By Tucker Winstanley, Tom Ella
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Modern romance done wrong. A dating podcast from two guys who definitely shouldn't have a dating podcast.
||Explicit2: Phone sex and bad decisions||Tucker and Tom explore the awkward beginnings of phone sex and the awkward endings of bad dates. It's been a few months since Tucker and Tom got to sit down one on one and catch each other up on their personal lives. Who's dating whom and how does someone hit the eject button on a bad date? Let's talk about it. If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes. It really does make a difference! Follow us on Twitter or Instagram: @undesirablespod @mrthomasella @tuckerwins||2/20/2019||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitSeason 2 Episode 2 Trailer||See you 2/20||2/18/2019||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit1: What brings you in?||Tucker and Tom are back... in relationship therapy. After what some would call "a season's worth of misery" and others would call "friendship," Tucker and Tom decide it's time to bring their problems to Deanna Richards, a licensed mental health counselor and relationship therapist, to get things back on track. Along the way we hit the logistics on how to fit an entire polyamorous relationship on a two-person couch, the self-esteem hit of dating apps, and how the political climate has collided with online dating. As always, let us know what you think by leaving a five-star review on Apple Podcasts. You can find Tucker at @tuckerwins, Tom at @mrthomasella, and The Undesirables @undesirablespod. Photography by the talented and patient Sam Liebeskind who you can find at samliebe.com.||2/14/2019||Free||View in iTunes|
||ExplicitSeason 1 Trailer||The Undesirables are coming back for season 2 on Valentine's Day 2019! Catch up on season 1 now.||11/28/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit13: The opposite of peaked||Season one is over so Tucker and Tom take a hot minute to reflect on all the mistakes they made along the way.||5/30/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit12: Lucy Sweetkill||Special guest and professional dominatrix Lucy Sweetkill teaches Tucker how to choke someone sexually without totally murdering them and tells Tom exactly what kind of bottom he is.||5/9/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit11: You get away with words||Tucker breaks up with New York for the weekend while Tom perfects the art of not getting dates.||4/25/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit10: You Up?||Tucker and Tom sit down with the developers of a new late night dating app to ask a very important question... You Up?||4/18/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit9: The only item on my to-do list was "kill self"||Tucker and Tom swap stories to figure out who breaks up with people the worst. Is it too close to call? Let us know.||4/11/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit8: One of us is gonna have to agree to kill ourselves||Not even 10 episodes in, Tom finally replaces Tucker.||4/4/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit7: Generalizations about women||Tom reveals the results of his human experiments while Tucker and special guest Rachel pat each other on the back for leading on romantic interests.||3/28/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit6: The heat death of the universe||Tom sabotages his chances at finding love by being too cheap again. Tucker has an anxiety attack LIVE ON AIR.||3/21/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit5: Listen man, give it to me harder||Tom sees the sunrise. Tucker sees only guilt.||3/14/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit4: You don't know what debauchery I get into||Tom's got big news and Tucker pulls defeat from the jaws of success.||3/7/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit3: Uncomfortable places, uncomfortable spaces||Tucker and Tom both score dates and immediately find themselves in over their heads.||2/28/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit2: Having sex with a real human being for a change||In a desperate quest for intimacy, Tom finds himself with a fresh perspective on the hookup app Pure.||2/21/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
||Explicit1: Oh god, what are we doing?||Your introduction to Tucker and Tom, two guys just trying their best.||2/14/2018||Free||View in iTunes|
You're Correct. Bumble is a Dumpster Fire.
Thank you for shining a light on how Bumble is the fracking WORST, for both men and women alike. It's a dumpster fire of a dating app and does not deserve its street cred. - A fellow-UMW-alum subscriber
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1. This opened my eyes to the users of dating apps, as I myself am just beginning to embark on this journey I found it quite useful.
2. I’m fine with the poop!
3. Tom, be nice to Tucker.
I’d like to hear more about poop. Have you considered a pivot?