The Sugar Baby Confessionals
By Sara-Mae Tuson: Writer, editor and podcaster
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This is a true story unfolding over one season. What if your best friend – your best, married friend – embraced the sugar baby lifestyle – not by necessity, but by choice? Sara-Mae Tuson’s BFF, Ruby, did just that. Sexy? Scary? Judge for yourself. We follow two years of Ruby's life, so it's important to listen from Episode 1. In the Sugar Baby Confessionals, the girl talk gets candid as Sara-Mae and Ruby talk about love, sex and life as a Sugar Baby.
||ExplicitEpisode 15 - The cookie crumbles||The season finale||7/23/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 14 - Plum Duff||Madelaine's final catch up - 1 year later...||7/9/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||CleanEpisode 13 - Tipsy Tart Part 2||Sex work and the psyche + battling stigma feat. Bibi Lynch and Miranda Kane||6/29/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 12 - Tipsy Tart (Part 1)||Everything you need to know about feminism and sex work||6/20/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 11 - Summer Berry Grunt||Ruby updates us on what’s happening with her, FP and the Brit. With her marriage on the verge of breakdown, she has realised that she is polyamourous and in love with both the Brit and FP. FP is deeply unhappy about this. Can they find a way to make..||6/13/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 10 - Pretzel||Ruby and Madelaine - 7 months later!||6/6/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 9 - Raspberry fool||An interview with The Brit||4/24/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 8 - Upside Down Cake||(Theme: Secrets) Ruby talks about the difficulties of keeping her alternative lifestyle choice from friends and family. She also opens up about meeting an uber-narcissist and why she decided to turn him down as a sugar daddy. Get in touch: Fancy...||4/9/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 7 - Stollen||(Theme: Religion) Ruby was brought up Catholic AND as a Jehovah's Witness. Has religion affected her attitude to sex? Ruby updates us on her shenanigans with the Brit, including a wild night of DIY bondage. Yep, actual DIY. She also drops a bombshell...||4/2/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 6 - Sno Balls||Episode 6: Sno Balls (Theme: Power) We discuss the power dynamics of the sugar baby relationships. Ruby and the Brit have sex on a giant beanbag (crunch, crunch, crunch). Are male and female roles evolving? More sugar daddy anecdotes. Books mentioned:..||3/26/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 5 - Pound Cake II||Episode 5 - cash||3/12/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 4 - Pound cake - part I||We discuss filthy lucre. How much do the sugar babies charge? How awkward are those exchanges and how do they feel about accepting money for the use of their bodies? Ruby is thinking about going exclusive with the Brit because the sex is so good....||3/5/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 3 - Ladyfingers||Talking about sex can be awkward as hell. We discuss ways to ignite your love life, even as a ‘vanilla’ person within a committed, monogamous relationship. Ruby describes what she does to prepare for her sugar daddy encounters. She also tells...||2/26/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 2 - Gingerbread men||In this post-Valentine’s Day episode, we explore the idea of love as it pertains to the sugar babies. We also meet our second sugar baby, Madeleine. The sugar babies explain more about how their arrangements with their sugar daddies are structured....||2/19/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitEpisode 1 - Devil's food cake||In this episode, listeners are introduced to Ruby, Sara-Mae's married BFF - a newbie to the sugar baby lifestyle. We learn more about what a sugar baby is, how Ruby got involved, as well as what the terms ‘vanilla’ and ‘hot-wiving’ mean. Ruby...||2/8/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
The stories are boring, and the title does not match the convo. Example, the Nigerian sugar baby in the title.....I did not hear anything about it for the first 20 mins.
I want more of this
What a fascinating story! I listened all the episodes in 2 days, I couldn’t stop
Much more than you expect
This podcast has intimate details and will satisfy your (voyeuristic) sweet tooth but it’s also a thoughtful look at monogamy, feminism, sexuality, and womanhood. Host Sara-Mae asks all the right questions and does a bit of soul-searching, too. Recommended!