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Not By Accident

By Sophie Harper | Wondery

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Can you imagine becoming a single mother by choice, not by accident? I’ve been chronicling my own journey for six years to tell this story, about making choices and taking action to live the life you want. If you’re a parent, want to be a parent, or just love good storytelling, this podcast is for you.

Customer Reviews


I love this so much, Sophie. So honest and from the heart, and well produced. Excellent background soundtrack, too, that really brought it to life. I had my second insemination yesterday, and playing this podcast felt like hearing some of my own story spoken aloud. Like having a friend in the room who really understands what I've just gone through. Thank you so very much for this!

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So wonderful Sophie! I am so lucky to have had you as a teacher! I love listening to this and learning more about you. Very well done!

So, so lovely.

A friend recommended this podcast, and I’m so very glad she did. I had my daughter on my own 11 months ago, and found myself in tears and nodding along to the first episode. Sophie, you have so beautifully captured all the joyful, nervous, intense feelings of the very start of this journey. Thank you so much for sharing, I can’t wait to hear more.