon: ...to think about the kind of connections you'd like to have at the end of your life | Tanya Menon is an organizational researcher speci… | 4/3/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Melissa Dahl: ...'cringeworthy' moments should be treasured! | New York magazine’s “Science of Us” editor, Melis… | 3/26/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Joy Press: ...how many times you have to fail to become a success | Female writers, producers, and directors have sha… | 3/22/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Ronn Owens: ...what really counts is family | Our guest is Jan's husband and Laura's father, Ro… | 3/18/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Guy Winch: ...to recover from any emotional blow, you need to proactively manage your recovery | Let's face it..there are few things in life that … | 3/16/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Jane Adams: ...relationships between parents and kids are kind of like marriages | Today, we’re looking at the relationship between … | 3/14/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Jeff Burkhart: ...the minute you make a rule, people will try to get around it | What’s it like to be a bartender? How do you han… | 3/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Anthony Davenport: ...how to deal with debt collectors | You probably don’t spend a lot of time thinking a… | 3/10/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dr. Faye Jamali: ...that addiction could happen to anybody | Every day, more than 115 Americans die everyday a… | 3/9/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dr. April Benson: ...you can never get enough of what you don't really need | Over 18 million Americans are shopaholics. They s… | 3/5/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Jason Shen: ...there are no rules in life | Not too many of us hold jobs that line up directl… | 3/5/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Tracy Alloway: ...working memory can be improved | Tracy Packiam Alloway is an award-winning psychol… | 3/2/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Diane Barth (part 2): ...about mother/daughter relationships | Diane Barth is a psychotherapist and the author o… | 2/28/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Mark Henick: ...resilience is the ability to deal with struggle, not to avoid it entirely | Mark Henick is a mental health advocate and speak… | 2/25/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Diane Barth: ...there are many definitions of friendship | Diane Barth is a psychotherapist and the author o… | 2/23/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Zak Dychtwald: ...how young China will change the world | Zak Dychtwal is the 27-year-old author of the new… | 2/22/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Amy Morin: ...gaining mental muscle is a lot like building physical muscle | Amy Morin is a psychotherapist and the author of … | 2/21/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Bosco Anthony: ...before you can change, you have to accept where you are today | Bosco Anthony is the founder of Tribe 1, a top di… | 2/19/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Lilia Tarawa: ...I could be happy if I followed my heart | Lilia Tarawa is an extraordinary woman who has li… | 2/19/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Stephanie Culp: ...how decluttering your belongings can streamline your life | Stephanie Culp is publically recognized in the fi… | 2/17/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Lauren Howe: ...why some people get over breakups more easily than others | Dr. Lauren Howe is a social psychologist from Sta… | 2/17/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Lisa Elzey: ...the importance of preserving family history | Lisa Elzey joined Ancestry.com in 2012 as a famil… | 2/17/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor: ...how a stroke feels | Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor is an inspiration like no o… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Tim Pychyl: ...why we procrastinate | Tim Pychyl is the one of the world's leading expe… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Russell Hannon: ...how to travel at a fraction of the going rates | Like so many of us, Russell Hannon, wanted to tra… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Bob Sutton: ...how to deal with assholes | Bob Sutton is the New York Times best-selling au… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Bryan C. Taylor: ...that life can be a fairytale, even when it's a tragedy | Bryan C. Taylor has experienced the highest high … | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dr. Kathy Hull: ...about the wisdom of terminally ill children | Dr. Kathy Hull is a true hero. She is the founde… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Mitch Prinstein: nobody told me...about popularity | Mitch Prinstein is the UNC director of clinical p… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Susan J. Elliott: ...how to turn a breakup into the best thing that's even happened | Susan J. Elliot is a sought-after dating commenta… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Diane Benscoter: ...how to recognize and break free from manipulation | Why does someone decide to join a terrorist group… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Curtis Carroll "Wall Street": ...how to transform yourself into an inspiration | We first learned about Curtis Carroll (aka "Wall … | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Mike Mullane: ...what it's like to be in space | Mike Mullane was selected as a Mission Specialist… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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David Allen: ...how to be productive | David Allen is widely recognized as the world's l… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Deborah Tannen: ...about women's friendships | Deborah Tannen has spent her career studying the … | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Tiffany Aliche: ...how to manage money | Tiffany Aliche, more commonly known as ‘The Budge… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Evan Goldstein: ...about the basics of wine | Evan Goldstein, MS, is one of the nation’s most p… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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John Kralik: ...how the act of saying 'thank you' can turn your life around | John Kralik is the author of "365 Thank Yous, the… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dr. Jack Schafer: ...how to instantly read people | Dr. Jack Schafer is a retired FBI special agent w… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Kevin Briggs: ...how to help those who are suicidal | Sergeant Kevin Briggs is a retired California Hig… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Sherri Franklin: ...why people should consider adopting senior dogs | Sherri Franklin is the founder and executive dire… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Dr. Rick Hanson: ...how to hardwire happiness into our lives | Rick Hanson, Ph.D., is a psychologist, Senior Fel… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Bruce Tulgan: ...how to manage millennials (special with Laura Owens) | Bruce Tulgan is an adviser to business leaders al… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Marty Nemko: ...how to pick or switch careers | Marty Nemko is a longtime career coach. He’s her… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Brian Tschida: ...why you need to take care of your body (special with Laura Owens) | Brian Tschida is a personal trainer and group fit… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Ben Zorn: ...the basics of fitness (special with Laura Owens) | Ben Zorn is a fitness expert from San Jose. He i… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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...about change (a special conversation with Jan Black and Laura Owens) | What do you wish someone had told you when you we… | 2/13/2018 | Free | View in iTunes |
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Nobody Told Me
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