301 episodes

A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.

Sounds Fake But Okay Sounds Fake But Okay

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.7 • 296 Ratings

A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.

    Ep 299: Gold Star Asexuality and "Actual Asexuals"

    Ep 299: Gold Star Asexuality and "Actual Asexuals"

    Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the concept of gold star asexuality and the harm and confusion caused by a community of "actual asexuals"

    Kayla Kaszyca
    P.O. Box 410021
    Cambridge, MA 02141


    Sarah Costello
    P.O. Box 16453
    North Hollywood, CA 91615
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    • 52 min
    Ep 298: The Rise of Smutty Books

    Ep 298: The Rise of Smutty Books

    Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about the mainstreamification of smutty books, our desire for a rating system in books, and how we feel about the rise of smut as aspecs.
    Content Notice: slavery, violence against black people, murder, discussions of sex (at Wimbledon), and mention of the phrase "quivering member."

    Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-rise-of-smutty-books    


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    • 53 min
    Ep 297: Body Count

    Ep 297: Body Count

    Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about the very stupid concept of a body count AKA how many people you've had sex with and the dangers of using body count as a stand-in for the value someone puts on sex

    Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/body-count    
    Content Notice: Harmful stereotypes about mental illness, general discussions of sex, mentions of sexism
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    • 57 min
    Ep 296: Am I The Asshole pt. 9

    Ep 296: Am I The Asshole pt. 9

    Hey what's up hello! You know what time it is — it's time to prowl the depths of Reddit to figure out what on Earth is going on out there.

    Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/am-i-the-a*****e-pt-9   

    Books with acespec and arospec characters: https://bookshop.org/lists/books-with-acespec-and-arospec-characters?    

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    • 49 min
    Ep 295: Couple Privilege

    Ep 295: Couple Privilege

    Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about the evil that is couple privilege and how it disadvantages single people AND couples alike.

    Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/couple-privilege   

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    • 1 hr 2 min
    Ep 294: Q&A - aspec activism, friendship, the allos, & more!

    Ep 294: Q&A - aspec activism, friendship, the allos, & more!

    Hey what's up hello! This week we're taking the time to answer your questions about everything from aspec activism to our favorite places to travel.

    Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/qa-aspec-activism-friendship-the-allos-more    
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    • 50 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
296 Ratings

296 Ratings

leila dando ,

Best podcast

I LOVE THIS PODCAST!! I haven’t found any other podcasts or shows about the experiences of aspec ppl! Do more pls!

Aidene Siannodel ,

From one ace to two others…

…you know you’re doing a good job when the ace/arophobes are review bombing you with indecipherable garble, probably without even listening to a full episode. Love you Sarah and Kayla, you’re helping me get through my days!

Parents In Training ,

Weekly Smiles, Laughs, and thoughtfulness

Weekly Smiles, Laughs, and thoughtfulness

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